Awesome response Fear, If I may,
1) 100% accurate on the "seed marriage" fortunately for me, we actually were legitimate and had way too much documents to prove, HAHAAHA, Pictures, phone bills, texts etc etc. Was funny when the investigator reviewed our case they laughed at us in comparison to some other really bad "seed" cases they have seen LOL!
2) Again been to the the middle east, and was very active in the, communities, I was very familiar with the UNs dealings, refugee camps and even vetting process to my specific scope. That being said, moving a whole refugee camp to a nation is a big expense, culture shock and more so asking for conflict. With that when conflict spills over.
3)You are right, those that did not pass, didnt get in, but again when its a huge influx of them and they seem to be bypassing systems faster than those that go through the proper channel. Its seems a bit odd.... using the "refugee" clause as an excuse. You are right, my situation, looking at "Seed" marriage, is a problem but not of direct security and threat to national security. Yet some refugees are admit almost instantly and then vetted after the fact.
4) I will go back to the overwhelming, how many people can we "US" handle..... It is overwhelming, it cost money to provide subsidies, and these are NOT American Citizens. Without being PC, I pay taxes, my taxes goes to X funds..... Why should I pay taxes for refugees...that are not citizens, it should go to my fellow citizens first?
5) As for living and being squeezed.... Sorry the world is not perfect..... I know multi generational families that squeeze in a small apartment, in a First world Country... am I to worry about a 3rd world country that I have no direct, relationship with.
6) Absolutely, agree.. the media paints a terrible picture and the proof is in the research and that is what I am doing. SO I truly appreciate your input and not a need to apologies, were are keeping it very civil and I respect that!
7) There is a bunch of hysteria...... I agree that it is horrible overblown..... but again.... I am an American Citizen, I pay my taxes, vote, volunteer in my community. I also served in my nations military. I married a women not of natural citizenship out of love and we are happily married with 1 child and another on the way. I went through the full legal process and the scrutiny of the immigration process. With all that being said..... Why should I care about refugees? and finally...one last useless tid bit...why should I care about illegal immigrants? My wife could have illegally over stayed her Visa.... But we chose to follow the laws of the land.
With that, thank you for your kinds words, My condolences to your loss and I hope you are doing well. I am sure your wife is smiling at you for whom you are! Take care my friend!