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Faster or Slower?

Binary_Digit

Binary_Digit

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Do you like having sex kinda fast or kinda slow?

I tend to like it slower because I can get into other aspects of it besides just the sexual feeling, like the skin-on-skin contact, foreplay (or would that be during-play?), and overall just taking in the entire experience. Of course, unless it's been a while, I might speed it up in order to wrap it up...but even then, I don't like it extremely fast. Being hot and sweaty or the sound of bodies slapping together has always been a turn-off for me. Plus I tend to hold my breath, which doesn't go good with intense exercise.
 
We usually kind of alternate: fast, slow, fast, slow.
Usually, it depends on my husband, since he's the one doing most of the moving (yeah, yeah; I'm a boring **** :lol:).
Maybe he starts going slower when he gets tired; I never really questioned the reasoning behind his rhythm.
If he's taking a long time and I'm ready for it to be over, sometimes I'll start bucking back fast, and that usually makes him cum pretty quick. It's a way to wrap it up.
 
1069 said:
sometimes I'll start bucking back fast, and that usually makes him cum pretty quick. It's a way to wrap it up.
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Yeah, that feels neat when you bend it around inside like that. Usually gets me too.

But you don't have a preference at all?
 
Binary_Digit said:
Yeah, that feels neat when you bend it around inside like that. Usually gets me too.

But you don't have a preference at all?
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I guess my preference is, like I said, faster-slower-faster-slower.
If I preferred that we go hard and fast the entire time, or slow the entire time, i'd tell him, and that's what he'd do.
But my preference is that he just do what feels right to him, which seems to be alternating speeds every couple of minutes.
 
Generally, slower to begin with and faster towards the end. So really, a bit of both, depending on how we both feel. Having it at just one speed the whole way through would be pretty monotonous.
 
I like mediumer. :mrgreen:
 
I tend to prefer faster speeds. Slow rhythms don't work too well in getting me off.
 
Just depends, sometimes faster and sometimes slower. When I'm in a nice romantic mood and just want to make slow sensual love, slow works nice. But sometimes I get really heated up by the foreplay and just want it fast and hard. I don't really have a preference for everyday sex, just as long as it gets me off. This morning was nice and slow, but it was one of those slow wake up days. It's snowing here and it's just so damn hard to leave a nice warm bed and a hot body.
 
I like it hard and fast. But not for the whole duration of sex. But that definitely is my preference.
 
Tucker Case said:
I wonder how sex in a blender would feel.....


*testing hypothesis*


Yep. Very painful.
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Hmm that would all really depend on how bad the car accident was and what all occured during it. But still, maybe the pain would have a bit of pleasure involved hmm?
 
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