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Why create a situation that doesn't need to exist with your suggestion of 'payback'?

It's not payback. It's "you will respect my daughter, or you will suffer repercussions".
 
Those are quite good. :thumbs:

I felt bad even writing them...
I, personally, would probably never actually say any of those sentences.

But hey, maybe I haven't meant the SOB who deserves it yet.
 
It's not payback. It's "you will respect my daughter, or you will suffer repercussions".

OK (see, I just showed you how it's done).
 
That's true.

This is not about him or his reputation. It's about how he treats your daughter and if you're okay with that continuing. He will not stop unless confronted.
 

Ooooo, I like "Now I know why everybody talks about you." The other suggestions are way, way too complicated. I mean, this guy is a hulking, gut-over-the-belt jerk.

Elvira and Luther are right, and I know it. Dammit. I just want--JUST ONCE!--to speak up.

Only chance of my running into him is the same convenience store where the kid did. I may have months or years before this might happen, so...I see him, walk up to him, and say, "Hi, Derek. You cussed out my kid." And after that I'm stumped. How about "You're a wife-beating, animal-abusing creep" and then I just walk out?
 

Good point, but incorrect. They won't. I'm unfailingly polite and cheerful; I just am. He's one of those guys who looks like exactly what he is.
 
If the OP hands their daughter the OP of this thread, that should go a long way toward restoring the dignity of the daughter. No need to reciprocate the hate, though.

You're right. <great heaving sigh>
 
I think some of the suggestions herein would be different if Nota was a man.
 
This is not about him or his reputation. It's about how he treats your daughter and if you're okay with that continuing. He will not stop unless confronted.

He is never going to stop being what he is (without divine interference, I mean).
 
Good point, but incorrect. They won't. I'm unfailingly polite and cheerful; I just am. He's one of those guys who looks like exactly what he is.

OK, then you need not alter your behavior at all.
 
He is never going to stop being what he is (without divine interference, I mean).

Of course. But you can change his behavior towards your daughter. That's all that matters.

If you're really not up to it, even after you practice a bit, you could hire someone to talk to him. A private investigator that spends a couple weeks on him and then confronts him about his behavior towards your daughter should suffice.
 
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Go beat your head against a wall, it will be just as effective and hurt less.
 



Superior people have their actions and reproachments reacted to. They do not react to others' reproachments and recriminations of them.
 
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How old is old? Like real old? Like the holy undead?

If he's that fucking decrepit, you're probably just better off letting it go. You challenge him, it goes south, you hand him his ass, and you'll be the bad guy, no matter what. No one'll give a shit about the details, especially if it makes the local rag. They'll just see some sweet old man being assaulted by a local scumbag. Seriously, perception works that way. Then you'll be the one getting your ass kicked, every time you go out.

Ignore the dreadful old cunt. He'll be dead soon enough.
 
I felt bad even writing them...
I, personally, would probably never actually say any of those sentences.

But hey, maybe I haven't meant the SOB who deserves it yet.

I haven't done that sort of thing in decades. But I haven't run into the a-hole boss who sexually harassed my wife to the point she had to quit her job. (this was a couple of years before we met) That's the situation that came into my head reading this thread.
 
What would it cost to have a licensed PI spend a couple weeks gathering dirt/ammo and then confront him about his behavior towards the daughter perhaps with threat of filing charges?

I get some would prefer to avoid direct conflict. That's an indirect kick in the face that costs less than a grand.

It doesn't have to be direct, it's still standing up for oneself.
 
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Oh Jesus. I hope that you and your kid are safe from that horrible man.

If you want an idea for a clever, swear-free insult, you could put your own twist on this:

 
Oh Jesus. I hope that you and your kid are safe from that horrible man.

If you want an idea for a clever, swear-free insult, you could put your own twist on this:


Awesome! I think "You are more reptile than man" might penetrate.
 
Oh Jesus. I hope that you and your kid are safe from that horrible man.

If you want an idea for a clever, swear-free insult, you could put your own twist on this:


That movie was chock full of exquisite rhetorical body slams.
 

I doubt that. Hate tends to invigorate people, at least in my experience. He's 69-70, but this doesn't mean much when you farm and/or ranch. It's hard physical work. My kid's gotten strong lifting 50-pound bags of chicken feed.
 
It's not payback. It's "you will respect my daughter, or you will suffer repercussions".

You cannot control another person, no matter how much you try...this is an old man who is set in his ways...he's not gonna change now...in the end, Nota will only make herself look bad and it will phase him none...

We see it all the time on this very board...cussing someone out or putting them in their place does not change them and the person repeatedly trying to is made to look like the epitome of the definition of insanity...
 

That is just crazy talk! SMH...
 

One can control how a person reacts to them and their family. Confront a bully and see.
 
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That is just crazy talk! SMH...

What's wrong with spending a couple hundred bucks, a night out, to insure her daughter is treated with respect? Totally legal, licensed PI. Mission accomplished.

Or, she can let the guy continue to crap on her daughter. Let him think she and her daughter are just like his family, and he can do whatever he wants. Maybe next time he touches her.

Spend $200. Put an end to it. That's standing up for oneself.
 
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