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As a liberal, I support the dignity and rights of trans individuals. But I also believe conservatives raise a fair point when they argue that biological males--especially those who haven’t fully transitioned--should not compete in women’s sports or use women’s intimate facilities without some reasonable framework in place. What I reject is the cruelty of how many on the right frame it--by calling trans women “men” and denying their identity entirely.
This isn’t about erasing anyone. It’s about designing fair, respectful systems that reflect reality.
Sex matters in sports. Strength, speed, and stamina are not equally distributed after puberty. That’s why we have sex-separated sports to begin with. Simply identifying as female doesn’t negate the biological advantages that linger--even after hormone therapy. So we must address this without hostility.
Fairness to female athletes matters. So does inclusion. We can uphold both.
Women’s restrooms and locker rooms are about vulnerability, not just plumbing. It’s reasonable for women to want privacy and safety in those spaces. At the same time, not every trans woman is post-operative, and not every situation is simple.
Trans women are not “men.” But biology is real. And when identity and biology intersect--in sports, in locker rooms, in prisons--we need thoughtful, humane policy that acknowledges both.
This isn’t about erasure. It’s about design. It’s about fairness. It’s about respect—for all.
This isn’t about erasing anyone. It’s about designing fair, respectful systems that reflect reality.
On Sports:
Sex matters in sports. Strength, speed, and stamina are not equally distributed after puberty. That’s why we have sex-separated sports to begin with. Simply identifying as female doesn’t negate the biological advantages that linger--even after hormone therapy. So we must address this without hostility.
- I support a tiered or handicap-style system--as suggested by Keith Olbermann--for events like track and field, where performance gaps can be measured and adjusted for.
- In contact or power sports, eligibility should be tied to hormone suppression duration and athletic benchmarks, not just self-identification.
- Let’s also explore “Open” or invitational categories, not to marginalize--but to include--without compromising the integrity of women’s competition.
Fairness to female athletes matters. So does inclusion. We can uphold both.
On Facilities:
Women’s restrooms and locker rooms are about vulnerability, not just plumbing. It’s reasonable for women to want privacy and safety in those spaces. At the same time, not every trans woman is post-operative, and not every situation is simple.
- Post-op trans women--and those who have completed a full social and medical transition--should be treated as women in public life, including facilities.
- Pre-op trans women, especially those early in transition, must understand that some boundaries exist for a reason--and dignity goes both ways.
- Let’s build more unisex or single-stall options, and establish behavior-based guidelines: no disrobing in shared open spaces, no forcing discomfort on others.
On Process:
Policy should not be imposed top-down. Let women themselves--cis and trans--lead the discussion on what boundaries make sense in shared spaces. Respect begins with listening.In Summary:
Trans women are not “men.” But biology is real. And when identity and biology intersect--in sports, in locker rooms, in prisons--we need thoughtful, humane policy that acknowledges both.
This isn’t about erasure. It’s about design. It’s about fairness. It’s about respect—for all.