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An oral sex refresher course
Sex columnist Anka Radakovich explains how to give your partner great oral sex and have her coming back for more
Recent studies have shown that only 33% of women have an orgasm through intercourse alone, which means we need your help. What do women really want? Cunnilingus; also known a “going downstairs for breakfast” or “rowing the girl in the pink canoe.”
As a single, hetero woman, I have been with men who ranged from the one who had no idea what he doing downtown to another who was so skilled that I put a framed photo of his tongue on my desk. So what’s the secret? With just a few simple techniques, you can easily become a cunning linguist.
The warm up
Before you even start, giving a woman an orgasm comes down to one thing; the clitoris. It just wants to be rubbed. Orgasms are not going to magically happen through thrusting penetration alone. Women just need a longer warm-up. It seems that while women are trying to have an orgasm, men are trying not to.
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Most women need the “happy button” to be rubbed, touched, and kissed. Start by kissing her and telling her how hot she is. Then head for the breasts. For some women, the nipples are directly wired to the clitoris. Once you’ve gone south, locate the clitoris so you can get to work. (It’s the tiny pink pencil eraser-like thing on top of her lady business that doesn’t kiss back, but really likes you.)