YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WROTE: All I'm doing is proving you stupidly wrong ("stupidly" because the task was so easy). THAT'S CURIOSITY, AND ANIMALS HAVE THAT, TOO. They may have it to lesser degree than humans, but "curiosity killed the cat", goes the cliche. PARTLY IRRELEVANT, AND PARTLY HAW! HAW!! HAW!!! Elephant memory is famous, or are you ignorant of that, too?
"Never Forgetting" Helps Elephants Survive, Study Says I LOOK DOWN ON STUPIDITY AND IGNORANCE, NOT PERSONS. Sometimes the two are difficult to tell apart, of course. In this case stupidity and ignorance can cause
excess grieving, as previously explained.
There is no need for "ownership" to ever be part of a relationship between two human beings. Which means that there is no need to experience much in the way of "loss" when that relationship ends. Simple logic.
As an analogy, consider a friend to moves to another country. It is possible the two of you may never meet again. Yet this break-up is not as bad, emotionally, as if the friend had died instead. What is the difference? Hope. You
might meet again, so long as both of you still live.
Sometimes I wonder about the irrational inconsistency (stupidity) of Religions, that claim the deceased is in a better place --and then guide a mourning ceremony, when you are also told, at other times, you can go to that "better place", also. DUHH! Where is the hope that you will meet your friend again, in that scenario? To be
consistent, if they
really believed the stuff they spout, the Religions should
not be promoting mourning! They should be promoting the analogy of the last paragraph!