So, this-
and these-
Are equal to her-
?
Out of the zygote, the embryo, or the girl, who would YOU save? Who would YOU protect? The cells that are dividing? The embryo that is forming? Or the child that is in your presence and breathing and an individual person? And remember, in your opinion, all three have an age.
Someone close to me dying, I think, is much more tragic. Comparing the abortion (elective and spontaneous alike) of a fetus to a person that dies, that did have a life in which you both cared for one another... I couldn't imagine.
My mother and I were just talking about this. For instance, a woman who has just found out that she has not only an aggressive cancer that is in a later stage of progression; things that are aggressive like this should and need to be treated fast. However, she is also six months pregnant. Depending on the cancer, the severity of aggressiveness, and how far it has metastasized, she could be at risk just for performing an emergency c-section to try and save the baby. So now, she has to choose her own life, or that of her (depending on her decision) baby's.
This kind of stuff happens more than people think.