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Anyway how do we make abortions even lower?
- better and more accessible/mandatory sex education
mandatory in all schools (open to parents)
on line versions (for kids and adults and parents to learn how to tell kids)
free info at hospitals, clinics etc
- improved technology on the birth control front along with better access and affordability
*improve technologies on birth control and more equally for BOTH genders.
*free condoms available at school, hospitals, churches, youth centers, health clinics etc
*cover or partially cover all contraceptives and the morning after pills on health care. Morning after pill should be OTC.
Substantially more effective assistance programs so that having a child isn't such a huge financial burden on a woman. If she gets pregnant by accident, then her economic future could be completely over.
- improved support and access to orgs like planned parenthood
*help these orgs and others like them with accessibility web sites more locations etc and these locations of course can supply the things already listed above (the vast majority of them already do)
* also give these places more power to be financial assistance providers (I like this one a lot and it wanst on my list)
- foster-care and adoption reform, we cant handle the the foster children we have now
* this system needs large reform since its already over run, underfunded and some of the kids end up abused and or runaways. This also kinda ties into the point above about better programs and reform.
and something aunt spiker said I really liked, encourage TALKING. Talking about everything and at every level! this should be a huge part of sex ed along with education at home.
stop being judgmental
Encourage people to openly talk about 'what if' - 'what if I do get pregnant' and 'what if this cheap free condom breaks' as well as 'what if I'm on the pill after marriage and the pill is ineffective' and so on - so forth . . . conversation - lots of talking.
A lot of women make the decision because they "were in a relationship - but when she was pregnant he bailed" or "married but he wasn't ready yet" (or she wasn't - etc) . . . I've heard so many of THESE type of stories that the 'talk about the what if' just obviously isn't happening enough.
and society - attitudes towards pregnancy, abortion, and families . . . ...
oh yes and more ORAL lol more manual stimulation suggested for alternatives, this should be in sex ed too
these are the reality based steps that all sound pretty good to me.
Who has any that I left out or new to add
thats about 26,775,000,000 individual sex acts
You already know where I stand on this subject so we'll move past that
But I do have to ask how you're calculating this number?
hey hey whats up jet!?
315,000,000 X 85 (avg amount of times a person has sex annually in america.)
then divided by 2 to get the 13,387,500,000 act of intercourse
is that what you are asking?
is that what you are asking?
315,000,000?
of course I should thats how an avg is determined, the avg is called PER PERSON in the usYeah just wanted to see how you were coming up with the number.
I think though you may want to revisit some of your variables... as you probably shouldn't be counting the child population of America among other things...
well, i guess it's settled then.
you folks that have a problem with abortion can all rest easy now.... they have come up with an incredibly low number that is supposed to represent abortion being virtually nonexistent
IIRC something like 85% of abortions in the US happen before 12 weeks, and 95% by 20 weeks, well before any possibility of personhood/survival.
well, i guess it's settled then.
you folks that have a problem with abortion can all rest easy now.... they have come up with an incredibly low number that is supposed to represent abortion being virtually nonexistent
If there is more current info, I hope somebody shares it. Meanwhile, the Guttmacher's 2011 report states that in 2008, 1.21 million abortions were performed. From 1973 to 2008, 50 million were performed.
Facts on Induced Abortion in the United States
I prefer to think of it as 'adverting the situation entirely - rather than 'preventing abortion' - it just seems to encompass all the things that happen before pregnancy even occurs.
If I valued my own self more in high school I wouldn't have thrown myself at the first boy who showed the slightest bit of interest in me - and who promptly knocked me up.
Do you think that theres anything in the OP that would of helped you achieve that including your open talks part.
Another aspect I dont stress enough is that parents must be involved in all these steps also.
anyway back to the point what do you think would have accomplished that goal for you?
do you think that theres a lot of girls like that could that goal been accomplished the same way for them?
Well - I never had an abortion. I never considered it. 5 pregnancies, one ended with a miscarriage and I have 4 children . . . would I do it differently? Well no - of course not . . .but what to do to avoid the same for my children?
Be frank about sex - and often, not just a tri-yearly awkward discussion . . . and let them know that that's how they got here - that's the purpose of sex. . . and sex comes with qutie a few dangerous 'afters' - everything form disease to pregnancy and various health conditions.
I have several long term health issues relate to pregnancy - back and leg problems, physical disfigurement . . . etc. I'm not about to shirk truth and reality because it makes me uncomfortable.
And that includes talking to my children like they're *there* . . . I remember when I lost my virginity - it was on my first date with a guy - and my parents gave *him* a 'talking to about treating their daughter right' . . . . but if that were me I'd say 'no sex - and if you dare have sex you better use a condom . . . ' - nothing vague and I wouldn't *not* talk about it with my kids like my parents did! My parents told me "we just assumed you didn't like boys or the idea of having sex"
Who the hell is that stupid? Oh yes - my parents were that stupid.
I mean - frank and upfront. Sex is down a dirty - so should the cautionary talks . . . down and outright dirty (since that's how most people feel about the subject) If it won't put a kink in their plans it'll at least bring up the undeniable reality . . . "that's how you got here - do you want ot have a kid right now? If you end up pregnant what would you do?"
And for my sons . . . Oh my God - a talk will go something like 'don't you dare violate her - would you want your sister being touched by her boyfriend?' . . . because all 3 of them are all about protecting and loving their sister. Do I think it would stop two teens from ****ing? No - LOL - god no . . . but it might make them stop and think just a smidge. That's the goal = use your brain, too!
I know them inside and out - and I know what it's like being a teen . . . hell - I might just end up buying condoms just to be on the safe side. LOL I KNOW they'll have sex no matter what I say or do so at least I can educate and bring it to the forefront of their thoughts - and concerns. . . I'd definitely have a 'if you have sex and you/she ends up pregnant what on earth will you do?''
LOL - knowing how I've handled situations they'll be sent to the library to do RESEARCH and write me an ESSAY on teen pregnancy and parenting. Yep - assignments. I'm not going ot have my kids be so stupid (like I was) that they don't even THINK of the possibility of getting knocked up.
all good stuff I like it, real talk is KEY in my opinion.
and I didnt mean to imply you had an abortion, sorry, I was asking how you would avoid your situations in general which you still kind of answered, thanks.
The premise of this thread is simply rediculous. The abortion rate is not a comparison of aborted pregnancies to frequency of sexual intercourse. It is a comparison of induced abortions to live births.
However, if it did have any merit, I suppose we should not be at all concerned with making laws against murder either. After all, the murder rate is lower than the abortion rate. Right?
The premise of this thread is simply rediculous. The abortion rate is not a comparison of aborted pregnancies to frequency of sexual intercourse. It is a comparison of induced abortions to live births.
However, if it did have any merit, I suppose we should not be at all concerned with making laws against murder either. After all, the murder rate is lower than the abortion rate. Right?
Abortions to live births? What fun is that? You need to enjoy your statistics more! I say he didn’t go far enough. We should compare the number of abortions to the number of sperm created. I mean abortion pretty much doesn’t happen if you consider how many sperm we prevent from joining with an egg in the first place.
And why stop at abortion? Look at gun deaths vs. number of bullets manufactured. Look at heart attack deaths vs. the number of times everyone’s heart beats. I mean, there is really no need to worry about anything.
again none of this has anything to do with the OP just more nonsensical hyperbole
right in the OP I said what the facts represent and what they destroy, they destroy the nonsense that people are saying about the huge number of careless and irresponsible people they calim to be running running around having all this sex and getting abortions.
its simply not true
thats what the OP proves, if you would like to make stuff up feel free to continue to do so but the OP stands :shrug:
It does plenty to address the OP with equally flawed parallel statistics. There is a fair amount wrong with your statistic’s attempt to “destroy” the argument you want it to, but the big one is that it lumps in the “responsible” with the “irresponsible”. So even if “irresponsible” sex was the cause of 100% of all abortions and even led to abortion 100% of the time, your statistic could still show a low percentage by simply adding volume of “responsible” sex that would be included in your statistic.
At this point, I would imagine your only recourse would be to claim that in my scenario above, the number for the “irresponsible” must then not be “huge” (as you claim the original argument claims) to pale in comparison to the “responsible”. But even that is all about context. If someone says their city has a huge amount of crime, it would make no sense to say that it is actually a very small amount of crime because it pales in comparison to all the legal actions people in the city are taking all the time.
you are allowed to think what ever you want but youd be 100% wrong if you think the OP doesnt stand.
the argument that the OP destroys is the empty rhetoric and hyperbole that droves of people are having reckless and careless and irresponsible sex in large amounts and having abortions.
that is simply not true and the OP proves that fact. :shrug:
and your example also drastically fails because its not a parallel to mine at all.
for your example to be a parallel that statement wouldnt be about crime but CRIMINALS and then yes I could EASILY point out to someone claiming that there are tons of people everywhere recklessly committing crimes that no its actually a low percentage of people that are criminals.
Sorry but the OP stands 100% and does in fact prove what I set out to prove wrong.
bottom line what the stat proves, is that we as a society actually are NOT that reckless and careless and irresponsible when it comes to lots of sex leading to abortions :shrug:
no matter how much you try to spin it different ways abortions happen very little to our sex and that was my point.
now you could try to redefine reckless and careless and irresponsible to cover sex that just luckily didnt end up in an abortion but that would be totally subjective.
Sorry you misunderstood, if you disagree let me know when you have something that proves that there are lots of people having reckless and careless and irresponsible to sex in large amounts that leads to abortion because like I already said thats simply not true
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