You are just making that up really. The truth is that the Confederacy didnt tolerate Americans loyal to the union. In the Confederacy didnt like Secession anymore than The Union did: East Tennessee Wanted to scede the Confederacy and return to the union, that got 3,000 men arrested. 70%of East Tennessee voted against the Secession form the Union.
The Civil War sentiments of East Tennessee were among the most complex of any region in the nation. Whig support ran high in East Tennessee (especially in Knox and surrounding counties) in the years leading up to the war, as many people in the region were suspicious of the aristocratic Southern planter class that dominated the Southern Democratic party and most southern state legislatures. When Tennessee voted on a referendum calling for secession in February 1861, more than 80% of East Tennesseans voted against it, including majorities in every county except Sullivan and Meigs. In June 1861, nearly 70% of East Tennesseans voted against the Ordinance of Secession (which succeeded statewide), although along with Sullivan and Meigs, there were pro-secession majorities in Monroe, Rhea, Sequatchie, and Polk counties.[20] There were also pro-secession majorities within the cities of Knoxville and Chattanooga, although these cities' respective counties voted decisively against secession.[19][21]
In June 1861, the pro-Unionist East Tennessee Convention met in Greeneville, where it drafted a petition to the Tennessee state legislature demanding that East Tennessee be allowed to form a separate Union-aligned state.[20] The legislature rejected the petition, however, and Tennessee Governor Isham Harris ordered Confederate troops to occupy East Tennessee. Senator Andrew Johnson and Congressman Horace Maynard— who in spite of being from a Confederate state retained their seats in Congress— continuously pressed President Abraham Lincoln to send troops into East Tennessee, and Lincoln subsequently made the "liberation" of East Tennessee a top priority. Knoxville Whig editor William "Parson" Brownlow, who had been one of slavery's most outspoken defenders, attacked secessionism with equal fervor, and embarked on a speaking tour of the Northern states to rally support for East Tennessee.[22] Union troops didn't secure Knoxville until late 1863, however, and Chattanooga was only secured after a series of bloody campaigns late in the same year.
Things wouldnt just be peaceful and you know it. The only reason that you talk about peaceful secession is to sweeten your argument. Its a false position and history shows that peace isnt a reality when it comes to secession. The South was faaaaar from peaceful the first thing that they did was cease a fort the second thing that they did was fire the first shot of the Civil War. Sate secession is a hostile action it makes the claim that a faction can take over a state despite what the population actually wants. Its war so quite trying to deny it.