sissy-boy
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Datamonkee said:Speaking as a gay man, I am embarrassed by the obnoxiousness and garishness of most of the "voices" of the gay community. Not in any one of the other fights this country has seen for the civil rights of a group did that group shove it's culture, lifestyle and obnoxiousness down the throats of those that were bigoted. Women didn't do it, African Americans didn't do it. They reacted in a respectable and almost professional way. The Gay Agenda is a political maneuver that seems to be set up by spoiled children. "We will get what we want, you will accept me and like me or you are a bad bad person."
Aside from that, the gay agenda is doing the same thing every other lobby is doing. Pushing for special treatment because they feel they deserve it. Everyone wants more than people give them. Everyone. Political lobbying is like selling something. You ask for more than you want so that when the dust settles you get what it's worth.
Navy Pride said:Anal Sex is considered sexual intercourse for gay males.............Why do you think they identify theirselves as tops and bottoms..........
JOHNYJ said:Its the most asked and most unanswered question when it comes to Gay politics in America.
The answer is yes , there is. The Gay establishment never wanted,toleration or parity. They wanted absolute equality imposed by law . Thats why civil unions, are not enough. They must have the exact same thing, with he same word.
In fact they want to be better than equal, with protected class status and hate law protection.Hell they might even want their own affinrmative action policy,LOL.
sissy-boy said:If YOU'RE gay, then I'm Saddam Hussein! The gay rights activists have done NOTHING more 'obnoxious' or 'garish' than ANY other civil rights movement in the country's history. You must be reading reports from 'focus on the family' or some other right wing militant terrorist network. You also failed to even give ONE example of how the gay movemnet has been 'obnoxious'. Just name 2 for me please.
sissy-boy said:First of all, I'm gay and haven't had anal sex in YEARS. It is not even on the top of my list of things to do. I prefer oral sex and many other forms of sex play. Secondly, what does 'top' or 'bottom' have to do with anal sex????
What planet are you from?? Top and bottom refer to what sexual role a partner plays most of the time in the bedroom -- like dominant and submissive -- it doesn't refer to anal sex only -- dimwit!
LOL. I am a gay American citizen and I can tell you that there is no vast conspiracy to shove our way of life down anyone's throat.
However I believe that we do deserve equall treatment under the law.
For example, if someone beats a gay man because he's gay it is not considered a hate crime; I believe it should be considered a hate crime because of the definition of a hate crime.
Another example is that in many cities across the U.S. you can be fired from your job if the employer finds out that you're gay.
Now let me explain to you why civil unions are not enough.
Civil unions do not allow for hospital visitation rights,
The constitution states that everyone deserves equall protection under the law
Honestly, I don't see any reasonable reason why we should not be given these rights.
The only reason I see is religious.[/quote
That is why homosexuals are silencing churches and anyone who opposes the homosexual agenda.
Navy Pride said:Why can't he be gay and have a difference of opinion with you? Why are you so intolerant? I know several gay people that disagree with you?
Navy Pride said:I don't care about what you have done.........You are the exception rather then the rule and you know that the primary way (Not the onlyu way) that most gay male engage in sex is anal intercourse..........
I don't profess to be and expert on it by I have been told by gay males that tops or bottoms was identified as if you are on the receiving or the giving end of anal intercourse............
sissy-boy said:How do you know I'm the 'exception'?? Do you go around and do SURVEYS??? And I can tell you from the gay males that I know (and unless you are gay and trying to hide it) I know a HELL of a lot more gay men than you, that 'Top' and 'bottom' do NOT necessarily refer to anal sex. And I'll guarantee you that when most gay men have sex it is NOT anal. I find that with almsot every partner I have it is oral -- and I meet a new partner at least twice a month -- in the past it was at least 3 a week -- times 34 years - you do the math..haha!!
"After my divorce, I scraped by with babysitting gigs and odd jobs. Mostly the jobs we call blow. I had lost my job at the base PX and I had lost my gag reflex, you do the math."
-Hedwig Schmidt-
jallman said:I sincerely hope for all our sakes that you dont think your anecdotal and colorful evidence of your promiscuity helps out our cause at all.
Just to be clear, here, your philosophical epiphany has allowed you to have an enjoy sex with the same sex? Did you have an attraction to women? Do you now?Datamonkee said:"Do you know of any single person who has stated that they were straight with no attraction to the same sex, an attraction to the opposite sex and just decided to flip?" Quoted from Dezzad
Me. Now you know one. I never had feelings for men growing up. I went through a personal and philosophical epiphany and realized that people are people, and it doesn't matter what does or does not dangle betwixt their legs. A soul is forever, and souls have no sex. Love is an emotion, and has no sex. Lust is an emotion, and again, it has no sex.
Gay people are not asking others to feel sorry for them, at least not when they are saying that sexual orientation cannot be chosen. They are saying that if orientation could be chosen, gay people wouldn't have chosen it, due to these persecutions. Despite the best efforts of homophobes to make being gay uncomfortable, people still are gay. And if it was something people just decided one day (as you claim you did), then gay people wouldn't even be around. It is but one piece of the evidence.Don't cry to me about all the persecution and abuse a gay person gets. We have built a society that has a martyr complex. A person goes through life in America EXPECTING people to do things for them, and to feel sorry for their plight in life, and to allow them to do whatever they want to do while placing the blame on something else. Be it abusive parents, a mean kindergarten teacher, Grand Theft Auto, or a neighborhood priest, it is ALWAYS someone else's fault. People want others to feel sorry for them. Oh woe is me, I'm gay and everyone hates me. Oh woe is me, my parents were abusive and now I like Mr. Winky. My great grandfather was an alcoholic, waahh.. so now I have to be. My second cousin is a drug addict, so now I can't help my self. Oh woe is me. We are the United States of Self Pity. Get over it. Gay people don't have corner on the market of being persecuted. Humanity is cruel. It always has been. Religious persecution (Crusades, suicide bombers), racial persecution (American Indians, slavery), and familial prejudice (royalty, criminal organizations) have always been around. People are naturally prejudiced of something or someone they cannot (or will not) relate to. It happens to everyone everyday.
Get down off the cross, honey, we need the wood.
Straight people are way kinky and promiscuous as well. Just go look at some of the straight porn you can find. It's quite, um, telling.jallman said:I sincerely hope for all our sakes that you dont think your anecdotal and colorful evidence of your promiscuity helps out our cause at all.
sissy-boy said:If YOU'RE gay, then I'm Saddam Hussein! The gay rights activists have done NOTHING more 'obnoxious' or 'garish' than ANY other civil rights movement in the country's history. You must be reading reports from 'focus on the family' or some other right wing militant terrorist network. You also failed to even give ONE example of how the gay movemnet has been 'obnoxious'. Just name 2 for me please.
Dezaad said:Straight people are way kinky and promiscuous as well. Just go look at some of the straight porn you can find. It's quite, um, telling.
jallman said:Oh I know, yall some freaky deaky ones. But I got one question that has always been mysterious to me about straight porn...What the hell is straight peoples' deal with Ron Jeremy?
jallman said:I sincerely hope for all our sakes that you dont think your anecdotal and colorful evidence of your promiscuity helps out our cause at all.
jallman said:Oh I know, yall some freaky deaky ones. But I got one question that has always been mysterious to me about straight porn...What the hell is straight peoples' deal with Ron Jeremy?
Datamonkee said:"Do you know of any single person who has stated that they were straight with no attraction to the same sex, an attraction to the opposite sex and just decided to flip?" Quoted from Dezzad
Me. Now you know one. I never had feelings for men growing up. I went through a personal and philosophical epiphany and realized that people are people, and it doesn't matter what does or does not dangle betwixt their legs. A soul is forever, and souls have no sex. Love is an emotion, and has no sex. Lust is an emotion, and again, it has no sex. The body is the end result, not the start. Yes there is physical attraction, and yes, this can be trained or changed. Anyone that claims that a sexual orientation cannot be changed insults the willpower of a person. It isn't that someone can't be changed, it is that they don't want to. You can change your likes and dislikes. I couldn't stand drinking beer, but now I enjoy it. It takes time, and the desire to learn to like things. I used to love raw onions, now I can't stand them. People change.
Don't cry to me about all the persecution and abuse a gay person gets. We have built a society that has a martyr complex. A person goes through life in America EXPECTING people to do things for them, and to feel sorry for their plight in life, and to allow them to do whatever they want to do while placing the blame on something else. Be it abusive parents, a mean kindergarten teacher, Grand Theft Auto, or a neighborhood priest, it is ALWAYS someone else's fault. People want others to feel sorry for them. Oh woe is me, I'm gay and everyone hates me. Oh woe is me, my parents were abusive and now I like Mr. Winky. My great grandfather was an alcoholic, waahh.. so now I have to be. My second cousin is a drug addict, so now I can't help my self. Oh woe is me. We are the United States of Self Pity. Get over it. Gay people don't have corner on the market of being persecuted. Humanity is cruel. It always has been. Religious persecution (Crusades, suicide bombers), racial persecution (American Indians, slavery), and familial prejudice (royalty, criminal organizations) have always been around. People are naturally prejudiced of something or someone they cannot (or will not) relate to. It happens to everyone everyday.
Get down off the cross, honey, we need the wood.
Deegan said:You really seem to be arguing with yourself sir, as I never insinuated that gay people could not be good parents, or that they should not be parents at all. I am talking largely about what is the best for society, and parents who are both male, and female are the best possible match. You could spin so many different scenario's until your head hurts, but this is a common sense fact. How often do children emulate their parents, and practice what they learn, this is what concerns me. Homosexuality is not normal, and you can't try to prove that to someone by making them feel guilty because you choose to label them as hateful, close minded individuals. Again, there is nothing wrong with pointing out abnormal behavior, and trying to keep your child from engaging in an abnormal lifestyle, especially when the dangers are so great. I brought up those staggering figures because they are just that, staggering. I am all for this pattern changing immediately, if not sooner, and civil unions may help, but they have done little to keep people together thus far, as so many of you so often mention.
Datamonkee said:"It MAY be a matter of 'willpower' for you, but willpower is not a very happy way to live -- it's especially proven with drug addiction (which I am recovering from for quite a while now) -- almost every case in which the addict did not replace the substance with SOMETHING, they were not successful in remaining drug-free." Quoted from Sissy-boy.
Replacing a vice with another vice is merely a crutch, and you have not changed anything but the severity of the substance abuse. Willpower is the only way to truly change who you are, and what you are addicted to. You must find within yourself the power we all have, tap into that, and decide to not be slave to a substance or ideal. It is possible. Addicts are constantly being told of the evils of a substance, when in all actuality, the "evil" is within us. I've been to an Alcoholic's Anonymous meeting and that has to be the worse way to stop being an alcoholic! Those people depressed me so badly with the things that alcohol did their lives. I have never had the desire to drink so badly as I did that night. It was unreal. A bottle of beer, a gram of coke, a pound of weed, these things are in-animate objects and cannot ruin your life. YOU (and that is a generic "you")ruin your life by indulging in these things without responsibility. "Gun's don't kill people, people kill people."
Having an "addictive personality" is synonymous with "weak willed". It is an excuse, a justification to live as you want to without taking responsibility for an action.
If I can effect such a change with willpower, I know others can. It is possible. Never underestimate the human ability to adapt and overcome. You must have the desire to do that. Most people do not. They enjoy living in a place where they can place the blame for the "evil" in their lives on other people or objects. It is a place free of the guilt of responsibility.
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