That's not what you said..
And even if it was, it would have been completely irrelevant anyway because nothing I said blamed them for anything the government did or failed to do. I blamed them only for their own actions - not those of the government.
I blamed them for knowingly and voluntarily engaging in behaviors that were known to have a high risk for spreading AIDS. Period.
Yes, it is. Let's review what was actually said.
It was pointed out that Reagan had caused a lot of harm neglecting to respond as president to AIDS. *You* raised the issue of gay people who refused condoms no one had defended, and demanded that Reagan could be criticized ONLY if those people were said to be equal in blame.
You want to deny that's what you said? I'll quote you: : "As long as you are just as critical of those who persisted in voluntary behaviors known to spread the disease."
Nowhere did I deny the harm the people who refused condoms did. I said that I'm not going to blame their wrong actions that caused harm as *equal* the harm of the president who was an enemy of fighting AIDS, essentially on the side of the disease; that the wrongs of some gay people who fought condoms did not have anything to do with Reagan's wrongs and you were wrong to try to mix them together.
When I said you were blaming the victim, my point was that gay people (mostly, and others) were the victim of Reagan's wrongs, and even gay people who refused condoms and caused harm, were still victims of the Reagan policies, and demanding Reagan can't be criticized unless they are called equally bad is trying to blame them instead of Reagan.
They're victims in terms of Reagan's actions, even if they're also wrongdoers if they rejected condoms. You don't have to try to change the subject from Reagan to the condom rejecters in order to discuss the blame Reagan deserves. The condom rejecters DID cause a lot of harm, and that is a separate issue you are wrong to try to use to deflect blame for Reagan.
Nowhere did I minimize what they did. What I did was to criticize you trying to change the subject from Reagan to them, and doing so my misrepresenting what I said. Saying as I did, that you should not conflate the government and the citizens' issues", is not saying what you claimed, minimizing the harm they did. That was a lie. What I said was that it's a different issue that does NOT excuse Reagan's wrongs.
You insisted on misrepresenting what I said, such as when I said that regardless of their wrongs they were victims of Reagan's bad policies, you misrepresented that as my saying they had no blame and were only victims of Reagan.
That wasn't your only error. You also wrongly claimed they were at fault for not completely stopping the spread of AIDS - and indeed you implied ONLY they, not Reagan, had any blame. Want to deny it? Here's the quote: "It depends on how many times you try to minimize the guilt of those who actually caused the disease to spread." They 'actually' caused it, no mention of Reagan's response as a problem.
I pointed out to you the practical issue of dealing with issues like AIDS or the Coronavirus. Both could have been 'stopped' if people stopped having sex or sharing any needles in the case of AIDS, or any contact breathing near each other in the case of Coronavirus.
As a practical matter, expecting everyone to be that safe is not realistic. And the government has responsibilities to try to do their part, and if they are terribly negligent and cause a lot of harm by not doing so, it's blaming the victims of that to demand that they get the blame instead of the government, even if they are also at fault.
A citizen who is a drug addict being reckless with needle sharing, an ignorant and angry gay person refusing a condom, a trump nut angrily refusing a mask, are all people who are doing wrong and helping spread the virus; but I have a lower standard for those citizens' bad behaviors than I do for a president who is terribly negligent like Reagan or trump, and I don't support excusing the presidents because citizens did wrong.
As I said, it's two different issues. They drug addict who shares a needle is wrong and helped spread AIDS. That has nothing to do with the issue of Reagan's actions. That's my point, and that point is NOT minimizing the harm the drug addict did as you wrongly said.