Debate Politics

SarahSun

Well, whoever won your heart(as evan did) is very lucky

CLAX1911

Okay, so he did have an insecurity. One of the things that make relationships work is having to carry baggage for others. There is no way around that but it is worth it. Not all guys are jealous. If you find yourself in that position again. Tell the guy that he is good enough for you

CLAX1911

The major struggle for a guy is being good enough. We also need direct reassurance sometimes. But only tell him that. ONLY if he is. He should have to prove himself good enough.

SarahSun

He never treated me bad. He was always kind, loving and generous. Toward the end he did start becoming more distant. I know i would cringe if we were out and a guy would talk to me too much. I liked to party more than him. He was more of a stay at home guy. But when we were out i stayed close to him and he always was cool. I was proud to be his love. Sometimes its just not meant to be.

CLAX1911

Yeah there's definitely some fate involved if I didn't get a whole bunch of cocktails dumped all over me it would have never been brought to my attention.

One of the things I take a lot of interest in is the dynamic between men and women in dating circles.

CLAX1911

I see a lot of young people struggling with it men and women

SarahSun

Yea, you are very cool about relationships. And i am taking to heart what you say. I will be your new creation!! The new Sarah. And i must get mad at you!! You have kept me up past my bed time again. J/K. Thank you for everything.

SarahSun

Oh, he let me a bit ago know Thusday would be a good time so after work we will meet for dinner. Now what to wear, sexy or conservative.

CLAX1911

Lol I'm no guru, and you make yourself. Don't give me credit in just remembering stuff I learned the hard way. Go get some sleep

Not too conservative but not too flirty. Pick a bright color you look good in. If you can't find one you like black is the old stand by. But try for more vibrant.

SarahSun

One last post. I was telling my girlfriend about my thursday date.. Im going to wear a pink top that shows me off just a bit, distressed white jeans and my hair down like my avatar picture.

CLAX1911

Good call you probably know what colors look best on you. The most important thing to wear a smile, and from your pictures you have a great one.

No good night and go to bed. I don't need to worry about it if I'm keeping you up too late

SarahSun

You are so nice to me. Its amazing how fast things can change. After my break-up i was doubting myself more and more. I wasnt going to go on the boat but my BFF insisted. At the same time i have a cute guy ask me out and i meet you and so many others on here. I feel so beautiful again! I might not be on tonight. My friends are giving me a pre-date celebration after work. It will be fun.

CLAX1911

Just by your profile picture and the picture you posted in your introduction thread You're a very lovely young woman

SarahSun

Thankie. Just wanted to tell you i had an awesome time tonight. I have the best friends in the world. They treated me like a Princess. My groupies decided i should be single for awhile and not go right into another serious relationship. They want the old Sarah back, lol. At the same time im so excited about tomorrow. He was so cute and sweet on the boat.

SarahSun

Dont worry, i will go slow. We are going to meet there and come in separate cars. I dont want to have a few drinks and go too far right away. Wish me luck!!

CLAX1911

I wish you the absolute best sorry I was absent tonight.

SarahSun

NP. I hope you were absent because you and Evan were having a good time. Do yall go out alot? Im so nervous and excited at the same time. If i come back tonight it will be late.

CLAX1911

Work has got us both very busy but when we get a chance we do .

SarahSun

My date was awesome. I made a brief post about it in my welcome thread. Have a lovely day.

CLAX1911

Well good I'm happy for you.