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Full disclosure this is a serious thread and a serious issue. I'm not pointing fingers in anyone's directions but it's something that dawned on me the other day.
In one of my classes we were discussing using people's pronouns and gender identity. This went on for about 45 minutes until someone brought up young boys genitals as a reason they shouldn't be allowed near girls if parents aren't around. The class then proceed to spend the next hour or so on this discussion. This discussion was had by a classroom of 95% cis-people and 5% trans. For those curious, I don't talk about trans issues in front of cis people because I've had a supervisor at my work openly talk about he is a "biological male" because he has a penis (in front of children no less). It dawned on me that this isn't the first time that I've seen this. For years this has been a reoccurring issue. It seems whenever discussions about trans people pop up, people inevitably start discussing kids' genitals like they deserve to know what they are. mean here is Mike Huckabee talking about how he would do very bad things to girls as a teenage boy:
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While I'm sure there are trans people who talk about kids genitals, at least in my personal experience it always starts with cis people talking about kids and their genitals. Does anyone else see this happening?
I have a few 'trans' friends. The closest I have ever come to any form of conversation on genitals was my statement "I forget you have different plumbing", which my friend took as a compliment.
In the late 70's I made friends with a fellow broadcaster in Montreal who had the greatest 'radio voice' in creation. I came west several years later and hear he was, but had 'come out' as gay.
Years later, at an AA function I woman walked up to me leaving me confused until "she" spoke, in that awesomely recognizable voice. 25 years had passed but they were still the same, kind, generous and giving person they always were.