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Nope. Them special areas are for me to see and be pleased with and no one else should have access to this privilege of mine.
Surprised to see the poll half opinioned about this really. Thought there would be more "Naysayers."
How many men here have patronized strip clubs? Uh, uh...raise your hands, sumbtiches. Damn near all of you. Of course you have. Oh, heyall yes, you have! Feasted your eyes and both your brains on the flesh of nekkid wimmins. Yes, you did. 'Fess up.
Other than your wife, how many men here have ever seen a nekkid woman, pictures or (hopefully) in the flesh? Every damn one of you. Every single one of you.
So, tell me, those strippers you slobbered all over; those nekkid wimmins you saw in the backseat when you were 16; those nude women you saw online and in Playboy magazine are somehow not as pure and righteous as you? Going to a strip club and looking at T&A is not nearly as horrible and immoral as being looked at in a strip club. You don't have to come to Jesus with your future wife about all the poontang you looked at, but by God she better never have shown her naughty bits to anyone. :roll:
Shame on all y'all who think that way.
I don't really even consider strippers sex industry workers unless they're doing a little something on the side. It's really not sex, it's just slutty topless dancing, and you can see thongs and women topless on the beaches of Brazil. :shrug:
Nope. Them special areas are for me to see and be pleased with and no one else should have access to this privilege of mine.
Surprised to see the poll half opinioned about this really. Thought there would be more "Naysayers."
Wow! You get my vote for Cynic of the Year.
There you go. Good to see some actual men with balls still exist in America.
Sounds like you are easily threatened sexually. Others seeing the body of some hottie I'm ****ing would be the least of my worries. Her getting drunk and dopped up on pills, and then smashing her car into an early morning commuter would top my list of concerns.
1. What does "easily threatened sexually" mean in this context?
2. Also it is not "some hottie" for then I would not mind neither. We are speaking of a future wife here aren't we?
1. Other eyes on the prize. Why would that bother you? It sounds like you are threatened by other men looking at what you got.
2. I don't know...I haven't thought about it much since my take on strippers is that they are too high risk for LTRs. But, in the case of other men simply looking, and I was heavily involved with or even married to said person, I guess I couldn't care less. It's like when someone is checking out the wife at the beach. No big deal. My attitude on that is: "She's mine. Eat your heart out, Loser."
Other cultures may even kiss, hug, dance with what one has.
I would have to say, No, I probably would not.
I dated some strippers when I was younger and really wasn't even thinking about marriage. But, in my experience, even the best of them tend to get into too much of the lifestyle and the environment they work in tends to affect their personalities and their value system. Maybe there are some who do resist these changes, but in my experience, they would be very rare birds indeed. Kind of like promiscuous women, they get into habits and I really don't see them breaking them.
An ex-stripper? Maybe. Depends on the person. One I know is a very nice person and she also has turned around a lot of negative things in her life. Unfortunately, she also has PTSD or is Bi-Polar (depends on which doctor she sees) and has some serious mental issues so while she is nice to have as a friend, as a wife, no way do I want be around when she trips off the deep end or forgets her meds. BTW, her mental issues are not the result of anything that happened while she was stripping. I would say that it would depend totally on her personality, how she acts, and her ability to maintain her current moral values, it's not like I don't have some things in my past that a potential wife wouldn't like.
Strippers, sluts (not saying all strippers are sluts here guys), and others that live or display a lifestyle that demonstrates low moral values, not while they are "in" that lifestyle. After they changed and have demonstrated that they really have changed, then maybe, depends on other factors.
"What one has"... ouch. Possesive objectification much?
Went along with Calamity's "what one got" there.
"What one has"... ouch. Possesive objectification much?
don't see that as in any way worse than the long accepted admonition "dance with the one that brung ya"
Whatever. I go to nude beaches with girlfriends. And I gotta tell ya, I get as many looks as they. I find those opposed to nudity are usually not much to look at anyway (or worse).
Women dressed with Arabic clothing that cover everything up till their eyes like ninjas (or even that sometimes) also make me think that they are hiding and are not worthy of looking at anyway.
Well, I don't think that's proper. People should be able to dress however they are comfortable, within public safety considerations.
I'm surprised there are so many men who have dated strippers...didn't know there were that many around.
Whatever. I go to nude beaches with girlfriends. And I gotta tell ya, I get as many looks as they. I find those opposed to nudity are usually not much to look at anyway (or worse).
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