Women and Orgasms

[rivrrat]

What's the longest climax you've ever had? Anything special bring it about or was it just happenstance?

 

[Makedde]

What's the longest climax you've ever had? Anything special bring it about or was it just happenstance?

When I climax it is always just me in the room!:2razz:

I'd love to know how to extend the actual climax, mine last only about five seconds, lol. Still worth it, though!

 

[americanwoman]

I don't know, I lost count

 

[1069]

Seems like just a few seconds.
It's no big deal. I mean, it beats staring at the wall. It's something to do.
But I really never got what the big deal was.
To me, a lot of things are better than an orgasm.
A lot of things feel better than an orgasm.
It's easy for me to have them. I can have them all day long, if I feel like it.
It's just, you know... half the time, they don't even seem worth the trouble.

 

[Dynamic]

Seems like just a few seconds.
It's no big deal. I mean, it beats staring at the wall. It's something to do.
But I really never got what the big deal was.
To me, a lot of things are better than an orgasm.
A lot of things feel better than an orgasm.
It's easy for me to have them. I can have them all day long, if I feel like it.
It's just, you know... half the time, they don't even seem worth the trouble.

It would come across that you do not enjoy sex. So it makes me wonder if you've truly had an orgasm.


If it's a self given orgasm--yeah it's not that great. But if it's from my husband it's much more intense.

I haven't tried timing them. But it would be difficult for me to do so because I completely lose control of what I'm doing....heh. Counting would prove a challenge for me.

 

[1069]

It would come across that you do not enjoy sex. So it makes me wonder if you've truly had an orgasm.

Well, that would be you accusing me of being a liar, now wouldn't it?
Not that I much give a crap what you think, but I'm pretty sure I've got a good bit more credibility on this forum than, for instance, you.
In fact, I've had two orgasms since I woke up this morning, around eight o'clock.
Probably would've had three or four by now, but my Homedics brand personal massager has run out of batteries.

I'm an ex-IV coke user.
I pretty much expect that the rest of my life is going to be anti-climactic.
I've felt sensations so intense that had they been any more intense, I would be dead. After that, I expect that everything else I might ever feel for the remainder of my life- good or bad- is going to seem strictly minor-league.

But I regret nothing.
Do I wish that I were like you, and didn't know what it means to really feel good (or bad), and could sit here pretending like I think an orgasm is some kind of big hot-**** deal?
Hell, no.
I'm here on this earth to live. If you think an orgasm is some kind of big earth-shattering deal then I just don't know what to tell you, except that you're not really living, and haven't really lived, and will probably leave this earth having no comprehension of what it even means to really live, and really feel, and really be human in a human body.
And that's pretty sad to me, because you only get one shot at it, you know.

 

[Dynamic]

Well, that would be you accusing me of being a liar, now wouldn't it?
Not that I much give a crap what you think, but I'm pretty sure I've got a good bit more credibility on this forum than, for instance, you.
In fact, I've had two orgasms since I woke up this morning, around eight o'clock.
Probably would've had three or four by now, but my Homedics brand personal massager has run out of batteries.

I'm an ex-IV coke user.
I pretty much expect that the rest of my life is going to be anti-climactic.
I've felt sensations so intense that had they been any more intense, I would be dead. After that, I expect that everything else I might ever feel for the remainder of my life- good or bad- is going to seem strictly minor-league.

But I regret nothing.
Do I wish that I were like you, and didn't know what it means to really feel good (or bad), and could sit here pretending like I think an orgasm is some kind of big hot-**** deal?
Hell, no.
I'm here on this earth to live. If you think an orgasm is some kind of big earth-shattering deal then I just don't know what to tell you, except that you're not really living, and haven't really lived, and will probably leave this earth having no comprehension of what it even means to really live, and really feel, and really be human in a human body.
And that's pretty sad to me, because you only get one shot at it, you know.

Wow, who do you think you are? Telling anyone they haven't lived because they enjoy an orgasm or two. You don't know me. You don't know what life I've lived.
I didn't accuse you of being a liar. You read it that way. It could be taken that way, I'm not going to lie. I was making an assumption. I suggest you take a chill pill. You're flying off the handle over nothing.
What makes you think you're so much better than me because you shot coke into your ****ing veins? How does that mean you've lived? I actually think that's pathetic. I never shot a damn thing into my veins. But I've done my fair share of stupid ****. Doesn't make me feel like I'm some how better than you. I just like to think we are all learning different ways.

But because of the way you're acting I would say yes, I think you're a liar. Why else would you feel the need to shoot all the bull**** at me?

 

[Shewter]

Well, that would be you accusing me of being a liar, now wouldn't it?
Not that I much give a crap what you think, but I'm pretty sure I've got a good bit more credibility on this forum than, for instance, you.
In fact, I've had two orgasms since I woke up this morning, around eight o'clock.
Probably would've had three or four by now, but my Homedics brand personal massager has run out of batteries.

I'm an ex-IV coke user.
I pretty much expect that the rest of my life is going to be anti-climactic.
I've felt sensations so intense that had they been any more intense, I would be dead. After that, I expect that everything else I might ever feel for the remainder of my life- good or bad- is going to seem strictly minor-league.

But I regret nothing.
Do I wish that I were like you, and didn't know what it means to really feel good (or bad), and could sit here pretending like I think an orgasm is some kind of big hot-**** deal?
Hell, no.
I'm here on this earth to live. If you think an orgasm is some kind of big earth-shattering deal then I just don't know what to tell you, except that you're not really living, and haven't really lived, and will probably leave this earth having no comprehension of what it even means to really live, and really feel, and really be human in a human body.
And that's pretty sad to me, because you only get one shot at it, you know.

So because someone hasnt shot coke into their veins means they havent lived? Odd that you seem to think that your standard of living is of higher quality?

Tell me Ms. Expert. What does it mean to truely live? :roll:

I would much rather have an orgasm with my wife than do any drug I've ever done or have not done. I would much rather have a great day with my kids than shoot coke into my body. I would much rather get "high" from an extreme amount of adrenaline while doing something I enjoy than forcing my body to feel false emotions.

**** the drugs, I don't need a drugee or ex-drugee to explain to me how they live or have lived more than I.

 

[1069]

Wow, who do you think you are? Telling anyone they haven't lived because they enjoy an orgasm or two. You don't know me. You don't know what life I've lived.
I didn't accuse you of being a liar. You read it that way. It could be taken that way, I'm not going to lie. I was making an assumption. I suggest you take a chill pill. You're flying off the handle over nothing.
What makes you think you're so much better than me because you shot coke into your ****ing veins? How does that mean you've lived? I actually think that's pathetic. I never shot a damn thing into my veins. But I've done my fair share of stupid ****. Doesn't make me feel like I'm some how better than you. I just like to think we are all learning different ways.

But because of the way you're acting I would say yes, I think you're a liar. Why else would you feel the need to shoot all the bull**** at me?

Because I think you're f***ing pathetic.
I started out my life as a thrill seeker extraordinaire, and I've explored the outer limits of how good it's possible to feel and remain alive (and at the same time, unwittingly discovered how bad it's possible to feel, and remain alive).
I think all this prattling about orgasms is pitiful.
You know what orgasms are to me? They're just another healthy part of my day, like exercising, soaking in mineral salts, or mixing ground flax seed in with my smoothies in the morning. They make me feel alert when I'm drowsy. They make me feel relaxed when I'm stressed. They obviously cause good, healthy chemicals to be released in my body.
Do I think they're some huge thrill? Not any more than any of the other healthy things listed above. They're just one more thing I do to take care of myself.
Today, my life is all about physical, mental and emotional comfort. Orgasms are nothing more than a comfort to me. One of many.

Do I think they're amazingly, spectacularly thrilling? No.
That's because I know what is. Unlike you.

 

[Dynamic]

Because I think you're f***ing pathetic.
I started out my life as a thrill seeker extraordinaire, and I've explored the outer limits of how good it's possible to feel and remain alive (and at the same time, unwittingly discovered how bad it's possible to feel, and remain alive).
I think all this prattling about orgasms is pitiful.
You know what orgasms are to me? They're just another healthy part of my day, like exercising, soaking in mineral salts, or mixing ground flax seed in with my smoothies in the morning. They make me feel alert when I'm drowsy. They make me feel relaxed when I'm stressed. They obviously cause good, healthy chemicals to be released in my body.
Do I think they're some huge thrill? Not any more than any of the other healthy things listed above. They're just one more thing I do to take care of myself.
Today, my life is all about physical, mental and emotional comfort. Orgasms are nothing more than a comfort to me. One of many.

Do I think they're amazingly, spectacularly thrilling? No.
That's because I know what is. Unlike you.

Actually. You have no place to say a thing about me.
I have not shared a thing of my past. And will not. I would rather not remember the things I have done.
I will share them only with my children to some day hope they will hear me out and not go down the roads I took.
What you think means nothing. What you say is nothing. You are not even real. Being a drugged out hooker means your quality of life is better than any one else's? I don't think so. It means you have no self respect to be able to even conjure up what life really is. I'll tell you how to live shall I?
I'll tell you how you know nothing. The only life you know is false. Drugs don't teach you how to live. They teach you how to die. And then they make you want to hold on to something that is not even there.

You're bitter because you don't have what I have. That's all I get out of your personal attacks.
Leave your emotions at the door. I was told you were a respectable person for debates, and I've yet to see it.
I might be pathetic. I suppose my life is somehow missing something, because some random told me so. Good game. Well thank you for the enlightenment.

 

[1069]

I have not shared a thing of my past. And will not.

... You're bitter because you don't have what I have.

That's a neat trick.
You'll never disclose a single thing about yourself, and I'm bitter because I don't have what you have.
That would be... nothing? :lol:

I might be pathetic.

Might be? :lamo

I suppose my life is somehow missing something, because some random told me so.

A life is not long enough to contain everything.
Every life is missing some things.
You have to choose which things, which experiences, are worthwhile for you to have.

I was told you were a respectable person for debates, and I've yet to see it.

Who "told" you this?
Somebody's laughing at you right about now.

Good game. Well thank you for the enlightenment.

You are quite welcome.
I do hope it was edifying.

 

[1069]

Anyway, so if we can now return to the issue at hand, that would be lovely.

As I was saying, I can have an orgasm any time I feel like it with a vibrator (any kind; I've had dozens. Personal massagers from the Walgreens work fine, and don't seem to eat up batteries as quickly as dildo-shaped ones from the adult bookstore). It takes, oh, two minutes, tops.
I don't have multiples, but I can have one again after five or ten minutes, if I want to. Whether I want to depends upon what else i've got to do that day, and what kind of mood i'm in.

I can have orgasms from oral sex, but it takes longer; sometimes like 15 minutes. It's not any better than orgasms I have with my vibrator; it's pretty much the same, although I appreciate the effort.
We've tried 69ing lots of times; I think we're getting a little better at it, but it still seems needlessly distracting. It takes me a really long time to come when I'm trying to focus on sucking dick at the same time, and I don't think it does all that much for my husband, because I'm not doing all that great a job of sucking his dick because I'm trying to focus on coming.

I do not have orgasms from penetration. I do have orgasms from clit stimulation simultaneous with penetration, but, um, that's not because of the penetration.
My husband knows all this. I don't make a secret of it.

So that's my take on orgasms.

My usual thing these days is to forget about them all week (I work long hard days on weekdays) and then have a bunch of them on the weekends, or any day that I'm off.

 

[Dynamic]

That's a neat trick.
You'll never disclose a single thing about yourself, and I'm bitter because I don't have what you have.
That would be... nothing? :lol:

I'll discuss things about myself. Just not things I'm not proud of. I don't have anything? It's interesting you see children as nothing. Aren't you a parent? Perhaps you shouldn't be.

Might be? :lamo



A life is not long enough to contain everything.
Every life is missing some things.
You have to choose which things, which experiences, are worthwhile for you to have.

Why are you bothering to even try to put any point out? All you're doing is making personal attacks. Why would I even bother to take anything else you say into consideration? You my dear have nothing to teach me other than what it might be like to lower ones self to showing their body to anyone and everyone. Besides, you're the one telling me I haven't lived. Perhaps you're the one who needs to tell me what I need to do in order to live? Sorry, wasn't a fan of coke. But then again I didn't shoot it.

Who "told" you this?
Somebody's laughing at you right about now.

He's not laughing at me... But we can pretend it's me he's laughing at if you'd prefer.

You are quite welcome.
I do hope it was edifying.

No it wasn't. But that's okay. Everyone can learn a thing a two, including you.

 

[1069]

I'll discuss things about myself. Just not things I'm not proud of. I don't have anything? It's interesting you see children as nothing. Aren't you a parent? Perhaps you shouldn't be.





Why are you bothering to even try to put any point out? All you're doing is making personal attacks. Why would I even bother to take anything else you say into consideration? You my dear have nothing to teach me other than what it might be like to lower ones self to showing their body to anyone and everyone. Besides, you're the one telling me I haven't lived. Perhaps you're the one who needs to tell me what I need to do in order to live? Sorry, wasn't a fan of coke. But then again I didn't shoot it.



He's not laughing at me... But we can pretend it's me he's laughing at if you'd prefer.



No it wasn't. But that's okay. Everyone can learn a thing a two, including you.

It's time to get back on topic now, little friend.
You spoke out of turn, accused me of lying about ever having had an orgasm, of all things (think of all the outrageous things i've disclosed about my life. I've had a weird life. And it's really been even weirder than I've ever disclosed here, but what I've told here is weird enough. And the thing you choose to believe I'm lying about is orgasms? That's silly. I would have no problem stating I couldn't or didn't or didn't choose to have orgasms, if that were the case. It's not. I have orgasms all the time. It's just that they're about as important to me as... a sneeze).

In exchange for your efforts, I've handed you back your ass, carved, on a platter.

But now it's time to return to topic, or you might get in trouble.
Derailing threads is frowned upon here.
Besides, this is a good topic. An interesting one.
It's part of our effort to liven up the forum in the absence of Kayleigh Katz, who ran away to have a nervous breakdown or something, but who was certainly interesting if nothing else.

So. Do you have something to share with the forum at large about orgasms?
And if not, is there some other reason you're here, participating in this thread?

 

[Lopettaa]

It takes long time for me to orgasm with a guy. My experience with guys is limited so perhaps I have not met the right one. In relationship with other women I have multiple orgasms that last few seconds.

 

[1069]

It takes long time for me to orgasm with a guy. My experience with guys is limited so perhaps I have not met the right one. In relationship with other women I have multiple orgasms that last few seconds.

Are they just one right after another, like boom-boom-boom-boom?
Or do you have one, and then a couple minutes later have another, and so on?
Because I've never understood exactly what people mean when they say "multiple orgasms".
I can have more than one in the course of one sex act.
But not, like, immediately, two seconds later.
It's usually a couple of minutes in between them.

 

[Lopettaa]

Are they just one right after another, like boom-boom-boom-boom?
Or do you have one, and then a couple minutes later have another, and so on?
Because I've never understood exactly what people mean when they say "multiple orgasms".
I can have more than one in the course of one sex act.
But not, like, immediately, two seconds later.
It's usually a couple of minutes in between them.

They are few minutes later. After awhile I must stop because I get a real high feeling.

 

[Shewter]

So. Do you have something to share with the forum at large about orgasms?
And if not, is there some other reason you're here, participating in this thread?

It would come across that you do not enjoy sex. So it makes me wonder if you've truly had an orgasm.


If it's a self given orgasm--yeah it's not that great. But if it's from my husband it's much more intense.

I haven't tried timing them. But it would be difficult for me to do so because I completely lose control of what I'm doing....heh. Counting would prove a challenge for me.

It's time to get back on topic now, little friend.
You spoke out of turn

You should probably take a break from posting.

That was highly uncalled for.

 

[Dynamic]

It would come across that you do not enjoy sex. So it makes me wonder if you've truly had an orgasm.


If it's a self given orgasm--yeah it's not that great. But if it's from my husband it's much more intense.

I haven't tried timing them. But it would be difficult for me to do so because I completely lose control of what I'm doing....heh. Counting would prove a challenge for me.

It's time to get back on topic now, little friend.
You spoke out of turn, accused me of lying about ever having had an orgasm, of all things (think of all the outrageous things i've disclosed about my life. I've had a weird life. And it's really been even weirder than I've ever disclosed here, but what I've told here is weird enough. And the thing you choose to believe I'm lying about is orgasms? That's silly. I would have no problem stating I couldn't or didn't or didn't choose to have orgasms, if that were the case. It's not. I have orgasms all the time. It's just that they're about as important to me as... a sneeze).

In exchange for your efforts, I've handed you back your ass, carved, on a platter.

But now it's time to return to topic, or you might get in trouble.
Derailing threads is frowned upon here.
Besides, this is a good topic. An interesting one.
It's part of our effort to liven up the forum in the absence of Kayleigh Katz, who ran away to have a nervous breakdown or something, but who was certainly interesting if nothing else.

So. Do you have something to share with the forum at large about orgasms?
And if not, is there some other reason you're here, participating in this thread?

I didn't derail the thread actually. I was making an observation.
Pointing fingers is hardly mature.
You will not tell me when it is my TURN to speak. As for speaking about irrelevant **** what does kayleigh katz have to do with any of this?
I also don't feel you handed me my ass on a platter. The only thing you did was make an ass out of yourself.

 

[1069]

Blahty blah, blah-blah-bleh-blah.

Thank you ever so much for your input.
What fascinating observations on the topic of Women and Orgasms.
You have an awful lot to say about women and orgasms. You really seem to have some first-hand experience on the issue. Thank you for sharing your keen observations.
You know, on the subject of Women and Orgasms.

Because that's what this thread's about, actually, you know.
Women and orgasms.

But now perhaps others would like a chance to discuss their perspective, as well.

 

[Anima]

I'm not that bothered about orgasms, to be honest. I'm more concerned with just enjoying sensual and sexual pleasure, and an experience chockful of both is more than enough for me.

Then again, it depends on what we're defining "orgasm" as. Is it a burst of pleasure, or relief, or what? It's highly subjective. Either way, if you're satisfied with your sex life, and the amount of pleasure you get from it, you're doing pretty damn good. :mrgreen:

 

[Lopettaa]

I'm not that bothered about orgasms, to be honest. I'm more concerned with just enjoying sensual and sexual pleasure, and an experience chockful of both is more than enough for me.

Then again, it depends on what we're defining "orgasm" as. Is it a burst of pleasure, or relief, or what? It's highly subjective. Either way, if you're satisfied with your sex life, and the amount of pleasure you get from it, you're doing pretty damn good. :mrgreen:

I agree that sex is subjective. I mean the pleasure is in getting high, right? As for being satisfied, well I am still experiementing.

 

[Anima]

I agree that sex is subjective. I mean the pleasure is in getting high, right? As for being satisfied, well I am still experiementing.

Hell, a lot of our ideas about sex are subjective. How often we should have it, what we should be doing, how it makes us feel, etc. I say, "screw it", with no pun intended. As long as you, and your partner are satisfied, that's really all that matters.

 

[CaptainCourtesy]

Moderator's Warning:

Two things. Let's stay on topic and let's cease any personal attacks.

 

[CaptainCourtesy]

Moderator's Warning:

Hmmm...I didn't read the entire thread before my warning. Let me be more direct. 1069 and Dynamic, both of you need to stop the personal attacks and stay on topic or their will be more consequences.