In unequal households – the majority of heterosexual homes – domestic and emotional pressures on women can have a direct effect on libido
www.theguardian.com
I keep hearing these kinds of stories that some women in relationships with men, and these women feel more like caregivers than equal partners. Men, what can we do to step up?
Step up? How about step OUT!
Men typically work more hours, commute longer distances and while most might do less IN the house, they do more OUTSIDE of the house.
Since we are talking about stereotypical nonsense like who has to undertake the gruesome chore of filling and emptying the dishwasher, ask who is mowing the yard, raking the leaves, changing the oil in the car, paying the bills and so on.
Since in modern life much of this has become largely non-physical, women and their desire to make their lives one of suffering have relabeled this nonsense having to carry the "emotional baggage".
You know because you have a home where your robot vacuums, the dishwasher does the dishes and your groceries can be delivered via an app in this day and age. Even the chore of "shopping" can often be done via Amazon.
So men increasing go on marriage strikes and won't marry nor do they care to be married. Women often demand more and more and deliver less and less.
You know how many relationships I've encountered in recent times where not only does the man cook for the household, the woman can't and won't? You think modern women are some sort of amazing homemakers in this day and age? Think again.
The reason why SOME women lose interest in sex is because like petulant children, men are taught nonsense like "happy wife, happy life" and expect nothing of them. They in return expect nothing of themselves and become increasingly fat, mean, angry and depressed.
The reason most men are not ever going to marry again or for young men marry at all is because marriage is a contract that a woman can break for no cause. You'd be sent to collections for treating your rental agreement, mortgage, car note, or even cell phone bill as badly as you are allowed to treat your marriage with regard to legal obligations.
Final nail in the coffin is that the men and women who are dating and marrying are CONSERVATIVE.
Young liberal women are the highest group with regard to having mental illness.
Why would any intelligent young man want to commit to any young woman, especially with regard to marriage and lifelong monogamous sex with a woman and have children with them, when they have a large and growing array of mental health issues?
In the parlance of the young kids, liberal women are the type you buy dinner for and then "pump and dump" and leave to go back their their sad lives of work, cats, antidepressants, student loan debt, and more.
It isn't hard to find sex at all in this day and age. The woman who think sex is a tool to get what they want vs something you have with someone you love are in for a rude awakening. They get dumped, the guy moves on and they can go film sad tiktoks.