DVSentinel
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You sleep with a .44 magnum in bed with you? I sleep with an incredibly cute, blue-eyed little blonde. I wouldn't trade with you. :lol:
Ooh, another MRA! How exciting! You're not as flamboyant as some of our others though. Pity.
I'm not going to sit here and seriously deconstruct this because it's never worth the effort, but I would just like to point out that this so-called misandry is actually something patriarchy put in place. Little women can't take care of themselves, you know. And men aren't real men when they express their emotions. Both concepts of patriarchy.
So if you'd like to dismantle that, you should be playing nice with feminism, not against it.
If someone broke into her house and held her at gunpoint tell her he/she is going to rape her husband or her kids?
What is so tragic is that variations of the OP senario do happen - and more than anyone can accept does happen and some day could happen to them.
A family, each begging for each other, for themselves, for their children - desperate terror and fear against worsening horrific and torturous violence and tormenting - with nothing any of them can do or say to stop it - and they each coming to realize it only a matter of how much more each suffers before finally killed. Fathers who have had to watch their wife and children raped, set on fire, murdered, mothers having to watch this, children having to watch it.
To see and hear such even just one time will change a person forever. I will not, cannot, watch movies or TV with slice-and-dice plots and scenes - because I know while that is just fiction, that something very akin to that same thing actually is happening somewhere while I'm watching that movie or show. And it eats my brain and sickens me. Because there is NOTHING I or anyone can do to stop it. Children. Men. Women. Begging it to stop, for someone, for God, anyone or anything to stop and undo this - and there is nothing and no one to do so.
No one can really grasp that reality - not really - but it is a reality that does happen - and there is nothing that fully exempts you and yours from that potential either.
Or maybe they do, and they just don't realize it. :lol:
Personal preference and circumstances I guess. I really don't find blue eyed blonds very attractive on average. Much prefer Asian, Amerasian (Eurasian) or athletic/slim women with dark brown hair. Unfortunately, the number of women who are both physically and mentally attractive and compatible to me are very, very rare. An really nice, feminine, moral woman about 6' tall and an IQ over 150, highly developed logical center, B-Cup (AA, A or C still acceptable) might be ideal, but, yeah, where in the world do they really exist.
Well, apparently if she was like you, she'd politely stand aside and let him do what he wishes to her sobbing children.
Any women I'd associate with, let alone marry, I'd expect to show a little more character and backbone. A woman who won't fight for her kids is as sorry a sack of **** as a man who won't fight for his family.
The reality is that once an intruder has complete control of your very young children? He has control of you. If the intruder intends to do you or your children harm? If he sees you and knows you know he has your children? IMO, you're screwed. Rather like the Kobayashi Maru.
I agree completely! But society feels that men should bear this burden, not women.
feminism doesnt mean the rejection of physical and psychological differences between women and men .
if you are physically stronger ,you dont violate any feminist rule by protecting your family.......
equality exists only in the legal arena
in fact we complement each other . ..........
So your quite fine with men bearing the brunt of the risk to keep society going?
If it were black people bearing the brunt of the risk to keep our society health, would that not be racist?
No... I think if society calls a man who does not stand between a bullet and his wife a coward and basically castrates him in the public media.. Women should be held to that same standard even if the person needing help is a man.So if the mother/woman is the only one around she should do nothing? In the scenario there was no mention of a man being present aside from him being raped and none of the possible answers had to do with letting the man take care of things. Regardless, I think as loved ones each has a responsibility to protect the other.
l believe you would send your wife to fight against the enemy in case of a war.......
If my wife wanted to join the army and fight for our country, I would gladly support her and I would be proud of her!
Exactly. Like you I learned, the hard way, that this **** really happens and happens more often than most people want to believe.
That's why I made up my mind a long time ago... nobody is tying me up or taking my kids off with them. They can have my wallet, my car keys, I don't care... but the moment they try to leave with the kids or start tying people up, someone is going to die. If it is me I'll try to take them with me.
thats not the point here
l would save my country too
but you wouldnt do anything , your wife would have to do it ..........
It's easy to huff and puff about what you would do, but when it comes down to it, you don't know until it's happening.
Fear for the safety of loved ones, truly loved ones, will drive any person male or female, to defend even to the point of disregard for their own safety.
Rational, logical thinking doesn't neccessarily come into play, it is an instinct ingrained into the fiber of our beings.
It has become dulled through the years for many people, relying on others to provide the protection, or disconnecting from their purpose of protecting the family unit. Letting it happen to others as long as it's not happening to them.
How sad our society has become when we rely on others to do what we ourselves should be doing.
I agree completely! But society feels that men should bear this burden, not women.
No... I think if society calls a man who does not stand between a bullet and his wife a coward and basically castrates him in the public media.. Women should be held to that same standard even if the person needing help is a man.
thats not the point here
l would save my country too
but you wouldnt do anything , your wife would have to do it ..........
Yeah well "agree completely" isn't what you said in a couple of other threads. You made it very clear you weren't interested in risking your life for anyone else, wife child mother brother... apparently if the perp has a gun, you're Vichy French.
So very true. Cannot remember the asshats up in Washington or Oregon that kidnapped a family that did not fight back....
Took them to their "bunker in the woods. Tortured and killed dad in front of wife and kids. Killed kids in front of mother. Raped, tortured, killed mother.
They taped the whole thing as a souvenir.
Maybe if mom and dad had been more compliant, these *not a word strong enough* would have just slapped everyone around a bit...
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