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What would you do (think you should and/or think you would) if you came home early and in your bedroom your spouse/mate/significant other was in bed having sex with someone else? They haven't seen you yet.
Of course what you would do compared to what you think you should do can be different. Are there details (such as who, sex/age/race, friend/foe/stranger etc) that matter? Serous or joke responses both allowed.
This actually happened to me. I saw red, literally, grabbed the revolver in my pocket, remembered who would be raising my kids if she were dead and I in prison, and I left the house for a walk. They were both gone by the time I got back, so I changed the locks that night, removed her from the lease and filed for divorce the next day. She came and collected her stuff that weekend.I'm bored, so posted this topic.
What would you do (think you should and/or think you would) if you came home early and in your bedroom your spouse/mate/significant other was in bed having sex with someone else? They haven't seen you yet.
Of course what you would do compared to what you think you should do can be different. Are there details (such as who, sex/age/race, friend/foe/stranger etc) that matter? Serous or joke responses both allowed.
Rough. Glad you got your sense about you.This actually happened to me. I saw red, literally, grabbed the revolver in my pocket, remembered who would be raising my kids if she were dead and I in prison, and I left the house for a walk. They were both gone by the time I got back, so I changed the locks that night, removed her from the lease and filed for divorce the next day. She came and collected her stuff that weekend.
Exactly.Depends on the gender...
I'm bored, so posted this topic.
What would you do (think you should and/or think you would) if you came home early and in your bedroom your spouse/mate/significant other was in bed having sex with someone else? They haven't seen you yet.
Of course what you would do compared to what you think you should do can be different. Are there details (such as who, sex/age/race, friend/foe/stranger etc) that matter? Serous or joke responses both allowed.
As one who is both poly and open, this would depend upon conditions. However, I will take the question as it seem to be intended, i.e. that is was not something agreed upon in advance. I would be angry, as all relationships are supposed to be told to the rest of the spouses. So this would be a breech in trust. I am unsure if I would confront them then and there in a verbal rage, or go off and make sure they saw me when they came out.
Well pregnancy is out at this point for all but one of us. Both wives are past menopause and one is fixed, and I have been fixed as well. Only our husband has that potential. And we guard against STI's. Mind you while potential outside partners are agreed to in advance, not all encounters are. IOW, an approved boyfriend might be there unexpectedly. In such a case, I would make sure a snack and something to drink were ready for when they finish.I understand your perspective since you preface it there was agreement in advance, particularly when disease and pregnancy might also be a potentially.
Wow...that is certainly...fascinating.Well pregnancy is out at this point for all but one of us. Both wives are past menopause and one is fixed, and I have been fixed as well. Only our husband has that potential. And we guard against STI's. Mind you while potential outside partners are agreed to in advance, not all encounters are. IOW, an approved boyfriend might be there unexpectedly. In such a case, I would make sure a snack and something to drink were ready for when they finish.
Wow...that is certainly...fascinating.
I could never be in a poly or open arrangement. For one thing, I get jealous. Secondly, it just seems too "adventurous" for me. Call me a square but I am a believer in traditional relationship/marriage, monogamy and all that. As for whether I would be happy...honestly I am not sure. But I like the fact that I do not have to say, "I cracked open a beer while my significant other was having sex with both our husband and wife", lol.
This^^Tell them to get dressed and get out.
Would be smart thing to make photo or video of them in the act or at least naked. Would help during divorce procedure.I could imagine hearing them in the bedroom.....not going in, but offering them a drink when they came out just to watch them squirm a little before telling them both to get out...
You don't have no fault divorce where you live?Would be smart thing to make photo or video of them in the act or at least naked. Would help during divorce procedure.
I'd leave or divorce them, details shouldn't be relevant (unless by "age" you mean they were sleeping with an underage person).I'm bored, so posted this topic.
What would you do (think you should and/or think you would) if you came home early and in your bedroom your spouse/mate/significant other was in bed having sex with someone else? They haven't seen you yet.
Of course what you would do compared to what you think you should do can be different. Are there details (such as who, sex/age/race, friend/foe/stranger etc) that matter? Serous or joke responses both allowed.
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