Penis envy?

[SNOWFLAKE]

I heard that it exists. Not that I have known many who go around comparing themselves to other men. But hey..............

So, there is a perception out there, perhaps racist in nature, perhaps not, that black men have larger penises than white men.

Is it a "perception" or a "trope" or is there something behind that?

Erect Black penises are larger on average than white penises, however only by ¼ of an inch, or about half a centimetre. He explains that the difference lies predominantly in the flaccid state - Black penises, when soft, are larger on average than Caucasian penises that are soft.

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Could the above be a reason some white men don't like black men? Is penis envy a reason for racist views about black men?

There is a saying, I am sure you have all heard: "Once you go black, you never go back". Could sayings like that one cause some white men to have resentment against black men?

There is also a 2nd group of men that STRAIGHT white men do not like - gay men. Not ALL straight white men are homophobic, but many of the same ones who dislike black men also dislike gay men. They won't self-identify but we know they are out there.

Could the following be the reason?

Across all five dimensions, gay men had significantly larger penises. Most notably, the measured erect length for gay men was 6.46 inches, compared to 6.14 inches for straight men. Measured erect circumference was 4.95 inches for gay men, compared to 4.80 inches for straight men.

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Could penis envy be a reason - maybe not the sole reason - but one reason, for racist views and homophobic views among some straight white males?

 

[Loulit01]

I can speak for everyone, but I can firmly state that I envy my penis.

 

[Old 'N Chill]

I can speak for everyone, but I can firmly state that I envy my penis.

 

[Real blank]

Isn’t Penis envy supposed to be something that effects girls

 

[What if...?]

I suspect having a little dick just makes those who lost the genetic lottery generally angry.

So they cherish any opportunity to make others as sad as they are.

Misery and company and all that.

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

Isn’t Penis envy supposed to be something that effects girls

If you are a male and you envy the penis size of other males, then you have penis envy.

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

I suspect having a little dick just makes those who lost the genetic lottery generally angry.

So they cherish any opportunity to make others as sad as they are.

Misery and company and all that.

I lost the genetic lottery being born a white male who has become heterosexual. But then I am neither racist nor homophobic and don't worry about the penis size of black men or gay men.

 

[What if...?]

I lost the genetic lottery being born a white male who has become heterosexual. But then I am neither racist nor homophobic and don't worry about the penis size of black men or gay men.

I won the gestation estrogen event lottery and got the “ring finger longer than index finger” “defect”!

My wife stumbled across this online and ran in and looked at my hands and laughed out loud!

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

I won the gestation estrogen event lottery and got the “ring finger longer than index finger” “defect”!

My wife stumbled across this online and ran in and looked at my hands and laughed out loud!

Er?..................... isn't the ring finger also this finger................


............. which would make it the longest already??

 

[What if...?]

Er?..................... isn't the ring finger also this finger................

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............. which would make it the longest already??

Ummm…that’s not the “ring finger” lol.

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

Ummm…that’s not the “ring finger” lol.

I never wore a ring so I might have been mistaken. Happy marriage of almost 40 years though. Must have worked for me. Mind you, the Mrs. gives the middle finger to me often.

 

[bomberfox]

Meh. I dont specifically care about size. Its a bit silly.

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

Meh. I dont specifically care about size. Its a bit silly.

I agree, but nevertheless, you have to wonder about the specific targets of a certain group of people (you know the ones I mean) and wonder if THIS is one of the reasons for making black and gay people targets of that group.

 

[What if...?]

I agree, but nevertheless, you have to wonder about the specific targets of a certain group of people (you know the ones I mean) and wonder if THIS is one of the reasons for making black and gay people targets of that group.

Could be. And it certainly won’t make them happy to ask them.

So ask. A lot!

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

Could be. And it certainly won’t make them happy to ask them.

So ask. A lot!

I have and SO FAR, not a lot of them have responded. I wonder why

 

[bythoughts]

All that over an alleged quarter of an inch? They're like cars -- if you're going to ride around on one for years and years, you should pick a color you like.

 

[beancounter]

Penis envy isn't about size. It's a psychology term coined by Freud to describe women's jealousy of men.

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

Penis envy isn't about size. It's a psychology term coined by Freud to describe women's jealousy of men.

Maybe so, but maybe I was talking about a different kind of penis envy if you went beyond the title and read all of my comment #1

 

[tharock220]

Penis envy isn't actually about the penis. It's the jealousy that one man has towards another for having a better looking woman, bigger house, nicer car, higher paying job, etc.

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

Penis envy isn't actually about the penis. It's the jealousy that one man has towards another for having a better looking woman, bigger house, nicer car, higher paying job, etc.

Don't just read the title. Read comment #1 to understand the context.

 

[hecatmoggie]

Could the above be a reason some white men don't like black men? Is penis envy a reason for racist views about black men?

no

how many black penises do you think a a racist guy has seen ???

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

no

how many black penises do you think a a racist guy has seen ???

I wouldn't want to guess. But when some insecure white guys hear..........."Once you go black, you never go back", you can imagine their reaction.
There was also books and movies that were made back in the day portraying black men as big hunks being salivated over by white women.................Mandingo come to mind?
Doesn't have to be factual, in fact, in comment #1, research has shown black men are only larger when the penis is flaccid, though the real advantage seems to go to gay men............"gay men had significantly larger penises."
I explained it all in my opening comment. Doesn't have to be a fact, but it might lead some white men to resent black and gay men on the perception that those other men are bigger ......... and hung better.

 

[tharock220]

Don't just read the title. Read comment #1 to understand the context.

I readr the OP. I'm offering my explanation.

Why do you think the anger some white dudes experience when they see a white chick with a black dude is proportional to the white chick's attractiveness?

 

[SNOWFLAKE]

I readr the OP. I'm offering my explanation.

Why do you think the anger some white dudes experience when they see a white chick with a black dude is proportional to the white chick's attractiveness?

I don't have an answer since the sight of a black "dude" with an attractive white chick never bothered me.

 

[hecatmoggie]

I wouldn't want to guess. But when some insecure white guys hear..........."Once you go black, you never go back", you can imagine their reaction.

what do you think that reaction is exactly ?

There was also books and movies that were made back in the day portraying black men as big hunks being salivated over by white women.................Mandingo come to mind?
Doesn't have to be factual, in fact, in comment #1, research has shown black men are only larger when the penis is flaccid, though the real advantage seems to go to gay men............"gay men had significantly larger penises."
I explained it all in my opening comment. Doesn't have to be a fact, but it might lead some white men to resent black and gay men on the perception that those other men are bigger ......... and hung better.

so who started all the fake lies on blacks having bigger ?


here is the truth - all you young men need to listen. women too. size of penis isn't anywhere near the top of things that are important in life

if you think it is you are very wrong and need to really really do some soul searching