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That's cool. My father went to University and so did my brother so I feel kind of like the black sheep but I never could do a job where I sent the cubicle or an office. That's just a slow painful death for me.Neither of my parents went to university but both heavily stressed education and yes, self-guided learning. My father in particular is still a voracious reader and passed his love of books onto his sons.
So one of the main things I find myself on the other side from religion is being gay. So I know how to get kicked out really fast.I chafed at the religious instruction and rules of the private school, and similar to you I did the bare minimum there to pass.
Yeah I understand that. Some young people need structure and need organization to thrive. I think what I needed was to be left alone interested to do what I was supposed to do on my own.Was much more invested in my education in the public school system and fortunately that carried over to university. Years later my Baptist mother says she wished she'd never insisted I go to that school because she saw it was where my contempt for church and institutionalized religion (not spirituality) began.
I wish I'd known that then I'd probably done a lot better.