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NYC officials duped into approving first gay marriage

That's what you want the mods to do?

There should be something to prevent people from mislabelling themselves and doing positions injustice.
 
There should be something to prevent people from mislabelling themselves and doing positions injustice.

There is.

You.

As a member, that's your job. That's why you created an account and logged in today. To debate.

Personally, I got tired of having to keep explaining the basic positions over and over, so I created a post defining each and saved it with all relivent url, quote, color code in the drafts file of my e-mail. I simply post it when needed instead of rehashing the same oll argument.

I'll go find it and post it here.

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Here it is, a simple copy&paste from my e-mail:

[ame=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conservative]Conservative[/ame]:
[ame=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberalism]Liberal[/ame]:
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Right:
[ame=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Centrist]Centrist[/ame]:
[ame=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Moderate]Moderate[/ame]:
Left:
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Independent:
[ame=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libertarianism]Libertarian[/ame]:
 
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But there is nothing forcing people to change those labels. If I completely call out someone and show that they're not a part of that position, then they still can leave that label. The debate wouldn't accomplish anything if that person will still keep that same label.
 

The debate with that one specific individual (never mind everyone else on the thread) won't result in the mod team altering the settings in that person's profile, no, but a profile setting hardly wins a debate against you, either.

While not a profile setting, I encounter the same problem with people who call themselves pro-life yet would still allow a woman to make her own decision. If you would allow a choice, you are pro-choice, not pro-life, no matter how much you personally dislike abortion.

I suggest using their label against them, or ignore it completely.
 
I know. I'm not dumping on you as if you were stating a fact.
Thanks.

That would be extremely difficult to establish, since marriage has been used in every culture since before written history.
Yes. But, back in those times, in most if not all cases, there WAS no separation of church and state. Thus, marriage could be both without issue. I consider it a hold-over from then.

If the government were to force churches to perform marriages against their tenets, this would be true. However, as it would be courthouses that perform marriages, not churches, the separation of church and state is not threatened.
The government is allowed to perform religious ceremonies?

Conversely, so would allowing gay marriage.
Not at all. Allowing gay marriage would simply move the marker as to who is defending the government's position from one group to another. The argument would continue.

Well, yes. Removing government, and therefore politics, would indeed remove political debate. However, you would only see the issue picked up just as strongly, if not more so, by theological debate.
Which is EXACTLY what I want to see happen.
Since I consider it a religious question in the first place.

See, I'm just not aware of any pro gay marriage position that states that various religions must accept gay marriage within their own churches.
Well, not directly.
But since (in my mind, and currently) marriage is both a legal and religious institution, the very act by government of allowing or disallowing it forces the people to accept it one way or another.
From a legal stand point, this is perfectly reasonable.
From a religious standpoint, I consider it to be a violation of church and state.

Thus my position that marriage should cease to have any legal ramifications for a couple.

I AM highly presumptuous.
I presume that gay couples would be perfectly happy with a civil union from a legal standpoint, if everyone else had the same.
I presume that churches would be perfectly happy to use their internal allowance or restriction on gay marriage as a method to attract members.
I presume that people who dislike gay marriage would be at least reasonable if it were no longer considered to be BY LAW equal to their own marriage in a non-gay-marriage-allowing church.

I am not personally familiar with courthouses performing marriages with religious overtones, unless you're interpreting the marriage itself as connoting the religious overtone.
I was, and am.

Excellent.

I personally feel that side-stepping the issue is a better option, from a governmental view. Gay couples getting married in a church which allows such would be a result.
True that.
Glad you agree.
 
Yes, you're a statist despite wanting government out of marriage. There is no way that you can call yourself a libertarian without cringing with all of the things that you've said on these boards.

Such as....?

Let's see your criteria for defining Libertarianism. You do realize that absolute libertarian ideas are quite nuts no? That maximizing everyone's freedom to the absolute results in essentially anarchy?

Except I can't support that option and I will never vote my support for it. Marriage is between a man and a woman.

And you call yourself a libertarian? Really?

That's what's great about libertarianism. The state is out of it and you can call yourselves whatever you want. I don't mind that, but don't expect me to ever support it.

Did you even read what I wrote? The preferable option is for the state out it and letting individuals and private entities sort it as they see fit. But as earlier stated, that is highly unlikely to happen.

So what is the next more freedom maximizing stance? You seem to want the most freedom maximizing stance (but one that is unrealistic), but then immediately reject the next most freedom maximizing stance and accept the opposite.

And you call yourself a libertarian? Really?

I thought libertarians were for maximizing personal freedom. How can you not keep pushing for the most realistic maximizing personal freedom option if you call yourself a libertarian?

But I've heard you on other issues and you seem to never choose the "freedom maximizing option."

Well that depends on how you define that. After all, you have made is abundantly clear to me that evidence is defined as you see it rather than on some independent method.

Furthermore, I tend to look down the street, several years ahead in fact. If an action that will cause personal freedom to be severely curtailed is the cause of an act right now that increases freedom slightly, it makes little sense for me to support that short term act when the long term impact upon personal freedom is detrimental and highly outweighs the gains now. Paying a little more taxes now to reduce the debt is freedom reducing. Paying 50% of your income purely to pay off bankruptcy the country enters from failure to deal with the debt now is exponentially more freedom reducing than the short term option.
 
Such as....?

Let's see your criteria for defining Libertarianism. You do realize that absolute libertarian ideas are quite nuts no? That maximizing everyone's freedom to the absolute results in essentially anarchy?

Do you not support spending during a recession and great government regulation?


You don't seem to understand. I don't think that "gay marriage" is marriage. Those are my personal beliefs. That said, government should have no say and people should be able to call themselves whatever they want to call themselves. Don't expect me to not call it out though. They have as much of a right to call themselves married as I have a right to denounce it.


Was there a typo there? I think a message was lost because I can't get what you were trying to say.
 
Do you not support spending during a recession and great government regulation?

Depends on the spending and the regulation. Great refers to what? Size? Depth? The number of pages it's printed on? I don't support debt spending. As earlier stated in a previous thread, a good government would build up surpluses specifically designed for it therefore eliminating the need for debt and thus reduce the taxpayers' risk to having to pay it off. Some regulation is absolutely necessary for freedom to exist. I believe in freedom to make informed decisions. We need regulation to ensure that information being disclosed is accurate and not fraudulent. The stock market wouldn't exist without disclosure regulation. A free market requires a regulatory framework to ensure that the market does not turn into a monopoly. That's the anti-thesis of personal freedom. Being anti-regulation as an absolute results in less personal freedoms. Unless you think that freedom to defraud people should be legal.

You don't seem to understand. I don't think that "gay marriage" is marriage. Those are my personal beliefs.

So you do not care that they infringed upon other's freedom? Especially when you have absolutely nothing other than emotional pleas? Seem very anti-libertarian.


You don't seem to understand. A libertarian is for maximizing person freedom. You want the most maximizing freedom option, but then you just rejected the next most personal freedom maximizing option on the basis of your emotional beliefs. If anything, you are not a libertarian because you are willing to have your personal emotional beliefs supersede your belief in maximizing personal freedom. Do I like gay marriage? Not especially. I realize its consequences on our tax revenue and I think two guys kissing is gross. But does that stop me from pushing the next best freedom maximizing option? No. Just because you can't get the MOST freedom maximizing option does not mean you just stop and accept a freedom minimizing option. A libertarian will seek out the most libertarian option that is realistically possible. You don't seem to think this is important, thus I question your libertarianism.

Was there a typo there? I think a message was lost because I can't get what you were trying to say.

Point is, you appear to think I'm not a libertarian because I don't support the freedom maximizing option. I'm saying you are wrong because your perspective isn't the same as mine. Just because I do not support short term freedom gains does not mean I don't support maximum freedom gains.

The difference between us is that you don't seem to support realistic libertarian goals. Only the lofty, in principle ones.
 
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I see where you are coming from, but under the rules, people can say they are whatever they want to say they are. What makes it more complicated is that the Liberal v. Conservative cubby hole does not exist for a lot of people. For instance, my wife is a Liberal, but wants the border with Mexico sealed, which is a staunchly Conservative position. The Liberal v. Conservative v. Libertarian paradigm may exist from issue to issue, but you will find a lot of people whose views conform to different ideologies, depending on the issue being discussed. That is why some will digress, on some issues, from what they have labeled themselves as. In any particular political leaning, there is no "one size fits all".
 

Well I just don't think pulling stupid stunts like this is going to help anyone.
 
Well I just don't think pulling stupid stunts like this is going to help anyone.

I disagree. It puts the issue right out there, front and center.
 
I disagree. It puts the issue right out there, front and center.

Yes but it also promotes the idea that the issue is being slid in under the radar. If you have to trick someone into doing something, it probably wasn't the right thing to do to start with.
 
Yes but it also promotes the idea that the issue is being slid in under the radar. If you have to trick someone into doing something, it probably wasn't the right thing to do to start with.

No.
If you have to trick someone into doing something, it probably wasn't what they thought was the right thing to do to start with.
 

Fraud would be a breach of contract and one of the purposes of a state is to help uphold contracts.

This is why you're not a libertarian: how should the government react to the economic downturn?


That's like saying that I should support people being enslaved instead of having everyone killed. Both are wrong, and I aspire for a higher, more principaled goal. So because I don't support the slavery I'm not a libertarian? Seems to be what you're going for.


I'm not one for settling for something that isn't right.
 
Fraud would be a breach of contract and one of the purposes of a state is to help uphold contracts.

So you do agree that there is a rational limit to personal freedoms? That the freedom to defraud people is not a personal freedom that should be rationally allowed and that there is a purpose for government to step in and limit specific personal freedoms to maximize total freedoms?

This is why you're not a libertarian: how should the government react to the economic downturn?

Depends on the downturn and the specific causes and circumstances. You make a lot of absolutist statements without realizing the details that matter. The devil is in the details and you seem to be unaware that he exists. The world is not black and white. Not all events are identical. There is no such thing as one size fits all in philosophical discussions. But you do not seem to care.

I'm not a libertarian because you don't want me to be.

That's like saying that I should support people being enslaved instead of having everyone killed.

Huh? Did you just make that up hoping it would make sense? You know, insane analogies that are taken to the absolute extreme serve relatively little good in rational discussion. Come back with a rational analogy that actually makes sense.

Both are wrong, and I aspire for a higher, more principaled goal. So because I don't support the slavery I'm not a libertarian? Seems to be what you're going for.

I can see you are at the bottom of your barrel. And you just admitted what I stated. If you cannot achieve the holy grail, accept Islam. If you cannot have the perfect outcome in terms of libertarianism high ideals, you have no problem accepting antithetical ideas to libertarianism. Thus the difference between you and I. I realize that the high and mighty is unlikely. That does not cause me to entirely abandon libertarianism as you do. I push for the most freedom maximizing option that is left on the table. You accept the antithetical stance to libertarianism. Is removing government from marriage the best outcome? Yes. It is likely? No. Does that mean we accept freedom minimizing outcomes because we can't get the Holy Grail? No. That is abandoning the ideology as you seem very intent upon doing.

Is gay marriage ideal? No. Does it expand personal freedoms? Yes. Therefore, as a realistic libertarian, we should push for it as it expands personal freedoms. It makes no sense as a libertarian to push for something that curtails personal freedom, especially when the long term outcome does not expand personal freedom.

I'm not one for settling for something that isn't right.

But you are. You claim you follow libertarianism, but you accept antithetical ideas and laws.

How can you call yourself a libertarian when you accept antithetical ideas to libertarianism because you can't get the high and mighty?

If we cannot achieve full fledged democracy, we should install a dictator? What kind of thinking is that?

That's like abandoning Christanity because you cannot imitate Christ absolutely. That's insane. The high and mighty are rarely achieved. That does not mean we throw the baby out with the bathwater.

You call yourself a libertarian. But you have no problems abandoning it at the first sign of trouble.
 

LOL ..very good :mrgreen:
 

I totally agree with you on that. Ideally, I want government completely out of marriage; but, marriage laws are so entrenched, they'll never be overturned. The only option for equity is to support gay marriage. To not do so, is to give tacit support to this form of governmental discrimination.

Neither solution is libertarian; but given the realities, which of the two maximizes individual freedom (something very libertarian)?
 

Indeed. I don't see how someone can call themselves a Libertarian and then accept freedom curtailing laws because they can't get the exact law they want. It's like a vegetarian who doesn't like any of the vegetarian items on the menu and thus decides to order a large steak. Say what? But that's what phattonez is indeed doing. Can't get government out of marriage? Well, then it's okay to deny gay marriage. Huh?

Neither solution is libertarian; but given the realities, which of the two maximizes individual freedom (something very libertarian)?

Which is the crux of realistic libertarianism. You accept the most libertarian option. Even if it is not the one you ideally want. Besides, if we actually got the most libertarian laws, we'd be in anarchy. Absolute libertarian laws are something only psychopaths would want. Freedom to do whatever one wanted. Killing, rape, fraud, all that stuff.
 

Freedom is the ability to do whatever we want as long as we do not infringe on the rights and freedoms of others. Anything beyond that is not freedom.


You're not a libertarian because you don't seem to like libertarian principals.

Huh? Did you just make that up hoping it would make sense? You know, insane analogies that are taken to the absolute extreme serve relatively little good in rational discussion. Come back with a rational analogy that actually makes sense.

Oh but it makes perfect sense. Slavery is better than everyone getting killed (how having gay marriage and regular marriage sponsored by the state is better than just having regular marriage sponsored by the state), but slavery is still not a good thing. I won't vote for freedom, and if I'm prompted to vote my support for everyone getting killed, I wouldn't vote for that either. However, I haven't been prompted with that. I'll vote down slavery when I get the chance, I'll vote down everyone getting killed when I get the chance. I'll only support getting the state out altogether.


You can't understand my position until you look at the analogy seriously.


I'm not abandoning it. The state should not have any say in marriage, so I'll always vote that way: always. Just because I vote against gay marriage does not mean I am against the right of association or free speech, it means that I'm against government involvement.

Don't look at it like I'm voting against gay marriage, look at it like I'm voting against state involvement with marriage.

Look at it this way. I don't think gay marriage is really marriage, but with freedom of association, it really doesn't matter. You can call yourself whatever you like and I can ignore that. It's no problem for anyone. However, the state offers me the chance to accept or reject it. I reject it on 2 principles: that it violates my freedom of association (I don't accept it) and that I don't feel that the state should intrude into our personal lives. In a free country, there would be a 3rd option: you do what you like. However, government has effectively killed that option, so I will vote to reject government involvement.

You may ask what if it was reversed. I don't like drugs. So if I'm voting along personal views, I would want the state to support the war on drugs. However, it violates higher principles that I believe in. I believe that we are in control of our body and that the state should not intrude into our personal lives. So I will always vote against the war on drugs. Even though personal feelings would lead me to vote for it, higher principles push me to vote against it.

Hopefully this makes it clearer for you.
 
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it's just a lean.

I put down that I lean libertarian, but in truth, libertarianism is idiotic and unworkable. For instance, nobody wants 9 years old driving cars on the freeway. Fortunately, us statists put a stop to it so you can cover yourself in libertarian purity clothing and go around talking about what awful statists the rest of us are while remaining in a functional society.
 

In calling yourself a libertarian, you don't seem to understand it. If private companies were in charge of the roads, you think that kids would be allowed to drive on them?

The problem is that you're critiquing libertarianism from an interventionist framework. Of course it's going to look bad.
 

I don't call myself a libertarian, I lean that way, but call myself a conservative.


libertarianism is bad because just like Marxism, it ignores the human equation. For instance, when can a father start having sex with his daughter? 5? 9? 18? Never? A libertarian purist will come back with some lame ass stuff about when she can enter into contract - while ignoring that the monopoly of state power determines when a person is able to enter into contracts. oops - you just might be a statist afterall.
 
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