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I think we all knew this because it is only biological and natural for men to do this:
https://www.msn.com/en-ca/lifestyle...don’t-like-you-that-way/ar-AAoRFaA?li=AAggxAX
I am still baffled why women get offended when a man stares at her chest or hips, especially if she is wearing provocative clothing.
That's rather subjective and, possibly, biased. Definitely requires a qualified second opinion.
I think we all knew this because it is only biological and natural for men to do this:
https://www.msn.com/en-ca/lifestyle...don’t-like-you-that-way/ar-AAoRFaA?li=AAggxAX
I am still baffled why women get offended when a man stares at her chest or hips, especially if she is wearing provocative clothing.
I am still baffled why women get offended when a man stares at her chest or hips, especially if she is wearing provocative clothing.
I think we all knew this because it is only biological and natural for men to do this:
https://www.msn.com/en-ca/lifestyle...don’t-like-you-that-way/ar-AAoRFaA?li=AAggxAX
I am still baffled why women get offended when a man stares at her chest or hips, especially if she is wearing provocative clothing.
Try this experiment. next time you are standing next to a man and having a conversation with him. Instead of looking him in the eyes be very obvious about staring at the point where his penis should be. Do you think the other man might become a tad offended by this?
You really can't interchange men and women's sexuality. They really are very different. The Golden Rule does not, and cannot, apply.
I remember this local political debate once, where the woman was upset and angrily asking the other male candidate: "How would you like it if you were just trying to walk down the street and a car full of women pulled up to you and started cat-calling and flirting with you?"
The man didn't say anything. I think he was just not sure how to answer. Then a wry smile appeared on his lips, and the whole audience just broke out into this nervous laugh. 'Nuff said, he seemed to be saying.
What works on one sex is not interchangeable with the other.
There is your problem, the stare. Nothing creepy about a look or glance, just don't stare... unless you're wearing sunglasses so they don't know.
It was more a thought experiment than try it in real life experiment. But true the best way to annoy a man is not to sexualise him but to simply dismiss him as irrelevant. If you want the equivelent for a man then the Best way is to simply ignore what he said or just tell him to go away and stop bothering people. Men have just as much a need to be taken seriously instead of being objectified as women do.
but staring IS natural.
So? So is cancer. EVERYTHING is natural, not an argument for being creepy.
My stare is not creepy.
I don't show me stare to be anything but a glance. But all men stare.
Men are objectified. That is true and observable irrespective of the Dear Leaders in the Democratic and Republican Parties having failed to make a pronouncement on it.
Men are financially objectified by women. That might date back to antiquity.
One can observe this is current times if they have eyes and ears and willing to use both rather than waiting on their Dear Leaders to issue some pontification on the existence or lack of of a thing.
But I think women would complain if they did not get any sexual attraction attention at all. Actually, I know that many women do complain about this even if indirectly. Or what the hell does one think the whole "lets program boys to view all girls and women as equally attractive" was born from in these things like "she's a beautiful big black woman" (meaning obese woman)?
So, Dear Leaders in the USA have proclaimed from their high towers that boys and men are not judged on their looks. :shock: :lamo
Why the hell do men expend so much caloric energy and mental allocation to looking better physically then?
Oh! But wait! Cries the Dear Leaders... it is a universal truism they say that men don't have to look good to get ahead in business and politics or entertainment but women do have to be super hot looking. Really Dear Leaders? Is your "truism" merely false pontification or do you all have a very low bar for "hot looking women." Maybe that's why you all rocketed Hillary Clinton to political stardom.
I don't find Ellen "hot looking." She is "cool" and has likable personality but I don't think of her as "hot" like a J-Lo.
You don't get to decide that, the person you are staring at does.
All men look, all men do not stare. If yours is merely a glace than you're not staring. Please don't bother me if the disagreement is mere semantics. Staring is creepy, even a desirable glance can turn creepy if it goes too long. Also, staring means you're not doing, hesitation is not attractive either.
Either say hello or move on, but don't just gawk.
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