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The topics of this post are going to be about religion, the nature of man, and how it relates to many of the questions in US politics.
Ultimately, I want people to think about this question
What constitutes happiness?
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All through elementary-school, middle school, high school, pretty much all public. I worked really hard (I still do now, but thats not the point I am trying to make).
In middle school, I went to school in the mornin. After school, I'd usually come fairly straight home, unless there was some other thing that kept me at school, whether it was chorus or friends or whatever. Most of the time after school, I chilled with my brother and his friends (my brother is 3 years older than I am). We did whatever some guys do (usually would play video games).
In high school, I would go to school at 7 in the mornin (impossibly earlier for me), and when I joined track for 3 1/3 years, it usually means that I would come home at 7:30 in the eveningish (7:00). Spent next few hours eating and doing work.
Now onto my thoughts.
Why is this the way that my life is? In general, why do people spend so much time doing things, without really slowing down? We spend all of our day going from place to place to place, barely giving ourselves a time to breath. Its all about what people are doing, how well that they do it, and if they are getting goals accomplished.
From dawn till dusk in education, we spend the vast majority of our time workin or doing stuff, without really appreciating it. It don't matter whether it is actually going to classes, studying, joining a team, doing some of the arts, whatever. I guarantee you, most of the people that go to classes are only doing it for a particular reason, not because they actually enjoy doing it. All I know is what I know. I ran track for 3 1/3 years, not because I necessarily enjoyed the physical act of running, but because I liked the competition and the social atmosphere that it provided me. It didn't necessarily make me feel happy. Sure it made me feel good at some times, but there were also times that it mad me feel bad at some times (injuries, times when I was not around other people takin the train home, or when all the friends I had made on the team graduated, w/e). Even on the team, it was a collection of individuals on a common team, rather than a team dispersed among many people.
Then I got to college. At college there was still work, but most of the time I was free to do whatever I choosed - hang out with friends (madd lot), do some karate, go to hillel (i'm jewish fyi). Even last year, I felt that a lot of my friends weren't friends, per say, but just people that were always in my room. It was as if my individiuality was still present even after the first full year of college. I felt changed since I had left high school, definately, but I didn't necessarily feel happy about myself. I felt more confident, whcih is unequivically a plus, but I didn't really feel happy.
This year, I came back with a vast increase of confidence from the summer. Recently, my friend has essentially turned into, or at least is far in the process of, a orthodox jew ( we drink a lot...a lot....a lot). So naturally since my interest is in politics, we started having discussions. Most of the stuff he said is retarded. I tell him that all the time. But one night I went with him to a Chabad house that is just off-campus. There, there was a 20 sumthin year old rabbi with his beautiful wife, and like 2-3 children. There I came to the realization that they were both orthodox jewish, an active part of the jewish community; spiritually, they were cut off from 'greater society' or what i refer to as 'market america (white america)'. And, they appeared to be happy. Whether or not they were happy is another question, but I believe to the fullest amount that I have been given the ability to believe that they are generally happy. You can't fake happiness.
So there I had it. What makes them so much happier then what I had been for the past year in college, and for high school, and whenever? I thought about it for a while. I noticed what they did; every friday night, at their house, they had people over for shabbat; they studied torah, they raised kids, whatever. I made the realization that the way that they participated in judaism explains a lot of their actions. Dear god, I thought, a very religious person...acting happy?
What is it about judaism that made them happy, or made them fufilled in some way, shape, or form? Here, I end my observations, and just talk about my conclusions.
They weren't happy because they were jewish. There are many jews, who do not consider themselves happy. Being jewish does not equal being happy.
What was it then? I cannot prove it, but I think that they were happy because they were part of a community, and solidly part of that community. They believed that they were part of that community. Its not about the laws, its not abuot the teachings that they were probably following. I don't know exactly the teachings of judaism. But no matter. They were happy when they knew that they were in the presence of other jews, and when everyone is rejoicing in the fruits of life. They were happy when they were toasting over shabbat, they were happy when they were makin music, doin all with people from their jewish community.
In short, what made them was not the fact that people were from a particular religion, but that they were from a particular family. Sure I may have nothing in relation to this guy, but we are sort of an extended family, with a distant but shared identity. We don't follow the same laws, but we were both there at mt sinai to recieve moses's 2 tablets, we both look to jerusalem, both look towards israel, both have some sort of relation about the hebrew language, and both believe in the presence of adonai.
Then I started thinkin abuot, what constitutes a community? Looking at my particular life, the Jewish community, the things that first come to mind are as follows:
A) A large enough amount of people so that their is always opportunities to meet new people.
B) Life, and the things that make life special, are promoted beyond things that don't make life special.
C) People have a shared identity.
D) People you can rejoice in life with, and truthfully feel good about doing something.
E) A common something that binds you together.
- I'm sure those other things,and even this list isn't completly thought through.
Once I realized this, I asked myself, why don't I put more faith in god and the jewish community, and the various other communities I belong to. Once I started doing that, I found that my life changed dramatically. No longer am I dependent on girls to keep my focus on life's goals, of eventually being a husband and a father (arg, I think thats the first time I ever admitted that -_-). I take a look at the community, keep my faith in god, and I am able to percieve life in a mystical sort of way.
After that, I started contemplating the nature of god. God is too infinite for any mortals to ever come close to comprehending. So trying to analyze gods nature is pointless. However, we can analyze its effects. God is an all powerful being, that is connected with the way that we view politics, life, nature, etc. God creates a certain style of living, a certain set of laws. God's law is brought to the people by the prophets, and is taught to the people by the teachers of its will. In a succinct sort of way, god is a certain style of life. The prophets bring the style of life from the unknown to the people. And the teachers teach a certain style of life to the people.
When I hear talk of a new world order, when I hear talk of how religion is responsible for most of the wars of history, when I hear how people should have the ability to do whatever they want, when I hear that people should spend their entire lives workin jobs they hate to buy **** they don't want, I ask...does that make you happy? A new world order could only come about if religion/communities were pretty much negated in the lives of people. I'd like to see someone argue against that.
To the claim that religion is responsible for the wars of history...I ask you, is it religion, or is it demoguages that usurp the allegiences of the people for their own sadistic purposes?
To the claim that liberty and freedom should not be violated...is the goal in life to be happy or is the goal in life to be able to do whatever you want?
To sum up, my feelings are:
The essential part of religion is not the teachings, its the community, and the family-feeling.
Religion will always be dwarfed out in a society where most people participate in non-relgious activites, or think non-religious things, the vast majority of their lives.
For many years I missed the greater points of life; when I was like that, I could become satisfied, but as easily become unsatisfied.
A community is a group of people that (see list above). Most importantly, they are people who you can share life with.
The general mode of trying to promote 'freedom' and 'liberty' is wrong; that is the case, because freedom and liberty without happiness is pointless.
If people want to restore the general spirit of America, you have to restore the common god of America; the teachings of the enlightenment; and get rid of the teachings of the centralizing world.
Centralizing government runs hand in hand with decreasing community influence, increasing freedom and liberty, but decreasing ability of people to feel happy.
Decentralizing government runs hand in hand with increasing community influence, decreasing freedom and liberty, but greater happiness and public spirit.
Being happy means that you are in the presence of god.
God is a being that spawns whatever community you live in.
Ultimately, I want people to think about this question
What constitutes happiness?
-
All through elementary-school, middle school, high school, pretty much all public. I worked really hard (I still do now, but thats not the point I am trying to make).
In middle school, I went to school in the mornin. After school, I'd usually come fairly straight home, unless there was some other thing that kept me at school, whether it was chorus or friends or whatever. Most of the time after school, I chilled with my brother and his friends (my brother is 3 years older than I am). We did whatever some guys do (usually would play video games).
In high school, I would go to school at 7 in the mornin (impossibly earlier for me), and when I joined track for 3 1/3 years, it usually means that I would come home at 7:30 in the eveningish (7:00). Spent next few hours eating and doing work.
Now onto my thoughts.
Why is this the way that my life is? In general, why do people spend so much time doing things, without really slowing down? We spend all of our day going from place to place to place, barely giving ourselves a time to breath. Its all about what people are doing, how well that they do it, and if they are getting goals accomplished.
From dawn till dusk in education, we spend the vast majority of our time workin or doing stuff, without really appreciating it. It don't matter whether it is actually going to classes, studying, joining a team, doing some of the arts, whatever. I guarantee you, most of the people that go to classes are only doing it for a particular reason, not because they actually enjoy doing it. All I know is what I know. I ran track for 3 1/3 years, not because I necessarily enjoyed the physical act of running, but because I liked the competition and the social atmosphere that it provided me. It didn't necessarily make me feel happy. Sure it made me feel good at some times, but there were also times that it mad me feel bad at some times (injuries, times when I was not around other people takin the train home, or when all the friends I had made on the team graduated, w/e). Even on the team, it was a collection of individuals on a common team, rather than a team dispersed among many people.
Then I got to college. At college there was still work, but most of the time I was free to do whatever I choosed - hang out with friends (madd lot), do some karate, go to hillel (i'm jewish fyi). Even last year, I felt that a lot of my friends weren't friends, per say, but just people that were always in my room. It was as if my individiuality was still present even after the first full year of college. I felt changed since I had left high school, definately, but I didn't necessarily feel happy about myself. I felt more confident, whcih is unequivically a plus, but I didn't really feel happy.
This year, I came back with a vast increase of confidence from the summer. Recently, my friend has essentially turned into, or at least is far in the process of, a orthodox jew ( we drink a lot...a lot....a lot). So naturally since my interest is in politics, we started having discussions. Most of the stuff he said is retarded. I tell him that all the time. But one night I went with him to a Chabad house that is just off-campus. There, there was a 20 sumthin year old rabbi with his beautiful wife, and like 2-3 children. There I came to the realization that they were both orthodox jewish, an active part of the jewish community; spiritually, they were cut off from 'greater society' or what i refer to as 'market america (white america)'. And, they appeared to be happy. Whether or not they were happy is another question, but I believe to the fullest amount that I have been given the ability to believe that they are generally happy. You can't fake happiness.
So there I had it. What makes them so much happier then what I had been for the past year in college, and for high school, and whenever? I thought about it for a while. I noticed what they did; every friday night, at their house, they had people over for shabbat; they studied torah, they raised kids, whatever. I made the realization that the way that they participated in judaism explains a lot of their actions. Dear god, I thought, a very religious person...acting happy?
What is it about judaism that made them happy, or made them fufilled in some way, shape, or form? Here, I end my observations, and just talk about my conclusions.
They weren't happy because they were jewish. There are many jews, who do not consider themselves happy. Being jewish does not equal being happy.
What was it then? I cannot prove it, but I think that they were happy because they were part of a community, and solidly part of that community. They believed that they were part of that community. Its not about the laws, its not abuot the teachings that they were probably following. I don't know exactly the teachings of judaism. But no matter. They were happy when they knew that they were in the presence of other jews, and when everyone is rejoicing in the fruits of life. They were happy when they were toasting over shabbat, they were happy when they were makin music, doin all with people from their jewish community.
In short, what made them was not the fact that people were from a particular religion, but that they were from a particular family. Sure I may have nothing in relation to this guy, but we are sort of an extended family, with a distant but shared identity. We don't follow the same laws, but we were both there at mt sinai to recieve moses's 2 tablets, we both look to jerusalem, both look towards israel, both have some sort of relation about the hebrew language, and both believe in the presence of adonai.
Then I started thinkin abuot, what constitutes a community? Looking at my particular life, the Jewish community, the things that first come to mind are as follows:
A) A large enough amount of people so that their is always opportunities to meet new people.
B) Life, and the things that make life special, are promoted beyond things that don't make life special.
C) People have a shared identity.
D) People you can rejoice in life with, and truthfully feel good about doing something.
E) A common something that binds you together.
- I'm sure those other things,and even this list isn't completly thought through.
Once I realized this, I asked myself, why don't I put more faith in god and the jewish community, and the various other communities I belong to. Once I started doing that, I found that my life changed dramatically. No longer am I dependent on girls to keep my focus on life's goals, of eventually being a husband and a father (arg, I think thats the first time I ever admitted that -_-). I take a look at the community, keep my faith in god, and I am able to percieve life in a mystical sort of way.
After that, I started contemplating the nature of god. God is too infinite for any mortals to ever come close to comprehending. So trying to analyze gods nature is pointless. However, we can analyze its effects. God is an all powerful being, that is connected with the way that we view politics, life, nature, etc. God creates a certain style of living, a certain set of laws. God's law is brought to the people by the prophets, and is taught to the people by the teachers of its will. In a succinct sort of way, god is a certain style of life. The prophets bring the style of life from the unknown to the people. And the teachers teach a certain style of life to the people.
When I hear talk of a new world order, when I hear talk of how religion is responsible for most of the wars of history, when I hear how people should have the ability to do whatever they want, when I hear that people should spend their entire lives workin jobs they hate to buy **** they don't want, I ask...does that make you happy? A new world order could only come about if religion/communities were pretty much negated in the lives of people. I'd like to see someone argue against that.
To the claim that religion is responsible for the wars of history...I ask you, is it religion, or is it demoguages that usurp the allegiences of the people for their own sadistic purposes?
To the claim that liberty and freedom should not be violated...is the goal in life to be happy or is the goal in life to be able to do whatever you want?
To sum up, my feelings are:
The essential part of religion is not the teachings, its the community, and the family-feeling.
Religion will always be dwarfed out in a society where most people participate in non-relgious activites, or think non-religious things, the vast majority of their lives.
For many years I missed the greater points of life; when I was like that, I could become satisfied, but as easily become unsatisfied.
A community is a group of people that (see list above). Most importantly, they are people who you can share life with.
The general mode of trying to promote 'freedom' and 'liberty' is wrong; that is the case, because freedom and liberty without happiness is pointless.
If people want to restore the general spirit of America, you have to restore the common god of America; the teachings of the enlightenment; and get rid of the teachings of the centralizing world.
Centralizing government runs hand in hand with decreasing community influence, increasing freedom and liberty, but decreasing ability of people to feel happy.
Decentralizing government runs hand in hand with increasing community influence, decreasing freedom and liberty, but greater happiness and public spirit.
Being happy means that you are in the presence of god.
God is a being that spawns whatever community you live in.