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For the longest time I thought ethnicity and race were the same thing.
Then when I was living in Rhode Island, I had a lady friend of mine totally blow my mind with a perfect example of how they are NOT the same thing.
She was a black lady of whom I worked with. I got along fine with her as I do with pretty much everyone I meet.
One day on St Patrick's Day she had a hat that said, KISS ME I AM IRISH. I chuckled a bit at that, and kissed her, but then later in the break room after a job I returned from, I asked her about it. She said she comes from a proud IRISH heritage, in that her father was IRISH and her mother was black. Her mother married into that heritage, and they celebrate that holiday all the time. She also told me there are quite a few Mexicans that are also IRISH and do the same thing.
That is when she told me about ETHNICITY vs. RACE....and blew my mind.
She said to explain ETHNICITY, she will tell me there are two ethic groups that completely hate each other generally, but...
are the same race
are the same religion
are loyal to the same country
live in the same cities
but generally can't stand each other.
She said it was the IRISH and the ITALIANS
both are white
both are staunch Catholics
both love America
and both live close to each other in most major cities
but...let one or the other walk into the other neighborhood, and a rock or pipe might be laid upside their head. Being a Texan, I have no understanding of this, but I can hear the jokes and slurs all over the place up there in Rhode Island.
BOOM!...mind blown, and since I had lived in the eastern seaboard for a little bit, I could see exactly what she was talking about.
That is when I was made to understand how a person's ethnic makeup can be a major factor is some prejudices.
I experienced it myself, being a Cajun in ethnicity. The spelling of my last name leaves no doubt of my Cajun heritage. My football coach hated me, I have been harassed on the job, been lead on false job interviews for a laugh, and growing up my dad pronounced our last name totally wrong so HE could get a job. Once I got out of the Navy and came back to Houston, I could see what he was talking about.
It was not until I was working on Cajun river towboats where I learned the correct way to pronounce my last name. I would still love to learn to speak Loosiana Cajun French.
Well, there it is. ETHNICITY can make a huge difference in how a person is treated. I know it is wrong to do so, but understanding the difference might help all of us know better. It is also quite fascinating to have someone tell you and explain their ethnic background.
Then when I was living in Rhode Island, I had a lady friend of mine totally blow my mind with a perfect example of how they are NOT the same thing.
She was a black lady of whom I worked with. I got along fine with her as I do with pretty much everyone I meet.
One day on St Patrick's Day she had a hat that said, KISS ME I AM IRISH. I chuckled a bit at that, and kissed her, but then later in the break room after a job I returned from, I asked her about it. She said she comes from a proud IRISH heritage, in that her father was IRISH and her mother was black. Her mother married into that heritage, and they celebrate that holiday all the time. She also told me there are quite a few Mexicans that are also IRISH and do the same thing.
That is when she told me about ETHNICITY vs. RACE....and blew my mind.
She said to explain ETHNICITY, she will tell me there are two ethic groups that completely hate each other generally, but...
are the same race
are the same religion
are loyal to the same country
live in the same cities
but generally can't stand each other.
She said it was the IRISH and the ITALIANS
both are white
both are staunch Catholics
both love America
and both live close to each other in most major cities
but...let one or the other walk into the other neighborhood, and a rock or pipe might be laid upside their head. Being a Texan, I have no understanding of this, but I can hear the jokes and slurs all over the place up there in Rhode Island.
BOOM!...mind blown, and since I had lived in the eastern seaboard for a little bit, I could see exactly what she was talking about.
That is when I was made to understand how a person's ethnic makeup can be a major factor is some prejudices.
I experienced it myself, being a Cajun in ethnicity. The spelling of my last name leaves no doubt of my Cajun heritage. My football coach hated me, I have been harassed on the job, been lead on false job interviews for a laugh, and growing up my dad pronounced our last name totally wrong so HE could get a job. Once I got out of the Navy and came back to Houston, I could see what he was talking about.
It was not until I was working on Cajun river towboats where I learned the correct way to pronounce my last name. I would still love to learn to speak Loosiana Cajun French.
Well, there it is. ETHNICITY can make a huge difference in how a person is treated. I know it is wrong to do so, but understanding the difference might help all of us know better. It is also quite fascinating to have someone tell you and explain their ethnic background.
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