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After Minneapolis Church Shooting, Families Seek Healing and Comfort
Families and neighbors sought comfort on Thursday. “Give your kids an extra hug and kiss today,” the father of a victim said.www.nytimes.com
Outside the Annunciation Catholic Church on Thursday, the mood was one of healing. People hugged and wiped away tears. Children carried teddy bears and ate pizza. There was a therapy dog, a golden retriever named Rosie, whom people could pet. A local Trader Joe’s worker dropped off buckets of flowers.
Families and neighbors had gathered outside the church in Minneapolis, where a shooter killed two children and injured 18 others the day before, to hear remarks from Jesse Merkel, who lost his son Fletcher in the shooting. Seeming to hold back tears, he asked for “not your sympathy, but your empathy, as our families grieve and try to make sense of a senseless act of violence.”
“Please remember Fletcher for the person he was and not the act that ended his life,” Mr. Merkel said. “Give your kids an extra hug and kiss today. We love you, Fletcher, you’ll always be with us.”
Signs of grieving, support and remembrance appeared to be everywhere: on posters, in chalk, on plywood....
In front of the church’s front door, a memorial was set up for Fletcher with letters, drawings, teddy bears, balloons and flowers. In the center was a sign with Fletcher’s name, with the words: “I love you always and forever. Mom.”
And who might that be? Who is making fun of people who are grieving? Please do tell.They are immersing themselves in thoughts and prayers, despite some making fun of the idea or even marginalizing it.
I doubt anyone who believes in the power of prayer would be put off by scoffing.They are immersing themselves in thoughts and prayers, despite some making fun of the idea or even marginalizing it.
And who might that be? Who is making fun of people who are grieving? Please do tell.
I doubt anyone who believes in the power of prayer would be put off by scoffing.
I doubt anyone who believes in the power of prayer would be put off by scoffing.
Post #14So it's okay to scoff at them.
And love. Fletcher, and Harper, may your memories be a blessing and a catalyst for good.Takes a lot of courage.
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"Please remember Flecher as the person he was and not the act that ended his life"
And if you haven't noticed most of the responses in this post you aren't reading the room.If you've never noticed the sarcastic "thoughts and prayers" expressed in these threads- and the marginalization of the idea-, you aren't very observant.
I don't want to, but it looks as if we have little choice at this point.I took my 16 m/o granddaughter to daycare at the JCC this morning and after 2 days with me and I almost lost it when I saw a sign with "May their memories be a blessing" and the security guards greeting each child by name and her big smile when she saw them. I'm sure they saw my fear as well. Is this this how we want to live in a country where guns and their owners have more rights than we do?
And if you haven't noticed most of the responses in this post you aren't reading the room.
Post #14
I haven't said, "It's okay to scoff" at those who believe in the power of prayer.
However, if you want to "scoff" at those who believe in the power of prayer, you are free to do so.
Yes.So it's okay to scoff at them.
Yes.
"Thoughts and prayers"
Doing something.......no.
They deserve to be scoffed at.
Both.Which are you? Thoughts and prayers? Or doing something?