What a dumb lecture.This is all so simple it eludes people because they think life needs to be more complicated that this. Envy is BS. Not as bad as revenge, but certainly down there. Just don't think about what others have! That's depressing. There are better things to think about. How to be happy:
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time.
It doesn't take a lot of money, just enough to have the basic needs covered; plus a little for discretionary spending. Money does not equal happiness. Having more money does not make one happier. Envy is a monster that consumes. No matter how much wealth one gets there will always be someone else with more. No matter how impressive one's possessions are, someone else will always have something more impressive. Having impressive possessions does not equal happiness. Enjoying what one does with their life does produce happiness.
Getting impressive possessions might seem cool; but are the possessions to enjoy or are they meant to impress? If they are meant to impress, they will not bring as much pleasure as those things which are meant to enjoy. One can own a really expensive car, but is it really worth spending a lot of money on it if it makes one broke and the greatest pleasure from it comes from showing it off to others? That's kind of shallow and fleeting. After it has been shown off to a person that part is done. Then what? Find another person to show it off to? Quickly, one will run out of people to impress. When that happens, what's the point in having spent so much money for it? Go out and drive it around? Driving is dangerous. Doing it for pleasure is rare. Driving is a PITA, not fun. Your life is being risked to get from one place to another. That's driving. Unless away from most other vehicles; traffic represents danger.
One could derive more pleasure from reading books than driving impressive cars. It is way safer, and much cheaper. One could go fishing. One could play a musical instrument. Learn a craft. Go hiking. Go to a park. Ride a bicycle. Go boating. (Those last two can get really expensive if one gets caught up in it, but it doesn't have to.) Hang out with friends. Go boating on a friend's boat. (By far the best way to go boating.) Take up painting. Become an artist. Write books. Volunteer. Join a club.
Bored at home? Travel. That can be very expensive or done on the cheap. 5 star hotels to tent camping, there is a wide range of experiences available. It doesn't have to take a lot of money.
Whatever one does to enjoy life, it is the enjoyment of the passage of time that is important. Not how much money is spent doing it.
Showing off, impressing others is extremely over-rated. Not really worth the money. Finding things to do that one enjoys, and then doing them. Sharing it with others who also enjoy it. That's the secret. The secret of life.
We only have so many years to live. A finite number of months, weeks, days, hours, moments. One does not have to wait until a certain amount of wealth is achieved to enjoy life. It could be a worker who gets a little time after work to hang out at a local watering hole. Have a few laughs. Be a barfly. If that's what makes one happy that is what they should do. The moments of pleasure are what makes life worth while.
Look at us. We like to discuss politics online. That makes us happy. What does it cost us? Very little. A device. A connection. Maybe a donation if one chooses. We don't have to be billionaires to enjoy coming here. We like to do it, so we do. Some of us just enjoy learning, staying informed, brainstorming ideas. Others want to mess with people. That's a shallow pleasure. A pleasure is best if it doesn't involve hurting or belittling others. It is a guilty pleasure that uses others in order to produce pleasure. It comes with the stress of knowing that the pleasure cost someone else's happiness. Pleasure that doesn't hurt others is guilt-free.
The best pleasure is shared with others and doesn't cost a lot of money. Shared experiences. Stories. Memories. We are all free to find it. If we choose to look for it. If we have the clairvoyance to see the big picture, to see the secret of life as a human on planet Earth is easy to find. We just have to decide what we like and go for it. Don't choose envy. Bad idea. Envy does not produce happiness. Envy is to be avoided. Seek pleasure and forget about envy. It might help to know that the person one is envying is probably envying someone else. The grass may be greener but it is worth stopping to smell the roses.
It's number that reflect the fact that when Right Wing and Conservative Republican talk about cutting public services, they blind themselves to the high volume of white people they will plunge into dire consequences, Yet... to many still listen to right wing media and Republican Politicians keep trying to cut, damage and destroy public services, while right wing media push a narrative as if its black people who are consuming the majority of public services.Correct. What are you trying to show here? That white people are poorer than Blacks, so whites take advantage of social systems more?
All people from all cultures have experience warfare of violence between themselves. What is your point hereAnd, of course, Africans before white contact, never had any warfare of violence between themselves, nor any envy (Rwanda) sarc.
There was no recession. Is this the new right wing talking point? You didn’t get the recession you needed, so claim it already happened? The last administration had a hand in inflation too. Did you forget that they needed to raise the debt ceiling three times? All before the pandemic in case you want to try to throw that excuse out.Im seriously not wasting my time with anyone who doesnt understand Biden had a recession, ongoing inflation, and last quarter GDP was was revised up to a flat 2%.
Why would you take it literally, rather than perspectively, in knowing that "nothing" ever includes all, it is a reference to "some'.I'm white but not a conservative. This is absolutely the most idiotic thread I've ever seen on this board full stop.
What double standards are your referring toJust opposing lefty double standards. I don't defend slavery.
One can own a really expensive car, but is it really worth spending a lot of money on it if it makes one broke and the greatest pleasure from it comes from showing it off to others?
It's number that reflect the fact that when Right Wing and Conservative Republican talk about cutting public services, they blind themselves to the high volume of white people they will plunge into dire consequences, Yet... to many still listen to right wing media and Republican Politicians keep trying to cut, damage and destroy public services, while right wing media push a narrative as if its black people who are consuming the majority of public services.
These numbers simply show who are the highest volume of public service users in this country.
Can you believe these people have the audacity to talk about double standards, when they pushed Amy Barrett on the Supreme Court by their own double standards, and they did the same with Gorsuch, and Cavanaugh.What double standards are your referring to
We don't know the political lean of these people,This would be correct if one subscribes to the narrative that the typical republican voter is white and poor, and therefore voting against their own interest when they vote for republicans who want to reduce welfare.
The republican voter makes more money than a democrat voter, and is therefore less effected by welfare reduction and more effected by tax increases.
We don't know the political lean of these people,
This is all so simple it eludes people because they think life needs to be more complicated that this. Envy is BS. Not as bad as revenge, but certainly down there. Just don't think about what others have! That's depressing. There are better things to think about. How to be happy:
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time.
It doesn't take a lot of money, just enough to have the basic needs covered; plus a little for discretionary spending. Money does not equal happiness. Having more money does not make one happier. Envy is a monster that consumes. No matter how much wealth one gets there will always be someone else with more. No matter how impressive one's possessions are, someone else will always have something more impressive. Having impressive possessions does not equal happiness. Enjoying what one does with their life does produce happiness.
Getting impressive possessions might seem cool; but are the possessions to enjoy or are they meant to impress? If they are meant to impress, they will not bring as much pleasure as those things which are meant to enjoy. One can own a really expensive car, but is it really worth spending a lot of money on it if it makes one broke and the greatest pleasure from it comes from showing it off to others? That's kind of shallow and fleeting. After it has been shown off to a person that part is done. Then what? Find another person to show it off to? Quickly, one will run out of people to impress. When that happens, what's the point in having spent so much money for it? Go out and drive it around? Driving is dangerous. Doing it for pleasure is rare. Driving is a PITA, not fun. Your life is being risked to get from one place to another. That's driving. Unless away from most other vehicles; traffic represents danger.
One could derive more pleasure from reading books than driving impressive cars. It is way safer, and much cheaper. One could go fishing. One could play a musical instrument. Learn a craft. Go hiking. Go to a park. Ride a bicycle. Go boating. (Those last two can get really expensive if one gets caught up in it, but it doesn't have to.) Hang out with friends. Go boating on a friend's boat. (By far the best way to go boating.) Take up painting. Become an artist. Write books. Volunteer. Join a club.
Bored at home? Travel. That can be very expensive or done on the cheap. 5 star hotels to tent camping, there is a wide range of experiences available. It doesn't have to take a lot of money.
Whatever one does to enjoy life, it is the enjoyment of the passage of time that is important. Not how much money is spent doing it.
Showing off, impressing others is extremely over-rated. Not really worth the money. Finding things to do that one enjoys, and then doing them. Sharing it with others who also enjoy it. That's the secret. The secret of life.
We only have so many years to live. A finite number of months, weeks, days, hours, moments. One does not have to wait until a certain amount of wealth is achieved to enjoy life. It could be a worker who gets a little time after work to hang out at a local watering hole. Have a few laughs. Be a barfly. If that's what makes one happy that is what they should do. The moments of pleasure are what makes life worth while.
Look at us. We like to discuss politics online. That makes us happy. What does it cost us? Very little. A device. A connection. Maybe a donation if one chooses. We don't have to be billionaires to enjoy coming here. We like to do it, so we do. Some of us just enjoy learning, staying informed, brainstorming ideas. Others want to mess with people. That's a shallow pleasure. A pleasure is best if it doesn't involve hurting or belittling others. It is a guilty pleasure that uses others in order to produce pleasure. It comes with the stress of knowing that the pleasure cost someone else's happiness. Pleasure that doesn't hurt others is guilt-free.
The best pleasure is shared with others and doesn't cost a lot of money. Shared experiences. Stories. Memories. We are all free to find it. If we choose to look for it. If we have the clairvoyance to see the big picture, to see the secret of life as a human on planet Earth is easy to find. We just have to decide what we like and go for it. Don't choose envy. Bad idea. Envy does not produce happiness. Envy is to be avoided. Seek pleasure and forget about envy. It might help to know that the person one is envying is probably envying someone else. The grass may be greener but it is worth stopping to smell the roses.
If you care to do that, when you finish; please share your findings and how you derived at your results.Yes we do. Look up voting patterns by income.
If you care to do that, when you finish; please share your findings and how you derived at your results.
The links have interesting information, I will say the commentary within the linked info has a lot of variables. The transition points seem to change, but it also depends on the locality of people.As income grows, households lean more republican
https://www.debt.org/faqs/americans-in-debt/economic-demographics-democrats/
An individual’s likelihood of being a Democrat decreases with every additional dollar he or she earns. Democrats have a huge advantage (63 percent) with voters earning less than $15,000 per year. This advantage carries forward for individuals earning up to $50,000 per year, and then turns in the Republicans’ favor — with just 36 percent of individuals earning more than $200,000 per year supporting Democrats.
Interestingly, the median household income in the United States is $49,777 — right near the point where the Democratic advantage disappears and the Republicans take over.
This information is usually supressed by narratives of education level, or red states being poorer than blue states.
Conservative "White Skin People" are Driven by Envy and Resentment.
Their ancestry brought it with them from their feudal and barbarous regions they came from in Europe and pass it down through the generations. The core of their feudal mentality is always filled with ENVY AND RESENTMENT WRAPPED IN JEALOUSLY.
For 100's of years this has always been the group who hates to see any other have something, achieve something or have the ability to do something, the other does not have, or cannot do.
- They hate to see liberal minded white people have things they themselves don't have, they even hate to see their fellow conservative right wing people have what they don't have;
- and they certainly hate to see black and brown people, and single women achieve anything.
Do you think that most people who buy expensive cars do it to show off? I don't. I think most people buy them for 3 reasons:One can own a really expensive car, but is it really worth spending a lot of money on it if it makes one broke and the greatest pleasure from it comes from showing it off to others?
The links have interesting information, I will say the commentary within the linked info has a lot of variables. The transition points seem to change, but it also depends on the locality of people.
As the info said, the make up of diversity within the ranks of democrats is a factor that deals with lots of varying income levels. As well as population density.
I would not say Republican are more Religious (Believer's in God) than Democrats, but I will say that Republicans spend in inordinate amount of time to promote their religious dogma narratives.
- ((Democrats have a tremendous amount of diversity in their ranks, especially when compared with the 87 percent white Republican Party.))
- ((This support is engrained in the culture and cuts across age, income and regional divisions. This support has been longstanding for many decades,))
- ((If an area has more than 500,000 people, it will go Democrat about 60 percent of the time. The political balance is even in areas with 50,000 to 500,000 people, and then turns decidedly in the Republicans’ favor at population levels below 50,000.))
Sounds like you're 'clinging' to the past.Think.... people.... (denialism is not your friend) For 100's of years, black people were not in the equation of monetary or material things.... and white people still had envy and resentment, among each other. when it came to blacks, which was acted out via racism, to try and keep black people from having the things white people had. American history is full of white people being envious and resentful of other white people having the same or more than another group had.
Instead of people trying to claim the post is racist, why not sit down and actually think rather than the knee jerk reactions to deflect and deny; review history and review the conflicts that have long persisted among varying white people based on their claim of ethnicity origin, their monetary and material holdings.
You can't learn when you default to denialism and try and discount the variables being discussed.
Let go of the Jim Crow grooming and you can learn.
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Stetson Kennedy, the author of Jim Crow Guide , offered these simple rules that black people were supposed to observe in conversing with white people:
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- Never assert or even intimate that a white person is lying.
- Never impute dishonorable intentions to a white person.
- Never suggest that a white person is from an inferior class.
- Never lay claim to, or overly demonstrate, superior knowledge or intelligence.
- Never curse a white person.
- Never laugh derisively at a white person.
These are the very Jim Crow Ideological grooming points, that Right Wing and Conservative white people cling to, which is why they can't face the truths being put forth.
Your post is hard to follow. Please learn to use the quote functions. ThxConservative "White Skin People" are Driven by Envy and Resentment.
Their ancestry brought it with them from their feudal and barbarous regions they came from in Europe and pass it down through the generations. The core of their feudal mentality is always filled with ENVY AND RESENTMENT WRAPPED IN JEALOUSLY.
For 100's of years this has always been the group who hates to see any other have something, achieve something or have the ability to do something, the other does not have, or cannot do.
- They hate to see liberal minded white people have things they themselves don't have, they even hate to see their fellow conservative right wing people have what they don't have;
- and they certainly hate to see black and brown people, and single women achieve anything.
LBJ exposed the mentality of their envy and resentment clearly to the entire nation:
President Lyndon B. Johnson once said,
MLK spoke about them in clear terms:
- "If you can convince the lowest white man he's better than the best colored man, he won't notice you're picking his pocket. Hell, give him somebody to look down on, and he'll empty his pockets for you."
Since the creation of these Web based Forums, we've seen right wing and conservative white people's envy and resentment repeatedly, 24/7/365.
- "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." ― Martin Luther King Jr.
- One can likely not find threads where these types don't show up. They can't help themselves, they have to display their envy and resentment about anything and everything.
It's been the basis of their biases, their bigotry and their racism, gender madness, and lifestyle attacks. It's the foundation of their Political Vile, they can't stand the fact that every American gets "one vote each'.
THESE PEOPLE HAVE TO FACE THESE REALITY WITHIN THEMSELVES, AND SMART PEOPLE WILL WORK TO DIMINISH THEIR MENTALITY OF ENVY AND RESENTMENT, AND THEY CAN LEARN HOW TO REDUCE THE FEARS THAT FEED JEALOUSY.
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Charlie Munger Says Hardships Faced In His Day Were 'Unbelievable,' But People Today Are Miserable, Despite Having it Easy — He Blames Envy
Addressing attendees at the annual meeting of the Daily Journal, the 99-year-old highlighted his own formative years during the 1930s. Munger recalled the profound challenges Americans faced during the Great Depression, expressing his surprise at the comparatively lower levels of happiness observed today.
Munger explained, "It's weird for somebody my age, because I was in the middle of the Great Depression when the hardship was unbelievable."
Studies prove Munger is right — Americans aren't as happy as they once were. The General Social Survey, which has been assessing American happiness levels since 1972, reveals a recent shift. Prior to the pandemic, more people reported being "very happy" than "not too happy." But in the latest survey, a record 24% expressed being "not too happy," while a record low of 19% claimed to be "very happy."
Munger also expressed concern about the role envy plays in people's lives today. He pointed out that before the 1800s, life was more challenging, lacking basic comforts and conveniences such as the printing press, air conditioning and modern medicine. Munger's comments highlight the significant progress made in recent centuries.
According to him, "It is the nature of our species that we look around us at other people and are envious of them if they have more than we do.
That envy has always been a big problem."
Studies suggest that about 75% of individuals experience envy toward others each year, supporting Munger's observations about the prevalence of envy in today's world.
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Now watch the right wingers and conservatives come with a whole cycle of spin denialism, rather than be silent and re-assess themselves and learn how to be better people.
What a dumb lecture.
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