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Are societal limits on our private lives a good or bad thing?

There actually was a time when society considered "queers-homos-fags-fairies" to be sick disgusting perverts_

And if anyone had ever suggested that they be permitted to marry, people would have said "when pigs fly"_

Fortunately, we now know through research that all of that was inaccurate.
 
Could or Should the SCOTUS DOMA Ruling open the door to unrestricted marriage?

No, but anyone truly interested in equality and the societal treatment of all individuals equally under any government law or program, this should be the beginning of the elimination of "marriage" in whatever form it takes as a qualifier for government largesse.

As an example, if two friends live together in order to save on housing costs, why shouldn't their relationship entitle them to file joint tax returns if by doing so they would reduce the amount of tax one or both pay or open up access to other benefits that a couple, in whatever government sanctioned form, receive as a matter of having the government certification?

There isn't a single person who's ever presented a rationed argument for the expansion of the definition of marriage that didn't couch it in some form as providing equal access to legal and tax benefits that traditionally married couples receive. The simple solution is to ensure that every legal and/or tax benefit that accrues to any two people who are "married" in whatever form also accrues to single people who may or may not "informally" couple in whatever form they choose.
 
And if people were permitted to drive cars, they might get drunk and kill somebody_

Do you seriously believe the worse case scenario defense is a viable argument???

That is probably especially important to you given your extreme xenophobia.
Since you invested so much time and effort to take this cheap-shot, I suppose a response is in order_

(that was it) :yt ...bye-bye~
 
And if people were permitted to drive cars, they might get drunk and kill somebody_

Which is why drunk driving is illegal.

Do you seriously believe the worse case scenario defense is a viable argument???

People already have marriages purely for immigration benefits today. The exploitation of the loophole is currently kept to an acceptable level by the limitation of being only able to marry a single person. If one person could marry unlimited spouses, the number of people abusing the loophole would massively increase. Its not the worst case scenario, its the likely scenario.


Since you invested so much time and effort to take this cheap-shot, I suppose a response is in order_

My response was a cheap shot, but that doesn't make it wrong either.
 
There actually was a time when society considered "queers-homos-fags-fairies" to be sick disgusting perverts_

And if anyone had ever suggested that they be permitted to marry, people would have said "when pigs fly"_

There was also a time when society considered women to be feeble-minded and incapable of seriously discussing matters of politics or voting. Its a bad idea for you to defend prejudiced traditions when you would so easily find your own neck on the chopping block.
 
Keep in mind that for Polygamy to be legal, each member of the marriage would likely have to consent.
Well of course Pas! This isn't about a shotgun wedding!

Just as you have done here, society gave countless reasons why homosexuals shouldn't marry_

You have the same mental block society had for gays which prevents you from seeing both sides of an issue_

The basic DOMA doctrine makes no specific reference to SSM other than simply being "The Issue Of The Day"_

The Defense Of Marriage Act admittedly was sparked by SSM but not exclusive for that issue alone_

DOMA's primary purpose was insuring that "traditional marriage" be the only legal form of matrimony_

If it was specifically a gay issue, it would likely have been worded the Defense Of Marriage From SSM_

The defeat of DOMA did indeed, although inadvertently, open the door to more than just SSM_

The basic argument presented by SSM to defeat DOMA in the Supreme Court was:

"Does society have the right to deprive anyone of the right to be happy"?

Now, with the demise of DOMA the only argument that is needed is:

"Does society have the right to deprive anyone else of the right to be happy"

Society also once believed that black people made excellent farm equipment and that a woman was property, owned her by father or her husband. Society maintains a lot of stupid ideas and it is excellent that we disabuse ourselves of such trite.
My point exactly, except that now those policies are no longer tolerated_

Societies laws, policies and tolerances have always been subject to change_

And still are__which is a fact you and others appear to be struggling with, despite SSM's victory_

I second Rathi's explanation to your final query.
As long as it's not to the cheap-shot he took_ :wink:
 
Could or Should the SCOTUS DOMA Ruling open the door to unrestricted marriage?

Could DOMA open the door?

No.

DOMA has nothing directly to do with any of the kinds of "marriage" that you're talking about.

It's like asking if the PATRIOT act opens the door for me to burglarize your house in order to snoop in your unmentionables drawer (a la panty raid).

You're talking about "effects" that have absolutely nothing to do with the "causes".

Unless you want to make some kind of "slippery slope" argument, in which case anything that deviates from a strict interpretation of Victorian good order and moral discipline can probably be somehow roped into the "America is going to Hell in a handbasket" debate, right?

If gay marriage is opening the door for bestiality then so is the legalization of medical marijuana. They're both chinks in the armor of Puritanical American morality.

Now should it open the door?

Personally, I think having a door there at all is stupid except in instances where people are being deliberately exploited.

But if someone wants to marry his goat or her vibrator I honestly couldn't care less.

When "traditionally married homosexuals" are able to clean up their act and stop getting dicorced almost as quickly as they get married, and raising offspring in their "traditional nuclear families" that aren't fit for employment as fry cooks at McDonalds then maybe I'll start worrying about what "traditional American moralists" have to say about stuff that doesn't effect them one wit.

Until then traditional Americans can lick my dirty, hairy white kneecap.
 
I'm very happy that you showed up Bobby_

As usual you've covered the bases well and there's little I can add_

Your wisdom and common sense are rarely seen in these strange times_

Many people appear to be in denial of the ramifications of the SCOTUS ruling_

I'm inclined to believe many of these "unions" are much more than just a possibility_

Maybe not right away but down the road, because that's the direction we seem to be headed_
 

And we'll address them if they ever come up. It's not as if there won't be rational discussion on the matter.
 
lol humans are not going to marry animals.

do you horse take this woman to be your lawfully married wife.

lol crazy talk.
Ha-Ha-Haaa! That was very cute elcapitan_

Unfortunately, it was irrelevant to the discussion_

(but thanx for making me smile) eace

Well, the concerns of busy-bodies are the concerns of government. I don't care if people want to marry their vibrator.
Do you seriously not care or simply don't believe society would ever allow it?
 
Do you seriously not care or simply don't believe society would ever allow it?

Other than opposing the legalization of incest, I really do not care. If you want to be deluded into thinking you and your vibrator have a real relationship worthy of marriage, have at it.

I wish the government would stop giving incentive's for marriage anyways and people on both sides would stop trying to force people to think or behave a certain way when there is otherwise no harm to others.
 

Since you live in such a dream world, I though it would be helpful for you to read some statistics on SSM.
We get it. The world is changing and you are scared to death. Change is what makes us human, you need not worry so much.

By the numbers: Same-sex marriage - CNN.com
 
There actually was a time when society considered "queers-homos-fags-fairies" to be sick disgusting perverts_

And if anyone had ever suggested that they be permitted to marry, people would have said "when pigs fly"_

Your heart must be filled with the love and compassion of Christ with a filthy insulting tongue like that.
 
And we'll address them if they ever come up. It's not as if there won't be rational discussion on the matter.
I believe that's what we're attempting, preemptively, to do here Afro_

(a stitch in time, so to speak) :thumbs:
 
Your heart must be filled with the love and compassion of Christ with a filthy insulting tongue like that.
I was simply stressing a point, to which you overreacted by taking it way to serious and personal_

(lighten up dude)
 
I believe that's what we're attempting, preemptively, to do here Afro_

(a stitch in time, so to speak) :thumbs:

Well, but you see, there's nothing wrong with gay marriage.
 
There actually was a time when society considered "queers-homos-fags-fairies" to be sick disgusting perverts_

And if anyone had ever suggested that they be permitted to marry, people would have said "when pigs fly"_
Well, they were right in that SSM would never happen under the way their sociaty operated at the time the statement was made.

But things change.
 
Well, but you see, there's nothing wrong with gay marriage.
Whether or not there's anything wrong with "gay marriage" is no longer the issue_

This thread is about the possible repercussions of the SCOTUS' DOMA ruling_

Well, they were right in that SSM would never happen under the way their sociaty operated at the time the statement was made.

But things change.
And the fact that things do indeed "change" is precisely what this thread was intended to deal with!

Societies highest court has accepted that gays should not be denied their rights based on sexual orientation_

Will society now convey that right to other groups based on the same standard that legitimized SSM???
 


This seems like a pretty silly question. For one thing, there are already laws against incest, bygammy and probably bestiality. You seem to be having a hard time with same sex marriage. 2 people of the same species (humans) may get married. They may not be related as in brother sister, or any other combination. This already applies and same sex marriage doesn't change that or effect it in any way. They may not marry farm animals or appliances and the very idea that this is remotely possible is a sign that you've been listening to too many homophobes.
 
The point of this thread is not about for or against anything, but about society's new found tolerance_

Homosexual acts were once illegal as well, which suggests that current laws are in no way an obstacle_

You need to recognize the implications of why SSM was legalized to know if it could apply to other groups_

This already applies and same sex marriage doesn't change that or effect it in any way. They may not marry farm animals or appliances and the very idea that this is remotely possible is *a sign that you've been listening to too many homophobes.
Actually, if you think about it, it very well might "change that or effect it"_

The basic argument for SSM was:

"Does society have the right to deny anyone the right to be happy, based on their sexual orientation?"

The same argument adjusted for other groups would be:

"Does society have the right to deny anyone else the right to be happy, based on their sexual orientation?"

As we have already seen, Society's laws can be changed whenever necessary to allow for new policies_

What we are trying to discuss here in a civilized manner is:

"Has a new level of societal tolerance been reached that might open that door"?

*a sign that you've been listening to too many homophobes.
I suppose you also believe people who are anti-amnesty for illegals are "xenophobes" as well_

It seems that many liberals are often too defensive of homosexuals to rationally discuss gay issues_

So many of you believe that any disagreement in gay policy or opinion is an indication of "homophobia"_

*You seem to be having a hard time with same sex marriage.
You over-estimate the importance of homosexuals and their issues to most right-wingers_

I actually consider SSM to be wayyy down the list of important issues or major concerns_

And no this thread is not about SSM per-say, but about similar rights for other groups_
 
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