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I have about 6 years left before I retire and have decided to pursue an Associates Degree in nursing. I want to clear up any misconceptions I may have and was hoping there are some RN's on this website that can tell me if I'm on the right track.
The reasons I think this would suit me best is:
-I hate a work environment that stays the same. By that I mean that I execute the same duties, with the same people, day in and day out, with no problem solving required. I can't do that.
-It gives me the opportunity to do something that doesn't serve the sole purpose of making money for someone else ie working in retail and busting my hump so the owner makes better profits. I'm not anti-capitalist by any stretch. I'm anti-greed.
Please, let me know if I'm in the ballpark with this stuff and what your experiences are, good or bad. I want to hear the bad stuff just as much as the good. Hours, prick Docs, etc.
I've been an RN since 1984, and I can tell you that it is a very difficult job, unless you are willing and able to put up with a ton of crap, from all sides. It can be mentally stressing, as the decisions you have to make can be life and death. The documentation is ridiculously cumbersome, staying organized and getting your work done can be very challenging. Prioritizing causes conflicts at times, and it's hard to keep a good attitude. That being said, I stay in it, because there are some things about the job which I like. I am on my feet and moving alot. I don't like to sit in an office cubicle, as it would bore me to tears. I like what I learn about people and humanity, and there are actually some satisfying moments that make you feel like you actually matter to someone's wellbeing. It will make you a better person, if you don't let yourself become hard and cold. It's extremely challenging, and it will make you crazy at times. Dealing with doctors used to be the worst part of it. Now, it's dealing with a certain portion of patients and/or their families, as we have become a society who is generally unappreciative, and think we are "owed" something. You will be dealing with alot of psychological dysfunction that will make you shake your head, and you will get frustrated at how some people will treat you.
I could go on and on with this, but you would become bored.
If you can put up with a ton of crap, put your ego aside and be willing to be treated as a lesser human, if you are pro-active, well-organized with your time, and can think critically, and on your feet, you can do the job.
As an aside, just a little anecdote. I currently work with a wonderful young woman who has the brains and the energy for the job. When I first met her about 4 years ago, she was an aide on the unit that I work on (orthopedics and pediatrics). She decided to go to nursing school. She is now an RN, and she's is getting a taste of the real world. When she first started school, I told her that this was a tough job, and asked her repeatedly if she REALLY wanted to do it, and she thought I was kidding. She's been a nurse for about 6 months now, and several times, she has told me "This job sucks. Why didn't you tell me?", to which I always reply "I did tell you- over and over and over". :lol: (but she's an excellent nurse, and her pay scale has gone way up)
Are you an RN in an Emergency Room, ICU, etc?
Not to discount the level of crap you mention, can you give me a run down of a typical shift for you? I know that may be asking a lot but I would appreciate it. Also, have you ever seen a nurse screw something up that resulted in the injury or death of a patient? What happens with that person?
The generalities of nursing sound similar to this side of the pond! Without being too specific, if a Doc screws up, they tend to stick together. If a nurse does it, they're not only on their own, They're shunned by their colleagues.
I used to hang out at a US nursing site a while back, there are dozens of sections, including a newbie area. Nursing Community for Nurses and Nursing Students
Thanks for the link man. I appreciate it.
Yeah, the hours is something that I would definitely enjoy. I've noticed that the hospital near my hometown offers mostly 12 hours shifts. I'm all about working 3 days a week.Yeah- that's a good idea. Probably a good way to get a general idea of how nurses think, and what their frustrations are. Personally, I get enough nurse-talk on the job, that I don't discuss it once my Sunday shift is over, until the next Saturday when I work again. That's something I forgot to mention as an upside. Scheduling flexibility. It seems to be rare, but some hospitals offer a weekend plan where you can work two twelve-hour shifts, and get paid full time plus bennies. I lucked into one of those deals, and since I don't have kids at home, weekend work is perfect for me, and it leaves me alot of free time at home during the week, which I love.
Yeah, the hours is something that I would definitely enjoy. I've noticed that the hospital near my hometown offers mostly 12 hours shifts. I'm all about working 3 days a week.
My wife is an RN and I work in healthcare in physical therapy, so we know the industry well. It's like real estate "location, location, location" It all depends on what unit you work on and who your employer is. The experiences will vary greatly. My wife works in neuro-trauma ICU, and it's a tough job, but she never has more than two patients due to their critical status. She just accepted a job at the VA)starts in a month) which doesn't have a trauma floor, so she'll likely have more patients but less critical care to give. I did some rotations in ortho-post op, worked PRN in LTACH, and currently work in skilled nursing setting.
You are a Marine though, you'll be fine if you can handle working with a bunch of civilian pukes....
Do you see a lot of new nurses get hired on? I've been looking on a few job websites just to get a feel for what's out there and I see a lot of places requiring at least 1-2 years experience. Everyone can't have experience.I did that for years, and if I hadn't kind of had this job fall into my lap, would still be doing it.
Do you see a lot of new nurses get hired on? I've been looking on a few job websites just to get a feel for what's out there and I see a lot of places requiring at least 1-2 years experience. Everyone can't have experience.
I THINK (lol) I'd be fine working with civilians. I'm sure the nursing field is similar to the Marine Corps in that there are some who are driven to succeed, the majority are just there, and then there are the 10% that really suck and you wonder how they function. I may have an issue with working with a lot of women. Not that I'm sexist, its just that I've never had to work with women in my career and I hope that my being nice to them will not make a few of them take me the wrong way. I have no issue with a woman telling me what to do though so that won't be a concern.
How are the hours for your wife? Does she do the 3 12 hour shift thing or 8 hour shifts? Is it rough on you?
Are you a physical therapist or an assistant?
Wow. It's hard to imagine that many people paying good money to go to school and then just quitting. Idiots lol.Your best bet (imo), is to work as a patient care tech (aide) or unit secretary while you are in school, and just get transitioned into a new position in the same hospital when you graduate. I lucked into my first job, just because I was in the right place, at the right time, but if you're already working for a particular hospital while you're in school, it's pretty likely that the unit manager will want to keep you as a nurse, assuming that he/she thinks you are a good employee. Nursing is a very fluid field. New RN's have a pretty high attrition rate, last I read. Somewhere in the range of 50% of new graduate RN's, don't stay in the field of nursing past 5 years.
Assistant. Hours are good for her, helps us keep daycare costs down as she works weekends. Don't worry about working with the women. They only ever make things difficult for other women at work.
Wow. It's hard to imagine that many people paying good money to go to school and then just quitting. Idiots lol.
Nah, I worked hard for my GI Bill. I'll suck it up lol. I'd imagine it's easy to quit something when most new grads don't have a family to support as well. Thanks for the encouragement though :dohOnce you are in it, you'll probably understand why. :lol:
Assistant. Hours are good for her, helps us keep daycare costs down as she works weekends. Don't worry about working with the women. They only ever make things difficult for other women at work.
They abuse other women emotionally, but they abuse men physically. :lol:
Seriously, though, male nurses need to be aware that some (not all) female nurses will take advantage of a man's physical strength and willingness to help with all the heavy lifting. Sad, but true. I don't think it's a conscious effort, but it happens alot. Men tend to get taken advantage of for that reason. You have to learn how to just say no, and take care of your own work first, then help out everyone else when you can.
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