That's the idea. Use kindness, compassion, curiosity, and communication to shake people out of the binary cycle stupor. Enough overgeneralizations. We are all way more interesting than we give each other credit for and are more than magas and libtards. Mostly.
My younger son and I love playing Magic together, but he's far more intelligent and engaged about it that I am, so he plays a lot online. He gets so frustrated, though, because the format and interactions become so toxic.
I have tried, on
multiple occasions, to start threads discussing positive things about philosophy, or politics, or the Constitution, and American aspirations. Like you, I prefer "kindness, compassion, curiosity, and communication". I try to be welcoming and respectful. I put a lot of thought into openers.
But, invariably, one of two things happens: no one else participates (I hate talking to myself); or the thread is immediately inundated with off-topic vitriol. The culprits are very often the same players, some of whom follow me around, and most of us know who they are. They make DP a very toxic environment. And my frustration with the dreck and toxicity is making me less sympathetic and reactive. This is especially true of one particular class of posters who follow the same playbook, repeat the same BS in every thread, and who relish disruption.
In their absence (glory to the Loft), good conversations and deep discussion of thorny topics can occur,
especially when coming from very different viewpoints. That is the fundamental basis of democracy and debate, as well as science and philosophy. We're losing that as a society.