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13 Things Men Think Are Compliments but Are Actually Just Sexist


1) the "thrown paint" is a stereotype, claiming that a woman is better than a female stereotype is an implied confirmation of that stereotype

2) again, you're saying that being like a guy is better than being like a girl
 

You don't seem to realize that saying, "you're like a man, and not like a stereotypical woman, which is a complement." The literal implication of that is both (1) confirmation that women fit neatly into stereotypes (hence the "you're unique in standing out") and (2) those who conform to those stereotypes are bad.
 
Some food for thought:


https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/feminism-environmental/
 
1) the "thrown paint" is a stereotype, claiming that a woman is better than a female stereotype is an implied confirmation of that stereotype
A stereotype would exist regardless of confirmation. The stereotypes exist because they are somewhat true in the general sense.

) again, you're saying that being like a guy is better than being like a girl
Not really he sings sharing interests and taste better than not.

Don't try and take everyone's words and restate them as some deeply seated misogyny that's called the straw man.

Even if he'd like women that like pina coladas they would share interests with him and other things and he would probably word it the same way.
 
1) the "thrown paint" is a stereotype, claiming that a woman is better than a female stereotype is an implied confirmation of that stereotype

2) again, you're saying that being like a guy is better than being like a girl

"Thrown paint" is bad make up, it happens every day. And a 'bonding experience' is saying that men are better??

You don't smoke cigars do you. If a woman sat down to smoke one with some guys, they'd feel the same way: glad she's there taking part.
 
11. "That was so ballsy of you." Can we please stop referring general badassery by using the most sensitive body part on anyone of any gender?
I guess "That was so c u n t y of you" would really be out of the question.
 

Stereotypes exist because there are simply differences in how men and women behave on average. From what we drink & our very ability to taste it, to where we watch what, men and women are statistically different. There is nothing wrong with acknowledging the difference in taste between the sexes, nor is there anything wrong with enjoying the fact that your partner's preferences are more in-line with your gender's norms than theirs.
 
It just sounds all so fake.

I'd be bored after 1 minute in the company of someone who actually speaks like that.
 
I mean c'mon, this one actually made me laugh out loud.

"It's cool how you're really into food."

Not, "It's cool that you're really into Italian food", or "it's cool that you like seafood, me too, we can visit some great seafood restaurants etc"

That's normal conversation. A common interest, spurs conversation.

Not "It's cool how you're really into food" (in general.) Who even speaks like that? As if people aren't into food in general.

Yeah. Pass. It's like having a conversation with a brick.
 

"You sleep, too? That's cool!"
 

I honestly don't think the article represented anything real. Maybe the author of it went on a few dates with some really geeky guys.

That sounds like something a real nervous young man would say.

Or the author misunderstood what a foodie is.
 
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