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CLAX1911
SarahSun
No, you havent misunderstood.
CLAX1911
I hate that parents and their children have relationships like that one of my best friends has a relationship with his mom like that.
Evan hasn't spoken to his parents and 13 years.
Evan hasn't spoken to his parents and 13 years.
SarahSun
If you dont mind me asking, how does that make him feel? I hope this doesnt last 13 years.
SarahSun
I am so depressed.
CLAX1911
At first there is a lot of sorrow. It was religious based so there was a lot of anger for religion. But as time went by things got better for him. From my perspective having lost someone close to me it's a lot like someone dying. From time to time he still gets sad about it. But he does have me to cheer him up and I'm pretty good at that.
I don't think your situation will be like this. That was an extreme case
I don't think your situation will be like this. That was an extreme case
CLAX1911
Depression is inevitable but it's never permanent.
SarahSun
I hope not. i have bouts of it and its bad.
CLAX1911
I think everybody does. It's just a question of how much and how hard it hits you. If it's a chronic thing and you never have anything but depression that's when you need to worry.
CLAX1911
Having a rocky relationship with a parent is absolutely something that would cause someone to have bouts of depression. When you're dealing with that what I do is I try to find something I enjoy and do that. It helps. Evan always knows when I'm dealing with something because we'll have homemade cheesecake or something of that nature because one of the things I do is Cook.
CLAX1911
The important thing is so something that can occupy your mind. It's hard but not doing anything and just feeling down is like a black hole doing things like drinking will make it worse. If you can get your mind occupied it won't be as bad or as long.
SarahSun
Its hitting pretty hard.
CLAX1911
I'm sorry you are feeling down.
SarahSun
Thanks, its worse than just down.
CLAX1911
Is it any your mother or is it more than that?
SarahSun
BF a bit rocky
an overall really bad day
an overall really bad day
SarahSun
nothing to eat today and 2 vodkas tonight
CLAX1911
Are things not working out or they weren't what you expected?
SarahSun
I would say both. At least my tooth has stopped hurting.
CLAX1911
Well this is something I didn't know until I actually started having serious relationships they are a lot of work and you have to put the work in so you have to ask yourself is it really worth it.