Son Numbah One was born in 1995, and falls into the "Millennial" generation. For several years I've been arguing that every generation, in their youth, seems degenerate and debased to their elders, going back to Pliny and Cato and Aristotle.
Son#1 has been asserting that the Millennials are, in fact, different... that for the most part they really are a walking disaster area of weak, hapless and useless drones.
My counter-argument was that he lacked perspective due to his youth, and that being among them he couldn't see the forest for the trees.
However, in more recent years I've begun to believe him. Educators with decades of experience are saying "No, this really IS a new breed, and not in a good way." I've been interacting with more millennials as well, and while there are exceptions among them the majority are a hot mess.
Teenage attitudes and behaviors persisting into the mid and late twenties... sophomoric attitudes/behaviors persisting into the late 20s and early 30s. A frightening inability to connect cause and effect, choices and consequence.
I'd been trying to persuade my SELF that my perception was a result of being an old fart looking down through the fog of years and forgetting what being 20-something was like... but lots of others with reason to have good perspectives are saying the same thing: the Millennials may be the most useless and hapless generation in living memory if not ever.
Son#1 asserts it is so. When he was in a HS apprenticeship program, he was made "straw boss" over the other students at work because he was the only one that actually tried to DO THE JOB, and he was willing to push the others to get off their assets and do something productive. Now working a paid position at Wally Whirled while studying Welding at Tech college, he tells me of the lives of the 20-somethings he works with and it isn't pretty.
I didn't want to believe it but the evidence is mounting that most Millennials are indeed a problematic generation...