Stherngntlmn
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First, I don't think you truely know how you'd react to something like that until it happens. My reaction would probably something to the effect of:
First I'd ask him to go hang out with me for a night so we could have a serious indepth discussion on it. I'd ask him to explain to me why he believes that he's gay. I admit that I would do my best to rationalize to him that he was just going through a phase, and that he was probably just confused as most teenagers are usually just balls of confusion that pick rebellious stances on subjects against their parents to try to establish seperate identities and assert independance. If he convinced me that he truely was homosexual, I would state to him my religious views on the subject of homosexual activities, then tell him that I would be ashamed of that part of his life, but that he was still my son, and as long as he was respectful of his mother and I, and didn't flaunt his activities in front of the family, I would make no attempt to sever any ties with him. I would ask him to remember his upbringing and remember that even though he had a sexual preference for other men, that he didn't have to act like an incapable flaming sissy with a lisp. I'd also remind him that homosexual political agenda was a very small portion of global politics, and that there was no need to turn into a liberal commie just because he enjoyed the intimate company of men.
Lastly, I would tell him that I loved him, that he would always be my son, and that blood and family meant more than any character flaw or disagreement in life.
*of course I doubt my son would EVER even seriously look at that lifestyle as an option. A much deeper and more aggressive conversation would probably be him trying to tell me he wanted to be a liberal PETA/GreenPeace activist.
First I'd ask him to go hang out with me for a night so we could have a serious indepth discussion on it. I'd ask him to explain to me why he believes that he's gay. I admit that I would do my best to rationalize to him that he was just going through a phase, and that he was probably just confused as most teenagers are usually just balls of confusion that pick rebellious stances on subjects against their parents to try to establish seperate identities and assert independance. If he convinced me that he truely was homosexual, I would state to him my religious views on the subject of homosexual activities, then tell him that I would be ashamed of that part of his life, but that he was still my son, and as long as he was respectful of his mother and I, and didn't flaunt his activities in front of the family, I would make no attempt to sever any ties with him. I would ask him to remember his upbringing and remember that even though he had a sexual preference for other men, that he didn't have to act like an incapable flaming sissy with a lisp. I'd also remind him that homosexual political agenda was a very small portion of global politics, and that there was no need to turn into a liberal commie just because he enjoyed the intimate company of men.
Lastly, I would tell him that I loved him, that he would always be my son, and that blood and family meant more than any character flaw or disagreement in life.
*of course I doubt my son would EVER even seriously look at that lifestyle as an option. A much deeper and more aggressive conversation would probably be him trying to tell me he wanted to be a liberal PETA/GreenPeace activist.