No, I'd be happy if you weren't a prude. But in end it doesn't matter, you've made it obvious you keep your kids ridiculously sheltered to the point where they'll have social adjustment problems later on in life. Mine? She'll be normal human beings who doesn't think every lesbian she meets is trying to have sexual relationships anymore than any man she meets is trying to sleep with her.
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Prude?
A prude is a person who is described as (or would describe themselves as) being concerned with decorum or propriety, significantly in excess of normal prevailing community standards. They may be perceived as being more uncomfortable than most with sexuality or nudity.
Ill take that as a compliment coming from someone as moraly bankrupt as you appear to be. My kids are fine, and i hope they continue to grow up knowing right from wrong, and having the courage to stand up to people like you, who would have them sacrifice their values in the name of what is currently considered normal.
Are you gonna encourage your little girl to go give guys handjobs in junior high cause thats the cool thing to do and it will make her socially accepted?
I guarantee if you do, you will be going by the name grandpa before she even graduates highschool. But hey, who am i to tell you how to be a parent? Then again, who are you to tell me?
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Not really, couldn't care less as long as she doesn't get pregnant or catch aids. Then again, I don't think anyone 15-16 having sex makes them morally bankrupt. Being a homophobic prick does though.
I'm smarter than you and far more capable.
Im sure your a shoe in for father of the year award at the school for pregnant teenagers.
Yes that picture you posted really cemented that in there... Have a good day gramps
I'm not even sure how your insult applies.
And you claim your smarter than me...
Being smarter than you doesn't necessarily mean I comprehend your weak attempts to insult me. :shrug:
Well if i have to explain it to you, its not as funny,
but here goes. You said you have no problem with you daughter being the village bicycle as long as she doesnt get pregnant or aids.
That philosophy is going to get your daughter knocked up
and sent to a school for pregnant teens and your stellar parenting techniques will earn you the father of the year award. Get it now?
I failed to understand it because you didnt say it! Nice reach though, you flat out stated you couldnt care less if your daughter gave boys hand jobs in junior high.It wasn't funny to begin with. That's why nobody laughed.
I more or less stated that I couldn't care less as long as she realizes her choices have consequences and she needs to be safe about them. You failed to understand that little point. I'm not surprised.
How? You have no idea what philosophy she will grow up to have.
Shockingly i do think its the parents responsibilty to teach their kids right from wrong. And not just the CURRENT version of right and wrong.Then again, you probably think children are meant to be automatons that their parents mold. When in fact, they are just as capable of defining right and wrong on their own with little help from you.
Lol, did you get home schooled? It pretty much would explain why you have such a weird view of the world. Where you think having parents who allow you to make choices - without actually telling you what to do - means you'll become a whore and end up pregnant.
Shockingly i do think its the parents responsibilty to teach their kids right from wrong. And not just the CURRENT version of right and wrong.
Do you honestly think that a gay man would be talking to your son about the Pyramids..Meaning of life...without bringing his sexuality into it...
I failed to understand it because you didnt say it! Nice reach though, you flat out stated you couldnt care less if your daughter gave boys hand jobs in junior high.
You have been sharing your philosophy with me, im not impressed.
Shockingly i do think its the parents responsibilty to teach their kids right from wrong. And not just the CURRENT version of right and wrong.
Calling a kid “selfish,” or implying there is something wrong with her is also harmful. Kids internalize these negative labels and begin to see themselves as "not good enough." Humiliating or shaming a kid can shape brain pathways in negative ways. Label the behavior as unacceptable, but the kid as still lovable.
There are several reasons that giving children choices throughout the day is beneficial, even crucial to their development. Providing choices for children is a fundamental aspect of high-quality early childhood curriculum (Hendrick, 1996).
Nick Petrovic, Psychologist at the Mind Profile Psychology Clinic says it’s important for children to be given the opportunity to make choices, because it helps them become more independent and responsible, and builds their decision making skills to ultimately help them make better choices in the future.
No i wasnt home schooled. Im suprised you think that anyone who went to public school has to agree with you. Its possible to live in the world and not be of the world.
So now we are on the same level as animals?I never said I should be able to make people do things either. However, I don't have a problem with ridiculing people if they call people sinners but can't explain why the sin is a sin, other than quoting a book that essentially just says "This is bad" and doesn't say why. I suppose the Romans passage comes a bit closer to why it is supposedly a sin by calling it "unnatural," but then again the Bible is wrong since we've witnessed gay sex happening naturally in nature. However, it still doesn't make sense to forbid something/ call something a sin just because they consider it unnatural. It's hurting no one.
The current version of right and wrong is the only version of right and wrong. Unless you live in a vacuum your perception of right and wrong is always going to be shaded, to some degree, by your society.
I love children too!!
I talk to children when they are with their mothers..or a guardian...I do not talk to children on-line....
If your perception of right and wrong is based on what society tells you is socially acceptable and not socially acceptable, then you are right, but some people dont base their values on societal norms.” Right and wrong”, and “socially acceptable” aren’t the same things.
Sometimes abstract thought is too much for some. They don't seem to be able to comprehend general ideas. They need everything chewed out for them. They then pass that kind of idea analysis to their children.
You do realize that repression of thought is pretty much abhorred by child psychologists whereas choice allowance has been universally prescribed by even religious psychologists?
So your kids will have two choices, either rebel (in a Krystal Palin sort of way at worst), or grow up conflicted not being able to decide for themselves what is right and wrong for them because as you claimed it's your role to 'teach' them that. Essentially, you're making them dependent on your moral belief system and not giving them the ability to actually draft their own because you think they're too naive and will probably end up as whores.
I didn't say it was based only on what society tells me,but society may influence me if someone makes a good argument for why something isn't a sin. Then, yes I could start seeing something as right instead of wrong.The current version of right and wrong is the only version of right and wrong. Unless you live in a vacuum your perception of right and wrong is always going to be shaded, to some degree, by your society.
The Current version is not the only version. The current version of what is socially acceptable says homosexuality is fine, but that doesnt mean everyone agrees that its right.
Are there a lot of 9 year old kids who define themselves as gay or something? Why even bring up the subject?
I didn't say the current version was the same for everyone. I'm sure your views of right and wrong don't perfectly match the Bible.
It isn't about protecting kids from danger it's about protecting kids from knowledge. which I understand, having a kid of my own I would very much like to preserve his innocence. he is 14 so most of his child like innocence is lost.
In the presence of homosexuality with a child there is a possibility that you will have to explain that to your child. The common misconception is that the child may be influenced into being gay.
Being in the presence of someone doesn't expose a child to that persons resume of sin. Frankly you wouldn't know I was gay unless you asked or saw me with my lover.
so do you see all gay males a danger?I didn't say that...I said it was my job as a mother to try to protect my children from potential danger...
Dont try to back pedal by calling what you said about your poor daughter "abstract".
I never said anything about repression.
Actually my kids will have a lot more choices than yours, because i will teach them that they dont have to go along with what society tells them to do. they can do whatever they want.
I sure as hell wouldnt let them go camping together.
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