Would you date a post-op transgender person? (Read First)

[AnonymousFemale]

Not a big issue? Did you miss the post where she said he would pretty much kill her and also the posts claiming she is some sort of shrink.

I don't look at my situation as being wrong I am a female and always have been so what the issue? I have Christmas to spend with my family have a great day.

 

[Captain America]

Ok I can understand not wanting to date someone who is transgendered but the way you said that was just plain rude.

Thank you.

My first response was "Eeee-yewwww, PUKE!" But I decided to tone it down a bit.

I can just imagine. Low lights, perhaps a little wine. A sky high boner. Your lover looks up at you with amazing wonder in her eyes and says, "My dick wasn't nearly as big as yours."

Ain't no Viagra gonna help you at a moment like that. LOL!

'Scuse me while take a long, hot, shower. Gotta....scrub.....this.....****.....off....me.

Sorry don't MEAN to be rude. But I'm just keepin' it real.

Sick. Sick. Sick.

 

[Medusa]

I have no problem with them and İ try to empathize with them ,but ,because I am not like them ,İ would stop my relation.

 

[1029066]

This is an extrmeley difficult question. Hmm..... hmm..... I want to say I would keep being with them, but on the other hand, I just have a mental block with that. I mean I have NOTHING against transgendered people, but it's a mental thing. I couldn't be with a guy knowing he used to be a chick. (i'm gay lol) Idk I just am not sure I could do it.... But maybe. I think my mind is about to explode LOL.

 

[Kali]

I don't look at my situation as being wrong I am a female and always have been so what the issue? I have Christmas to spend with my family have a great day.

Go ask your husband. You know the one you are not being honest with cause you know he is crap and may hurt you. licensed psychologist my ass!

 

[AnonymousFemale]

Go ask your husband. You know the one you are not being honest with cause you know he is crap and may hurt you. licensed psychologist my ass!

Have my BA in psychology from Kent State University and PhD in Counseling Psychology from University of Akron. Have a great day

 

[Thorgasm]

Have my BA in psychology from Kent State University and PhD in Counseling Psychology from University of Akron. Have a great day

Oh, you are from Ohio? Now I find your story plausible. :lol:

 

[Enola]

Anonfemale....why have you not told him???? Simple question.

 

[Renae]

Have my BA in psychology from Kent State University and PhD in Counseling Psychology from University of Akron. Have a great day

The problem here is that your story has shifted, has logical holes in it that sound like BS and frankly the more outlandish the more likely people are NOT to believe you.

At 17, you had GRS, you have a PHD but married a highly christian man who would physically abuse you if you told him the truth...

These are THREE extraordinary claims, by themselves.

The first one would be believable if you were under say 26. But with a PhD, that means you have to be OVER 30 approaching 35+

So for you to have achieved this in the mid 90's is quite the story, doubly so without any media fan fare. Huge international stories of a 16 year old German MTF and 17 year Spaniard jsut in the last 3 years makes me have to lean towards the BS flag.

Then, if we ARE to take BOTH your claims at face value, we have to believe that you have hidden the first remarkable feat, under 18 srs in the mid-nineties with the follow up being a PhD holding intelligent woman with the fact you married an abusive Christian man who would harm you if the "truth ever came out".

None of this really passes the smell test.


Perhaps you ARE being honest, but the BS meter is leaning towards "RED"

 

[AnonymousFemale]

The problem here is that your story has shifted, has logical holes in it that sound like BS and frankly the more outlandish the more likely people are NOT to believe you.

At 17, you had GRS, you have a PHD but married a highly christian man who would physically abuse you if you told him the truth...

These are THREE extraordinary claims, by themselves.

The first one would be believable if you were under say 26. But with a PhD, that means you have to be OVER 30 approaching 35+

So for you to have achieved this in the mid 90's is quite the story, doubly so without any media fan fare. Huge international stories of a 16 year old German MTF and 17 year Spaniard jsut in the last 3 years makes me have to lean towards the BS flag.

Then, if we ARE to take BOTH your claims at face value, we have to believe that you have hidden the first remarkable feat, under 18 srs in the mid-nineties with the follow up being a PhD holding intelligent woman with the fact you married an abusive Christian man who would harm you if the "truth ever came out".

None of this really passes the smell test.


Perhaps you ARE being honest, but the BS meter is leaning towards "RED"

Do the math I said I had GRS at 17 in the 90's. I graduated the year after and went straight into college, Graduated 4 years after and went straight into graduate school for 5.5 years and finished with my PhD. It is 2011/12. And no it would never have hit the news. Also research there were a few others that my surgeon did in the 90's who were under 18. There is one who is open and I think her story is either on Heartcorps or another website dealing with trans issues. Furthermore as my last defense on this issue My husband is not abusive, he is a caring gentle man whom I love. He wouldn't take knowing my past well and would most likely harm me. I am with him because we love each other and have many common interests in life including our beliefs.

 

[Enola]

Do the math I said I had GRS at 17 in the 90's. I graduated the year after and went straight into college, Graduated 4 years after and went straight into graduate school for 5.5 years and finished with my PhD. It is 2011/12. And no it would never have hit the news. Also research there were a few others that my surgeon did in the 90's who were under 18. There is one who is open and I think her story is either on Heartcorps or another website dealing with trans issues. Furthermore as my last defense on this issue My husband is not abusive, he is a caring gentle man whom I love. He wouldn't take knowing my past well and would most likely harm me. I am with him because we love each other and have many common interests in life including our beliefs.

If you loved him, you wouldn't have lived this lie all this time. You love yourself.

 

[Renae]

Do the math I said I had GRS at 17 in the 90's. I graduated the year after and went straight into college, Graduated 4 years after and went straight into graduate school for 5.5 years and finished with my PhD. It is 2011/12. And no it would never have hit the news. Also research there were a few others that my surgeon did in the 90's who were under 18. There is one who is open and I think her story is either on Heartcorps or another website dealing with trans issues. Furthermore as my last defense on this issue My husband is not abusive, he is a caring gentle man whom I love. He wouldn't take knowing my past well and would most likely harm me. I am with him because we love each other and have many common interests in life including our beliefs.

It wouldn't have hit the news?
BBC NEWS | Americas | Argentine boy sex change approved
Spanish Teen Becomes First Minor to Undergo Sex Change | CNSnews.com

It makes headlines today, but in the 90's it wouldn't have. I call bull**** just based on that.

 

[digsbe]

Moderator's Warning:

Let's not make accusations of false stories or discuss users, this is not the place for that. Stick to the topic of the thread or there will be consequences.

 

[AdminX]

Do the math I said I had GRS at 17 in the 90's. I graduated the year after and went straight into college, Graduated 4 years after and went straight into graduate school for 5.5 years and finished with my PhD. It is 2011/12. And no it would never have hit the news. Also research there were a few others that my surgeon did in the 90's who were under 18. There is one who is open and I think her story is either on Heartcorps or another website dealing with trans issues. Furthermore as my last defense on this issue My husband is not abusive, he is a caring gentle man whom I love. He wouldn't take knowing my past well and would most likely harm me. I am with him because we love each other and have many common interests in life including our beliefs.

I hope you somehow get outted.

 

[solletica]

No I would not.

Yes, it would be "transphobic" i suppose.

Bull!@#$. You would if she was cute and/or sexy. The masculine form of sexual attraction involves coveting that which appears pleasing (beautiful). In other words, you can only covet what you can see, and a person's biological gender cannot be seen. You can't say that you're only attracted to females because a person's second X chromosome can't be seen. It can only be assumed based on other visible attributes.

It's true that the specific physical attributes and/or specific combinations of attributes one finds pleasing may be more prevalent in one gender, but they are never exclusive to either gender. In other words, if there are a specific minimal set of physical attributes that must be present in a female for you to be attracted to her, then there is at least one male in the world who will possess those same minimal set of attributes.

 

[Kali]

Anonfemale....why have you not told him???? Simple question.

She said she is scared he will beat her which is proof he is not worth being with anyways

 

[Kali]

Do the math I said I had GRS at 17 in the 90's. I graduated the year after and went straight into college, Graduated 4 years after and went straight into graduate school for 5.5 years and finished with my PhD. It is 2011/12. And no it would never have hit the news. Also research there were a few others that my surgeon did in the 90's who were under 18. There is one who is open and I think her story is either on Heartcorps or another website dealing with trans issues. Furthermore as my last defense on this issue My husband is not abusive, he is a caring gentle man whom I love. He wouldn't take knowing my past well and would most likely harm me. I am with him because we love each other and have many common interests in life including our beliefs.

You say he is not abusive but say out the other side he would harm you. So in other words? He is abusive. Stop lying to us and him.

 

[Medicinewolf]

I would like to speak a few words regarding this matter. First off as a Tribal elder I find it appaling that "Two Spirit" people or who we call man-woman or woman-man are treated in such a bad manner. These people are big medicine. With that being said anonymous, you are being very dishonest and you should be proud of who you are. You have a powerful gift and need to be an example to the rest of the world if you want things to change. We are coming into a period of purification and people like you need to clear your heart of all bad medicine and help to lead the children and to teach those who will listen. This thread is a good example of human nature as it shows how twisted we have become as a society. This is why the purification must take place. You need to look into the mirror and like the person you see. The rest of you who need to fuel our ego need to get focused too and stop the hatred of your fellow man/women. It may be te person you hate the most that saves your life one day. I have spoken

 

[Wake]

I would like to speak a few words regarding this matter. First off as a Tribal elder I find it appaling that "Two Spirit" people or who we call man-woman or woman-man are treated in such a bad manner. These people are big medicine. With that being said anonymous, you are being very dishonest and you should be proud of who you are. You have a powerful gift and need to be an example to the rest of the world if you want things to change. We are coming into a period of purification and people like you need to clear your heart of all bad medicine and help to lead the children and to teach those who will listen. This thread is a good example of human nature as it shows how twisted we have become as a society. This is why the purification must take place. You need to look into the mirror and like the person you see. The rest of you who need to fuel our ego need to get focused too and stop the hatred of your fellow man/women. It may be te person you hate the most that saves your life one day. I have spoken

You...

...have spoken?

What exactly have you "spoken"?

 

[AdminX]

I would like to speak a few words regarding this matter. First off as a Tribal elder I find it appaling that "Two Spirit" people or who we call man-woman or woman-man are treated in such a bad manner. These people are big medicine. With that being said anonymous, you are being very dishonest and you should be proud of who you are. You have a powerful gift and need to be an example to the rest of the world if you want things to change. We are coming into a period of purification and people like you need to clear your heart of all bad medicine and help to lead the children and to teach those who will listen. This thread is a good example of human nature as it shows how twisted we have become as a society. This is why the purification must take place. You need to look into the mirror and like the person you see. The rest of you who need to fuel our ego need to get focused too and stop the hatred of your fellow man/women. It may be te person you hate the most that saves your life one day. I have spoken

What...the...****

 

[Wake]

"Transphobic?"

How about, "I want to date a real woman and not a she-man in disguise."

I don't want my cake to be a lie.

 

[Your Star]

"Transphobic?"

How about, "I want to date a real woman and not a she-man in disguise."

I don't want my cake to be a lie.

That's transphobic, just accept it.

 

[Wake]

That's transphobic, just accept it.

Pardon, but that's completely ridiculous.

 

[ThePlayDrive]

Pardon, but that's completely ridiculous.

No, what you said was, in fact, transphobic and just generally ignorant and crass.

 

[Thorgasm]

Pardon, but that's completely ridiculous.

Calling them a "she-man in disguise" is my guess at what prompted her post.