doughgirl said:
They teach many more things than just the three R’s. If you believed in only teaching the basics then subjects like sex education should not be taught. And don’t say oh this is a science...that it is ok to teach sex education. That too should be left up to the parents to teach in the way they prefer. I remember when this happened….
http://worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=39588
I said "etc.", didn't I? Do you want me to list every possible course a school can teach? 'Cause I also left out art, physical education, music, and foreign languages.
And as far as sex ed goes, nine times out of ten, it's not a class itself, it's a unit within a health course. Most schools will allow children to skip out of that particular unit if the parents are strongly opposed to it.
And it is sad that both parents have to work so hard to support their families that sometimes the kids suffer for it.
Well, that's the way the world works these days. Too many jobs don't pay enough money to support an entire family.
My mother did not work outside the home.
And that's very admirable. I'd like to be able to do that, but until my husband starts moving up in the ranks (he's a cop), or until his business with his father starts taking off a little more, it just won't be possible financially for us.
She was there to make sure we all did our school work. I was blessed. I eventually went to college and grad school both my sisters did not finish college. I just turned 50, and I remember most the mothers did not work when I was in elementary and middle school.
When I was little, my mom checked to make sure my homework was done, but as I got older, she realized that I was responsible enough, and cared enough about my education, to do it on my own without her treating me like a child about it.
Until recently, I've never met a family where the mother stayed home. The whole time I was growing up, everyone I knew came from a two income household.
But Stace you are different. You wanted an education. I wanted an education. I loved school, still do and still take continuing education classes. But not all children are self-motivated and need a shove or push to continue on.
You're absolutely correct, I don't believe I've ever said anything to the contrary, and if I said anything to make you think I thought otherwise, I apologize.
My son happened to be one of those kids. He hated school. He loved sports but hated the education part.
It was a fight every day to get him to do homework and study. My daughter hated school but did not need for me to do anything. she was very self-motivated and knew exactly what she wanted to do. We FORCED him to try one year of college. He got a sports Division I scholarship so that helped. He struggled not because he was not smart but because he hates to study and he would rather be out on the golf course shaggin balls. But he is coming around and is doing well. All we wanted was for him to try. Whether he finishes is entirely up to him.
Kids aren’t stupid BUT…………some need direction and if they do not get it they are lost.
And that's why more parents need to become more involved....you can't assess your child's motivation level if you're not involved. My mother saw early on that I was extremely self motivated and didn't really need that extra push. My brother was the complete opposite, he was more like your son. He was a smart kid, but he HATED doing his homework. He'd always much rather be outside running around in the woods, or playing his JV and school sports.
I said this because this is what the Democratic platform believes. They are not pro-choice education.
Why do you say that?
I am neither a Republican or Democrat.
Neither am I - don't let the donkeys fool you....I just wanted to everyone to be clear that I'm typically a left leaning person.
My mother was a staunch republican and my dad was a staunch democrat. They argued over issues for as long as I can remember. That was a good thing however because I saw both sides to every issue.
Which is always beneficial....my parents were never much into politics, so I certainly didn't get any of my views from them!
However I am pro-life so I could never vote for a democrat because their party platform is pro-choice abortion.
:shrug: To each their own....
You said yourself that many parents are force to work two and three jobs to make ends meet. How many could actually in this day and age home school their children? How many are qualified?
I actually have a friend that was a stay at home mother and was planning on home schooling her children when they were old enough, but she is now going through a separation and will have to get a job, so it will no longer be possible for her as of right now.
You don't have to have a teaching degree to homeschool. A friend of my husband's was homeschooled. Heck, my old supervisor in the Air Force somehow managed to support himself, his wife, and their five children on E-6 pay so that his wife could stay home with the kids and homeschool. Where there's a will, there's a way. There are also many homeschool groups, where many parents that are "qualified" in different areas will teach those subjects to the kids. I'm pretty sure lesson plans have to submitted to the State for approval. The kids still have to take proficiency tests and stuff.
I taught art. But I could not in any way shape or form teach my kids high school geometry, algebra or biology, chemistry…………I can barely figure out how much tip to leave in a restaurant. My right brain functions better than my left.
Are you going to expect parents to move and lose their jobs? That is impossible for most parents. In most places there are no options, you ae just stuck with public schools.
I don't expect anyone to do anything. I was just pointing out that there ARE alternatives out there.
Then why would a kid who wants to be an artist have to take anything other than art classes? Why have high schools at all? Why take geography? history? Art? I happen to think all kids should be exposed to as many things as possible. I wanted to be a writer once.........then I took an art class....that led to drafting classes witch led to archtiecture classes....which led to.....Then I wanted to learn about archetecture...that led to history and so forth...
There are certain courses that are required. But my high school schedule was very heavy in English courses. I didn't have to take science beyond 9th grade, and I didn't. I didn't have to take math beyond 10th grade, and I didn't. But I took every English course I could. I took a photography course. I studied Economics (it was considered a "social science"), Sociology, Psychology, even Accounting (was considered a business course). I took courses that I knew would help ME later in life, that focused on what I wanted to do when I joined "the real world".
Well our country is indeed a melting pot. More and more people are immigrating to America and speaking their own native languages. One of the first things people did when they immigrated to America in the late 1800’s and early 1900’s was to learn English. Not true anymore. Today if you can speak more than one languages, particularly Mexican, more jobs are open and more money is offered.
This is true. Just saying that it doesn't interest everyone.
Most colleges expect kids who enter to be well rounded. And most kids do not have any clue to what they might want to do.
That's why community colleges exist. Kids can pick up their general credits until they can decide on a major, and most universities will accept all of the transfer credits.
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Sad you feel this way. It is part of American history. It is sung at just about all pro- and amateur athletic events.
Trust me, I know. And you will never see me without a tear in my eye when I hear it. But it's not hard to see that there are a lot of people in this country that are not as patriotic as they would have you think.
And the rest of your post is not directed towards me, so I'll sign off here. :mrgreen: