gungadin
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Anyone want to hazard a guess?
Pam
Pam
Anyone want to hazard a guess?
Pam
A woman can still be feminine while appreciating another woman's body.
A man on the other hand cannot remain masculine while... appreciating... a man's body. yuck]
:lamo
A woman can still be feminine while appreciating another woman's body.
A man on the other hand cannot remain masculine while... appreciating... a man's body. yuck]
:lamo
No offense, but the thread is about how society judges male vs. female bisexuality, and not how you, as an individual, judge them.
Pam
Because women say: I would love to have her feet, or her ass or her boobs or her hair or etc.
Men will never say that. When i went to the gym we would have pictures of famous strongmen like arnold or some other people there with their bulky arms and that. We (my friend and I) would much rather make fun of them. When I want to improve my physical condition I don't say: i want that guys arms or abs or such. I say: i want to lose weight, I want to have bigger arms, more defined abs, that sort of things. I only include myself in the agenda in comparison to only myself or my closest friends whom, if I go to the gym with, it becomes a sort of competition.
Also, it is because of the penis.
...It is manly to penetrate, not manly to be penetrated, thus is the theory anyway....Mainly the reason male bisexuality is regarded lesser by society is because bisexual men are seen as sissies or weak, due to the possibility of being penetrated by a penis. Men are supposed to be the warriors and the strength, women are the beauty, bisexual men upset that balance.
Anyone want to hazard a guess?
Pam
Because in the back of most men's minds, they go "wait, this means I can have a threesome!" so they encourage it.
In that case, why don't as many women say, "wait, this means I can have a threesome!"?
Pam
...women and men tend to think of sexuality and sex in different ways. Men tend to be more into the act and women tend to be more into the intimacy of the act...Because of that, the mmf threesome isn't as popular.
Why does male focus on action and female focus on intimacy mean that mmf threesomes aren't as popular? ("Popular" meaning as commonly practiced as mff threesomes? Or as commonly fantasized about?)
Someone made the argument that female bisexuality is more socially accepted because males want to have threesomes with two bisexual females. But females (and hence the female point of view) make up more than one half of the population. If females are more monogamous (is that what you meant by focused on intimacy?), why doesn't the female portion of society's "vote" cancel out the male portion of society's "vote"? We outnumber you.
Pam
...homosexuality is viewed... as effeminate. So therefore, if a man engages in homosexual behaviour, he is less masculine, and society places far more importance on the masculinity of men than it does the femininity of women.
Our society is culturally a male dominated one.
Another astute and eloquent post. But, again, I have to ask "why" to the bolded part.
Pam