Why go for prostitutes

[rivrrat]

I am not sure. I can't think of anybody I would rather spend the rest of my life with other than my wife. She's smart and witty, and a great person. But to be honest I can think of alot of other women I would like to have sex with.
So in my case, I wanted to get married because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, but the only way that she would probably stay with me is if we were married. Now I have made a commitment to her, I will honor that, but I can't just shut down millions of years of evolution. The thoughts are going to be in my head when some girl goes prancing by in short shorts that say "juicy" on the butt, and her boobs all giggling around in a tank top.
I just won't act on them.

Oh to be a caveman again....

LOL

Nothing wrong with finding others attractive. I'd be more concerned if you *didn't*.

 

[Marilyn Monroe]

LOL

Nothing wrong with finding others attractive. I'd be more concerned if you *didn't*.

Attractive is different from wanting to have sex with someone. Sex to me is a couple steps after the first impression. I think sex is different today then maybe when I was growing up, and this taints the brain.

I wouldn't personally want to have sex with just anyone even if they looked good. Gotta have an attraction. I'm wondering though if attraction is different for men. Anybody think it might be?

I know if a guy talked like a mafioso I wouldn't be hopping in the sack with him even if he looked like a Greek god.

I remember till this day when I was quite young running into a guy that was super good looking, but the personality seemed dull. I asked him where he worked, he said he didn't, "I'm on welfare". No sex for you!:lol:

 

[Marilyn Monroe]

I'm very good friends with a girl who used to be an escort. All the girls she worked with were pretty to beautiful in looks, and most only took on one client a day. Of course they could afford to, seeing as they made $400 an hour. They didn't charge more for different things but they all had things they wouldn't do. They worked out of a downtown loft and had a secretary to book their appointments.

A lot of prostitution is sleezy, but not all of it is.

To me it's all sleazy. Doesn't matter if you're beautiful, clean, or whatever, it's letting someone defile your body for money.

Many of the street hookers are good-looking and have nice bodies.

 

[rivrrat]

To me it's all sleazy. Doesn't matter if you're beautiful, clean, or whatever, it's letting someone defile your body for money.

Many of the street hookers are good-looking and have nice bodies.

So it's less sleazy if I let them "defile" my body for free?

 

[1069]

To me it's all sleazy. Doesn't matter if you're beautiful, clean, or whatever, it's letting someone defile your body for money.

Many of the street hookers are good-looking and have nice bodies.

I think "sleazy" is part of the appeal.

 

[Marilyn Monroe]

So it's less sleazy if I let them "defile" my body for free?

Didn't say that. It can be sleazy for free as well.

 

[WI Crippler]

Attractive is different from wanting to have sex with someone. Sex to me is a couple steps after the first impression. I think sex is different today then maybe when I was growing up, and this taints the brain.

I wouldn't personally want to have sex with just anyone even if they looked good. Gotta have an attraction. I'm wondering though if attraction is different for men. Anybody think it might be?

Attraction for men begins with the physical. We are willing to forgive certain aspects we might find unattractive ( strange laugh, whiny voice, just plain dumb) to get them in bed for a night or two. Sex for us is in no way a means to "get to know" someone. We could really care less in the initial stages. Once we have "conquered" said female, then we have to make a decision as to whether she is
A. Out of our league in the first place, we just got lucky and shouldn't count on sticking around ( usually the woman makes this decision for us, so its best not to get attached ).
B. Nice enough, and someone we could be comfortable being with for a while.
C. Good enough for a few times, but too annoying, or some other aspect which just doesn't mesh for the long run.
D. Someone we would rather chew our arm off( like a wolf with its paw in a trap), than wake her up as you try to make your escape, and hope your buddies never find out what you did ( and yes this can happen sober too).

Men look for reasons to accept a woman into their bed, women look for reasons to reject men. I think it has to do with us wanting to spread our seed as far as the wind will take it, and womens desire for only Alpha male mating partners.

 

[Kelzie]

To me it's all sleazy. Doesn't matter if you're beautiful, clean, or whatever, it's letting someone defile your body for money.

Many of the street hookers are good-looking and have nice bodies.

How is sex in any way a defilement?

 

[WI Crippler]

How is sex in any way a defilement?

Well rape, beastiality, necrophilia, pedophilia are all sexual and I would say defiling.

But I think your intenet was in regards to consentual sex between adults. Just cleaning up the rough edges for you.

 

[Kelzie]

Well rape, beastiality, necrophilia, pedophilia are all sexual and I would say defiling.

But I think your intenet was in regards to consentual sex between adults. Just cleaning up the rough edges for you.

:lol: Thanks.

 

[WI Crippler]

Attraction for men begins with the physical. We are willing to forgive certain aspects we might find unattractive ( strange laugh, whiny voice, just plain dumb) to get them in bed for a night or two. Sex for us is in no way a means to "get to know" someone. We could really care less in the initial stages. Once we have "conquered" said female, then we have to make a decision as to whether she is
A. Out of our league in the first place, we just got lucky and shouldn't count on sticking around ( usually the woman makes this decision for us, so its best not to get attached ).
B. Nice enough, and someone we could be comfortable being with for a while.
C. Good enough for a few times, but too annoying, or some other aspect which just doesn't mesh for the long run.
D. Someone we would rather chew our arm off( like a wolf with its paw in a trap), than wake her up as you try to make your escape, and hope your buddies never find out what you did ( and yes this can happen sober too).

Men look for reasons to accept a woman into their bed, women look for reasons to reject men. I think it has to do with us wanting to spread our seed as far as the wind will take it, and womens desire for only Alpha male mating partners.

I just wanted to add this to my previous statement as well.

Most of womens annoying traits that aren't apparent on the surface, will rise up after she feels comfortable enough around you. Whether that is endearing or disgusting can depend totally on the situation.

 

[Just Me 2]

I just wanted to add this to my previous statement as well.

Most of womens annoying traits that aren't apparent on the surface, will rise up after she feels comfortable enough around you. Whether that is endearing or disgusting can depend totally on the situation.

You have a very interesting thought process.

 

[WI Crippler]

You have a very interesting thought process.

Yep, from the gut...just like it says under my user name.

 

[Just Me 2]

Yep, from the gut...just like it says under my user name.

Well you're straight forward which is always a good thing.

 

[WI Crippler]

Well you're straight forward which is always a good thing.

Not necessarily. Like when a woman asks if a dress or pair of jeans makes her look fat, the honest answer would usually be " No its not the clothes that make you look fat, its the actual fat".
But find a guy who is willing to say that to his significant other. Even I have limitations to my own machoisms, since I know what is best for my own mental sanity. Its something that, as a guy, you could say, and it would come back to bite you in the *** 3 years later. I don't need to worry about that.

 

[jallman]

Oh, I don't know. I might pay for some really mind blowing sex from a really hot guy. Especially if he was more...attentive than most guys are. But certainly not more than $100.

In college I worked for an escort service that catered to older women. There was absolutely no sex involved; these ladies would just pay to have a younger gentleman escort her to functions like the theater or social gatherings. It was pretty cool and I made some very good connections through the experience. One of my bookings with a lady who was a regular (2 or three times a year) was to the governor's Christmas party. It was a huge asset to rub elbows with some of the people in that setting...

 

[Just Me 2]

Not necessarily. Like when a woman asks if a dress or pair of jeans makes her look fat, the honest answer would usually be " No its not the clothes that make you look fat, its the actual fat".
But find a guy who is willing to say that to his significant other. Even I have limitations to my own machoisms, since I know what is best for my own mental sanity. Its something that, as a guy, you could say, and it would come back to bite you in the *** 3 years later. I don't need to worry about that.

:rofl not for me if I look like a heffer (sp?) I want to know. I would be more upset if you let me walk out of the house looking like crap. My husband tells me when I look like crap, :doh it can be good but can be bad to.

 

[WI Crippler]

:rofl not for me if I look like a heffer (sp?) I want to know. I would be more upset if you let me walk out of the house looking like crap. My husband tells me when I look like crap, :doh it can be good but can be bad to.

Well my wife has told me to tell her if I honestly think she looks bad before we go out. I only made that mistake once, as when I told her that she didn't look that good, I had to wait another 45 minutes until she finally quit pouting and put on something else. Never again.....

 

[Marilyn Monroe]

Attraction for men begins with the physical. We are willing to forgive certain aspects we might find unattractive ( strange laugh, whiny voice, just plain dumb) to get them in bed for a night or two. Sex for us is in no way a means to "get to know" someone. We could really care less in the initial stages. Once we have "conquered" said female, then we have to make a decision as to whether she is
Men look for reasons to accept a woman into their bed, women look for reasons to reject men. I think it has to do with us wanting to spread our seed as far as the wind will take it, and womens desire for only Alpha male mating partners.

It's all physical at first, you're right. Women are looking for someone strong so they can have healthy children, and men are probably looking at that, too, but mainly the looks. I'd say both are looking at the attraction angle, but it's not always looks.

I think men will settle for a partner who seems good in bed, and women won't settle for much of anything, so women actually do the choosing in the end.

I do think men have to be careful who they are having sex with because that seed might get stuck in the wrong uterus and make life a living hell from that day forward, so some strength of character has to come into play with men.

What you wrote was very funny, really enjoyed reading it.:lol: :lol: :lol:

 

[rivrrat]

:rofl not for me if I look like a heffer (sp?) I want to know. I would be more upset if you let me walk out of the house looking like crap. My husband tells me when I look like crap, :doh it can be good but can be bad to.

Precisely. :mrgreen:

I think women who ask the dreaded "does this make me look fat" , or does this look good questions are mostly wanting to be lied to. When they ask their significant others, that is.

Thing is... I *know* if it makes me look fat. I have a fricken mirror. And if there's any doubt in my mind whatsoever about how it makes me look, I ask my mother, my sister, or a close friend because I *know* they will tell me the truth. The LAST person I'm going to ask (if for some insane reason I need to ask at all) is going to be my significant other. Because I don't trust him to be honest about it due to the whole social joke about it all. And, believe me... if I did ask him and he LIED to me about it.... I would be pissed off to high hell and back. Honesty, IMO, is always best.

If I ask a question of someone, I expect an honest answer and I'm prepared for an honest answer... otherwise, I wouldn't be asking.

This is not to say, however, that one can't be tactful... *looks around at the generally untactful men*. You *can* get your point across about an unflattering outfit without hurting your girl's feelings, ya know.



And as for the "what men and women look for" issue... Most times, I'm looking for a man I find attractive (which is more than just a physical thing) and that I think is going to be good in bed.

 

[Kelzie]

In college I worked for an escort service that catered to older women. There was absolutely no sex involved; these ladies would just pay to have a younger gentleman escort her to functions like the theater or social gatherings. It was pretty cool and I made some very good connections through the experience. One of my bookings with a lady who was a regular (2 or three times a year) was to the governor's Christmas party. It was a huge asset to rub elbows with some of the people in that setting...

Huh. How much did you charge, if you don't mind me asking.

 

[jallman]

Huh. How much did you charge, if you don't mind me asking.

She charged $220 per hour with a 3 hour minimum and the escorts got $160 per hour of it. Not bad for going to a show or a dinner party...and some of these ladies were very engaging. There were also girls who worked for the service, too. However, I think men who hire escorts are actually hiring them for sex and not conversation. The girls at the service I was working for rarely ever got calls; the service was legit and sex with a client meant immediate termination.

 

[Kelzie]

She charged $220 per hour with a 3 hour minimum and the escorts got $160 per hour of it. Not bad for going to a show or a dinner party...and some of these ladies were very engaging. There were also girls who worked for the service, too. However, I think men who hire escorts are actually hiring them for sex and not conversation. The girls at the service I was working for rarely ever got calls; the service was legit and sex with a client meant immediate termination.

Yeah, I was going to say I bet the market for females as a "date" only wasn't as high.

 

[WI Crippler]

She charged $220 per hour with a 3 hour minimum and the escorts got $160 per hour of it. Not bad for going to a show or a dinner party...and some of these ladies were very engaging. There were also girls who worked for the service, too. However, I think men who hire escorts are actually hiring them for sex and not conversation. The girls at the service I was working for rarely ever got calls; the service was legit and sex with a client meant immediate termination.

If they wanted conversation they just would have brought their wives on the date, everybody knows that....:lol:

 

[taxedout]

In my experience, this is a fantasy that a lot of (younger, especially) men and boys have. .

Your experience as a man ?