So you wouldn't have attacked Pearl Harbor?
Absolutely not. Is that supposed to be a hard decision?
Prior to Pearl Harbor there was no strong American appetite for war with Japan. While most Americans, justifiably, were sickened by Japan's violent crimes in China and East Asia, this did not translate to a desire to go to war with the Empire.
Attacking Pearl Harbor removed that inhibition immediately and completely, as once incensed the American people proved perfectly willing to endure years of war if it meant revenge against Japan.
This was something American war planners had actually predicted with near 100% accuracy. They recognized that if a war with Japan broke out, they had two options; charge across the Pacific to engage the Japanese immediately, or wait back and build up a massive force then push across the Pacific in a slow, strategic effort.
The latter option was obviously the more sensible one, since it was much safer and easier (they knew Japan could never match industrial production with the United States), but it had one major flaw; it required America to commit to a long, drawn out conflict that would be difficult to justify to a population that was still strongly isolationist. They figured that there would be much clamoring for an immediate thrust to Japan; a battle that would take place with limited logistical support and right in Japan's home waters. To say that idea favored the Japanese would be an understatement. The Navy was therefore completely opposed to the idea, but they struggled to figure how they could justify an American willingness to undertake years of war that would be required for the Navy's preferred plan.
The Japanese provided that willingly by attacking Pearl Harbor, enraging the American people and providing the United States with the moral needs to justify a long, drawn out buildup period necessary for the Navy's plans. To make matters easier, the Japanese insisted on throwing their fleet across the Pacific, forcing the Imperial Navy to defend and support far flung island fortresses that the logistically hampered Japanese were incapable of doing.
Had the Japanese been more strategically inclined, they would have recognized the folly of such an effort and instead did what the US Navy hoped they wouldn't; hold back and keep a much smaller cordon of control near Japan and not attack the United States. Force Roosevelt to argue for a war in which America has not directly been drawn into, and then watch the Navy scramble to force a battle before America's typical mayfly attention span wears out.
As it turned out though, Japanese incompetence at strategy played right into American hands. After Pearl Harbor, Japan flung out its otherwise powerful surface fleet across the Pacific, diluting its strength and allowing the US Navy to slowly annihilate it over the course of four years. By the time the Americans reach Japan, something the Japanese had been trying to stop in the first place, the Japanese Navy was a shadow of its former self, unable to sally forth due to fuel shortages and with her best ships and crews lying dead somewhere at the bottom of the Pacific.