Originally Posted by Fantasea
I have no way of knowing why all of those who left the Church did so. However, in the case of some of the historical figures the reasons are clear.
My guess would be that, currently, the most popular reasons for 'jumping ship' are the inability to extricate one's self from a marriage which is ecclesiastically valid, problems relating to pregnancy, and heterosexuals and homosexuals who don't wish to remain celibate.
Those who 'jump ship' are always able to find shelter in any of a number of 'ports' whose doctrinal docks have been constructed so as to provide a 'snug harbor' in which one may 'tie up'. If the first chosen berth is not a sufficiently comfortable fit, there are always plenty of other locations to sample.
Did you just speak for me?
If this is how it seems, I can only seek refuge behind the word 'coincidence'.
Personally I left the Church for a combination of reasons, least of which is the Church's treatment of homosexuals-the hatred and animosity is something i don't like to see from anyone. My number one reason was that I just lost my faith in God. I had a lot happen in a short amount of time, I began to realize that my religion wasn't providing me with ****,
It's difficult to make a comment on such a statement. It's even more difficult to do so without seeming to be preaching a sermon. However, I'll try.
The Church teaches the love of the person, regardless of sexual orientation, but not the acceptance of behavior which is in conflict with its teachings. It is unfortunate that there are those Catholics who do not hew sufficiently close to the line and behave inordinately toward homosexuals. The teachings of the one should not be confused with the actions of the others.
To blame God for misfortunes which may befall one is not ususual. There is a school of thought which urges, in times of difficulty, to prayerfully seek the release of the strength which is in all of us to overcome, to prevail, to endure, or whatever fortitudinal characteristic is required to wend our way through the bramble thickets of life.
As an example, many miracles have occured at Lourdes. However, the thousands upon thousands of pilgrims to the Shrine at Lourdes do not seek miraculous cures. What they do seek and receive is the serenity to accept their disability and to continue their lives to the fullest within the limitations of their handicap. Some of the handicaps are physical, some of the handicaps are spiritual.
Most of the spiritual handicaps are self-inflicted psycholigical wounds. Given the age of the world and the number of humans who have inhabited it since Adam and Eve, there is nothing that can befall any of us that hasn't happened to millions of others. Who among us has not suffered misfortune or great sadness? The key is not what has happened, but the way we react to what has happened. Will we permit trouble to weaken us or use it as an opportunity it to make us stronger?
No matter what, life goes on. The individual decides how to live it.
With attribution to Abraham Lincoln, "I reckon everybody is just about as happy as he makes up his mind to be."
I began to realize that its a "bunch of crackpot teachings" that come from a book written 300 years after the fact, etc, etc, etc. I am sure I will be back someday, but I just have to work out some issues first.
It's easier than you think. Just step into the confessional and say, Father, I've been away and I want to come home. He'll take it from there.
The relief will be instantaneous and you'll feel as if you never left.
Somehow, I think this may have turned into a sermon. For that, I apologize.