I don't think any of us should express certainty about what we would do if we
had to pick between two options, with no possible "I'd do this instead. . . "
The answer is clear if it's
just you or
just them. A person who deserves the breath he draws does not betray a child to save their hide. But...
But what if one group will necessarily die as a result of your choice:
Your wife and children. Or someone else's wife and children.
The article says: "
A team including an ex-FBI agent said Arnold van den Bergh, a Jewish figure in Amsterdam, probably "gave up" the Franks to save his own family. . ."When van den Bergh lost all his series of protections exempting him from having to go to the camps, he had to provide something valuable to the Nazis that he's had contact with to let him and his wife at that time stay safe," former FBI agent Vince Pankoke told CBS 60 Minutes."
Another indicates both families had children:
"Arnold van den Bergh was a prominent Jewish businessman with a wife and kids in Amsterdam."
I wouldn't dare say what I
would do in such a situation. Knowing myself, I'm not the sort to sit, wait, and hope. I'd do everything in my power (while not getting anyone else killed) to get my wife and child out. And then... and then I'd have to decide whether my duty to my people compels me to stay in fight in some hopeless resistance, or whether my duty to my son requires me to flee with them.
I often think to myself "he's still so young, so helpless. My duty is absolute". But what of my people? Their children? I..... don't know.
I don't think I could bring myself to betray another family, even if I wanted to. But I always make a point of not swearing what I would do in situations so far beyond anything I've faced. Everyone has moments of weakness. Might I give in and do it? I can't swear there is no possibility. I'd hate myself eternally and probably ruin my own family, drowning myself in something to keep guilt at bay. It'd probably be an even worse outcome than simply taking our chances. I certainly hope against hope I would not betray.