No, it was not. It was completely IRRATIONAL. She allowed her emotions to react, not her mind to act.
Back in the day, and even still today, we Black folk had a game of insults we would play. Shooting the dozens, Snapping, Cappin, etc., where we used WORDS to reduce someone to mush in front of everyone present.
Basically someone insults you and you snap back harder and harsher.
All she had to do was rank him with her words, burning him in front of friends and witnesses...and she would have walked away with both pride and the winner.
Race baiting? Typical response of someone who has no other argument.
Next time, take a lesson from this incident:
Now I think that you know I am Black too, but I also know you don't care...you fall into the class of "if you don't agree, I can label you anything I want" ad hominem response. :naughty
Which means you have no argument.
NO!
That would mean a constant issue of fights with anyone using the justification "someone talked "...." so they deserved to be hit. :doh
For example, so many members of this Forum talk "...." as demonstrated in this thread and others. We'd all be boxing several times a day, every day if your point was accepted.