Very good post here, my friend. I'd just add that a difficult thing to address is cultural-familial awareness. An individual may be part of a social-culture or family group that never passed-on the values to their children, that you describe as being necessary for you to provide assistance.
For some of us, we take it for granted that we all know the basics of showing-up on time, dressing appropriately, acting appropriately, etc., etc. But you need to learn that from somewhere, and not everyone has that opportunity. And in the world of work, no one wants to train anyone in those life-skills; they expect the proper skills to be present, and if not the hiring authority will simply move on to another candidate.
So in some cases it's not enough to provide a little social assistance in the form of a few bucks, or some food, or some job training. The individual may need to learn some basic life-skills & understanding of the employment word they need to enter. Until that individual growth occurs, some individuals my be seen as appearing unworthy or unappreciative, when in reality they may be simply, but tragically, unawares.
Anyway, obviously I'm a political liberal. But I think you presented the conservative viewpoint very well in your post. Despite my liberal politics, I am conservative in my personal life. I very mush agree with what you put forth in your post. After 'honesty' and 'compassion', there's nothing much more important than 'personally responsibility'. But then my dad beat that into me, like his dad beat it into him, and I in-turn beat it into my kids. Some of us are just lucky!