What things irritate you that your spouse/partner always does
Talking....
On a serious note, my wife is completely incapable of telling me what she wants, and instead takes me on a convoluted, tortuous route to try and figure out exactly what it is she wants. An example(I think I have shared this before)
Wife wants to go out for Chinese food.
Wife: I feel like going out to eat tonight.
Me: Ok
Wife: What do you want?
Me: There is nothing in particular, whatever you want is fine.
Wife: Well just pick something
Me: Ok, let's go out for pizza
Wife:Ugh, I don't want pizza tonight
Me: Ok, well where do you want to go?
Wife: I don't care, just pick something that isn't pizza.
Me: Ok, let's go out for some wings and a few drinks
Wife: No, I'm not in the mood for that either.
Me: Well then just pick whatever you want, I don't care.
Wife: Just pick something
Me: I tried twice and you said no, so just pick somewhere and we will go
Wife: Why do you hate me?
Me: Forget this, let's just stay home.
Wife 1 hour later: I was really in the mood for chinese.
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