What I look for in a woman

[noonereal]

Wallets don't have sex appeal. They just have greed appeal.

My posts on this are established science.

You are obviously posting from a biased emotional perspective.

 

[Josie]

Wallets don't have sex appeal. They just have greed appeal.

It doesn’t appeal to me. As long as he’s hard-working and makes intelligent financial decisions it doesn’t matter to me how much money he makes.

 

[maquiscat]

Finding a woman with the right set of attributes: physical, mental & psychological - is very difficult. I have found that most women are not innately sexy. There's always some psychosocial barrier for her to be a sex goddess. For instance, I don't think I've ever met a woman who gave fellatio for its own sake instead of itjust being an occasional wifely duty.

You my friend have a very limited experience then.

 

[maquiscat]

I can't blame women for generally not being as into us as we are into them. We men are retched things.

Can't argue with you there. I actually made a female profile for Yahoo chat rooms (way back in the day) for the purpose of RPG's. We needed some NPCs for story progression. I had barely gotten into the chat room when emails and IM (as they were called back then) came flooding in wanting to bone "me".

 

[maquiscat]

Mechanical proficiency is a plus but does anyone else find the emotional/psychological part even more important?

Actually yes. I have yet to bed a partner that I didn't have some emotional attachment to. It might not be a spend the rest of our lives together level, but there was always an emotional attachment of some sort.

 

[Ringo Stalin]

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Mmmm, even if you put a canvas potato bag on her, she'll still look provocatively...)))

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[JacksinPA]

 

[Jean-s]

To be frank, I'm a breast man. A quick glance at rhe face & hair is inevitably followed by a detailed - and prolonged - examination of her chest. I'm not interested in flat chested women. And I'm not looking for 36DDD either. Size, shape & appearance are what I'm interested in. And extensive cleavage is a bonus.

Since I was born during the last days of WW2, I don't know if I was breast or bottle fed. So I can't claim that experience is the basis for my attraction.

You might find a porn site more appealing than DebatePolitics. In the event you give them a try, it was nice seeing you here.

 

[JacksinPA]

Photographs of full clothed & attractive young women is not in itself pornography.

 

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[beancounter]

I can't blame women for generally not being as into us as we are into them. We men are retched things.

Speak for yourself. As for me, I'm too sexy for my shirt. ☺

 

[beancounter]

The "problem" with large breasts, is that they sag sooner as a women ages.

 

[JacksinPA]

This thread is 'What I look for in a woman.' I would not kick Paige Spirinac out of bed.

 

[Lisa]

The most physically admired women of that era looked like that, so it's pretty simple, isn't it?
Those are the kind of women who were admired for their looks the most back when I was first visited by "impure thoughts" as well.

But I've fallen for all kinds at this point. My wife isn't super endowed up top but what she has is, if you don't mind my saying, spectacular. At 54 she still has the body of a girl in her thirties and I don't know how she does it but I am glad. I guess she is a C but not sure because she does not wear bras unless she is wearing a sheer or tight fitting blouse of some kind, otherwise she's in a tee shirt and "free range".
She has C cup bras...but I hear that American bra sizing is all screwball, so who knows.

My first wife on the other hand struggled to cram them into any bra she had, which were all DD or triple D and it didn't matter, they were busting out all over anyway.

But @grip made an important point because once Wife #1 lost her marbles to addiction the passion went away and no matter what kind of body she had, it didn't have any effect on me anymore.

I think that my proclivities matured as I matured. In my younger years I always pursued a "type" and wound up getting everything I thought I wanted. (perks of playing in a band with a following)
Yeah, I guess I still have a type I find attractive but as it turns out, I've deviated from that type and instead of only finding a thrill, I've found real happiness as a bonus in addition to the thrill.

So I guess I can more easily describe what doesn't attract me instead, and it boils down to a case of "too much" of almost anything. Once I hit my late twenties I steered clear of women who showed obvious signs of having had a half dozen or more enhancement procedures. They almost never look right and they almost always wind up looking very wrong in short order. Inflated lips, boobs, butt, eyebrows, lots of ink and piercings everywhere, after a while you end up staring at a store mannequin.
I'll go for a woman with a few flaws instead, because it's not that big a deal to me, it's nonsense.
The passion counts a lot more.

So, what I look for in a woman...now, at my age, is what I have now...a very passionate and adorable lady who is smart, strong and downright adorable. She's a cutie pie, too.
But most of all, she's a firecracker and I noticed that the very moment I first met her way back in 1984.
And it's not like it was obvious, I just had the right spidey ability to sense it, I guess.

I'll give you the like for the humor, and honesty. .

I could explain bra sizing to you, but it would be a very long post.

 

[JacksinPA]

I'll give you the like for the humor, and honesty. .

I could explain bra sizing to you, but it would be a very long post.

There is so much variation in the size & shape of the female breast that correct bra sizing has to be difficult. And the breast changes in size & shape throughout the monthly cycle: https://www.webmd.com/women/guide/breast-changes-menstrual-cycle

 

[Lisa]

There is so much variation in the size & shape of the female breast that correct bra sizing has to be difficult.

Start with measuring around the chest size and then measure over the largest point of the bust size. Subtract the two to get cup size. Some bra sizes add 2-3 inches to the chest size for their chest measurement.

The problem beings when various bra makes have different sized or shaped cups and then there are 5+ different sizing parameters depending on the country where it is designed. Many use the US size as a baseline, but some use the UK, which is mostly the same. Then you have the metric sizes in mainland Europe. Chinese bra sizes tend to run quite small. Australia has its own size system that I have yet to understand.

Victoria's Secret bras are overpriced junk and their store associates don't know how to measure you. Macy's isn't perfect but they are better than VS for sizing.

I know my size for about 5-6 different brands, but there are some bras that don't fit me in any size or don't fit right because they don't fit my body style. .


Don't hurt yourself watching these videos.

 

[Checkerboard Strangler]

I'll give you the like for the humor, and honesty. .

I could explain bra sizing to you, but it would be a very long post.

Oh no I do understand how bra sizing is SUPPOSED to work.
I just don't believe manufacturers are doing a good job of it, that's all.
Plus, unless you're endowed like my first wife I wonder if a bra even does anything good.
Some folks have concluded that a bra is actually worse for the suppleness of your breasts and really serve only to mask the nipples if they become aroused. Pasties can do that.

 

[Lisa]

Oh no I do understand how bra sizing is SUPPOSED to work.
I just don't believe manufacturers are doing a good job of it, that's all.
Plus, unless you're endowed like my first wife I wonder if a bra even does anything good.

I have to wear a supportive bra because it's not comfortable if I don't. I even wear a bra camisole to bed because I like the support.

Some folks have concluded that a bra is actually worse for the suppleness of your breasts and really serve only to mask the nipples if they become aroused. Pasties can do that.

I often wear a nipple cover under some non-molded bras because mine are very obvious. I could possibly key a car on a cold winter day.

 

[Checkerboard Strangler]

I have to wear a supportive bra because it's not comfortable if I don't. I even wear a bra camisole to bed because I like the support.



I often wear a nipple cover under some non-molded bras because mine are very obvious. I could possibly key a car on a cold winter day.

Well you DID say you were "packing".
I have a good memory for that stuff, and that's all I plan to say so I don't get in trouble.
Key a car...hummina hummina hummina.

 

[Lisa]

Well you DID say you were "packing".
I have a good memory for that stuff, and that's all I plan to say so I don't get in trouble.

I'm not mad.

 

[JacksinPA]

I get turned on by nursing bras, shelf bras & open tip bras.

 

[Lisa]

I get turned on by nursing bras, shelf bras & open tip bras.

How does someone get turn on by a nursing bra? They are boring and usually beige.

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[maquiscat]

How does someone get turn on by a nursing bra? They are boring and usually beige.

Hands Free Pumping Seamless Nursing Bra

Pump or nurse anywhere in comfort with our Hands Free Pumping Seamless Nursing Bra! Featuring a slip opening for the pump flange, perfect for the mom on the go.

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Full Coverage Back Smoothing Clip Down Maternity and Nursing Bra

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To each his own. It's amazing the number of things that will turn men on.

 

[maquiscat]

To be frank, I'm a breast man. A quick glance at rhe face & hair is inevitably followed by a detailed - and prolonged - examination of her chest. I'm not interested in flat chested women. And I'm not looking for 36DDD either. Size, shape & appearance are what I'm interested in. And extensive cleavage is a bonus.

Since I was born during the last days of WW2, I don't know if I was breast or bottle fed. So I can't claim that experience is the basis for my attraction.

Realized that I hadn't responded to the OP itself.

While there are a lot of things that I look for over all, the face will spin me up fastest. Certain facial features/builds that I can't even begin to figure out how to describe, just turn me right on. I find that I am also attracted to, I think thicc is the current word, women. Heavier set, but not necessarily huge. Clothing can also do more than naked. The right outfit and bam, I'm hooked.