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Don't beat yourself up Hawkeye. Not a father alive doesn't think or wish they could have done a better job here or there. Kids don't come with instruction booklets you know.
You just play it like you know it, do the best you know how, and hope for the best.
And NEVER forget as your children are growing up and maturing, so are we. And we will continue to mature until the day we die. No one was born with all the answers.
And, from what I gathered, you seem to have a lot of love for your kids and are approaching your days to come with eyes wide open. You have made yourself available and I would venture to guess that your kids will never get to old to hug and love.
In my book, that makes you a good dad. Keep up the good work.
NOTE: neither my wife nor I have ever abused the kids.
When I ask the kids now the general response is "things growing up were crazy, stuff happened that should never happen, but you never lied to us and you taught us to be smart strong individuals, which is as unusual as it is appreciated".
I score that as a win but dang I am retired now, I have all the time in the world, I wish I was spending more of it with my kids.