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What Do Men and Women Fantasize About During Masterbation?

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I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?
 
I'm nearly 60.

Most of my fantasies are about being 15 again.
 
I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?

I think of things that turn me on and I'm not about to go into that :3oops: but to answer your question it's not exactly romance.
 
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I think of things that turn me on and I'm not about to go into that :3oops: but to answer your question it's not exactly romance.

Well darn, that will have me fantasizing the rest of the day ;0
 
I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?

What I've read is that women are more likely to think about someone they know, or someone they're exposed to -- a partner, a crush, a hot celebrity. Guys are more likely to not have a particular person in mind and it's more about the acts involved.

Not so much about romance or not. Women have plenty of very non-romantic fantasies.
 
I don't really fantasize when I masturbate. I just watch some porn online and jerk off as quick as I can.
 
I always liked to fantasize about space travel when I'm having sex. It's more, well, majestic, than all that grunting and moaning stuff.
 
I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?

No - not close for me. I read romance but don't fantasize anything of the sort - not even soft, romantic love making. My thoughts are usually debased, carnal, and raw. I don't get off to feel whole or complete - I get off because I need to get off. . . and sometimes I'm watching porn (something extreme - none of that cheesy situational or fluffy stuff)
 
Sorry, but romance is not even on the radar during masturbation for me.
 
Sorry, but romance is not even on the radar during masturbation for me.

Chinese people call it ''making love with ghosts''...
 
I'm male and I kind of hate porn. It is so boring to me. What I love is erotica. There are stories that I read as a teenager that I still remember well enough to use as masturbation material. I like an emotional connection or situational context, not just sex.
 
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