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What Do Men and Women Fantasize About During Masterbation?

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I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?
 

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I'm nearly 60.

Most of my fantasies are about being 15 again.
 

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I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?
I think of things that turn me on and I'm not about to go into that :3oops: but to answer your question it's not exactly romance.
 
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I think of things that turn me on and I'm not about to go into that :3oops: but to answer your question it's not exactly romance.
Well darn, that will have me fantasizing the rest of the day ;0
 

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I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?
What I've read is that women are more likely to think about someone they know, or someone they're exposed to -- a partner, a crush, a hot celebrity. Guys are more likely to not have a particular person in mind and it's more about the acts involved.

Not so much about romance or not. Women have plenty of very non-romantic fantasies.
 

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I don't really fantasize when I masturbate. I just watch some porn online and jerk off as quick as I can.
 

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I always liked to fantasize about space travel when I'm having sex. It's more, well, majestic, than all that grunting and moaning stuff.
 

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I would guess women do not think the same same thoughts as men do. Men think more of pure sex/orgasm while women I'll guess think more of romance. Am I even close?
No - not close for me. I read romance but don't fantasize anything of the sort - not even soft, romantic love making. My thoughts are usually debased, carnal, and raw. I don't get off to feel whole or complete - I get off because I need to get off. . . and sometimes I'm watching porn (something extreme - none of that cheesy situational or fluffy stuff)
 

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Sorry, but romance is not even on the radar during masturbation for me.
 

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Sorry, but romance is not even on the radar during masturbation for me.
Chinese people call it ''making love with ghosts''...
 

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I'm male and I kind of hate porn. It is so boring to me. What I love is erotica. There are stories that I read as a teenager that I still remember well enough to use as masturbation material. I like an emotional connection or situational context, not just sex.
 
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