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Okay, so he's a narcissistic super douche. That's hardly desirable, but it's not exactly something unique to men, or "masculinity," in general either. It should also be noted that he's a reality tv star, and that they tend to be explicitly selected to either superficially appeal towards, or offend, audiences in an artificially exaggerated manner. I'd hardly view him as being representative of much of anything beyond a bad stereotype as such.
In any case, as far as all this "toxic masculinity" talk is concerned, I'd say it really depends on how one defines the term. A lot of radical feminists like to throw it around as applying to everything from military service and sports participation to basically the entirety of modern culture where it does not directly conform to their own, subjective and ideologically defined, conception of how men "should" not only behave, but also think. Where that usage is concerned, I'd say the whole concept is really only another example of the kind of Orwell-esque cultural authoritarianism and thought-control which the ideological Left has been guilty of trying to impose upon popular discourse in general for years.
The above being said, however, I do think the argument could be made that the man described in the OP counts as a legitimate example of someone being "testosterone poisoned," if nothing else. The only point I'd make there is that this is a deliberate, and reactionary, state of affairs. No one gets to be this much of a "super douche" by accident. It's basically a kind of "alternative lifestyle."
After all, when an obnoxious and vocal minority goes deliberately out of its way to not only attack, demonize, and demean traditional masculinity, but prop something obnoxious, like, say, this...
... Up in its place, you really shouldn't be surprised when an equally obnoxious and vocal minority pushes back and props something like this...
...Up as a counter-point at the other extreme of the spectrum.
For every action, there is an equal, and opposite, reaction.
In any case, as far as all this "toxic masculinity" talk is concerned, I'd say it really depends on how one defines the term. A lot of radical feminists like to throw it around as applying to everything from military service and sports participation to basically the entirety of modern culture where it does not directly conform to their own, subjective and ideologically defined, conception of how men "should" not only behave, but also think. Where that usage is concerned, I'd say the whole concept is really only another example of the kind of Orwell-esque cultural authoritarianism and thought-control which the ideological Left has been guilty of trying to impose upon popular discourse in general for years.
The above being said, however, I do think the argument could be made that the man described in the OP counts as a legitimate example of someone being "testosterone poisoned," if nothing else. The only point I'd make there is that this is a deliberate, and reactionary, state of affairs. No one gets to be this much of a "super douche" by accident. It's basically a kind of "alternative lifestyle."
After all, when an obnoxious and vocal minority goes deliberately out of its way to not only attack, demonize, and demean traditional masculinity, but prop something obnoxious, like, say, this...
... Up in its place, you really shouldn't be surprised when an equally obnoxious and vocal minority pushes back and props something like this...
...Up as a counter-point at the other extreme of the spectrum.
For every action, there is an equal, and opposite, reaction.
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