I agree. No doubt you and I benefited from people who invested in us, and I think the country would be a better place if more people did this. Some people just have to work harder because life isn't fair. My point, however, is that the primary responsibility rests with the individual. Regardless of whatever hand we're dealt in life, every person has a duty to take personal responsibility for himself. If he's unwilling to do that, then why should anyone else? No one is entitled to purchase a new car. So if he let's his desires get the better of him and he takes out an eight-year loan in order to satisfy those desires, is that his parents' or society's fault? I don't think so.
Then you and I just disagree.
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I realize that life isn't fair which is why I advance the idea of equal opportunity, not equal outcome. Fairness is an issue, not because anyone
deserves anything, but because in this nation we have the capability to provide that fairness in a way that only a few places on earth can. Standing on the shoulders of all the great people that helped make this country what it is, we can, as we advance, make it even better.
The Constitution says that all men are created equal that our rights are endowed by our creator. Is this true? No it's not true, not in the sense that 1+1=2 is true. It's true in the sense that we all believe it and that we are willing to fight for it because we understand through experience what these ideals result in. The founders didn't include provisions about "equal opportunity", because 250 years ago that was impossible. Today we could make equal opportunity just as true as being created equal. All that needs to happen is we need to believe it. I can't for the life of me understand how selfishness and narcissism can be paraded as a fight for freedom and liberty.
Imagine if the cells in your body behaved the way that you're suggesting we should behave as a society. If enough don't contribute or are just inefficient, just because they don't want to and no one can make them, the body they all inhabit dies, bad for everyone.
If you're born into wealth with very little effort you can succeed and if your born into poverty, you can work 1000 times harder and never achieve a fraction of the same success. I don't take issue with the lack of work of the wealthy child, I take issue with the child who may have the potential to cure cancer, find the key to fusion power or revolutionize agriculture and feed the world, but we'll never unlock his potential because he was born to a crack addicted mom who doesn't want him, his potential squandered because we, as a nation, haven't figured out how to create an environment any better than that of a litter of 9 puppy's competing for 8 teets.
There is the false idea that the tougher the situation you put people in the harder they will work to get out of it . In the aggregate this is wrong. As soon as people lose sight of the light at the end of the tunnel most stop trying. As soon as hope of a better life can't be seen then they ask themselves, why bother trying? Desperation is a culture that people can become trapped in and infect each other with it. Even if you cite examples of people emerging from the underclass, I'd point out of every success, there are 10 failures. The underclass will grow until the system brakes.
Do people that come from poor countries and succeed here in the US have a better work ethic? Are they smarter? Nope, they come to America and they see the light, and have a feeling of hope because many have seen or experienced poverty and suffering on a scale that most people can't imagine.
Feelings of fairness have behavioral benefits that are hard to quantify, but one only has to look at rates of teenage pregnancy, drug use, alcoholism, incarceration, murder, rape and a litany of financial crimes, generally all lower in societies of greater equality.
Does that mean that giving opportunity will turn every person around? No, but it's a pretty good litmus test. If you show a person "the light" and they turn away, they probably don't have the desire to be productive anyway, but what you have done is remove the excuse.
Having said all of this, it shouldn't surprise me that, after having grown up in a good nuclear family. One that invested in you, both in love any money, that you should be emotionally disconnected from others. Perhaps if you had to walk a mile in some of the shoes you would so easily let fail, you'd have a different perspective.
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